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Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy just like to complement a good looking woman |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Prob nor what you want to hear OP but another woman here who thinks that sounds creepy.
What's your objective? If it's to make her feel good then perhaps reassess as we feel creeped out and weirded out at someone mmmm-ing at us. |
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over a year ago
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Mmmm
MmHmm hmm hmph
Hmmmu hu hu hu
Mu hu ah ah aaaah 
I'm ah lookin and I'm ah likin.. with some fava beans and a nice chianti sth sth sth
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't find it complimentary. Firstly I would assume it was aimed at someone else and then if I realised it was aimed at me I would feel weirded out by a complete stranger obviously having sexual thoughts about me. I'm a person going about my day, not an object to be leered at. Even if that wasn't the intention, that is exactly how I would read the situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the interesting fallouts from the Harvey Weinstein case is that too many men are utterly clueless as to what is- and isn't- acceptable behaviour.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of the interesting fallouts from the Harvey Weinstein case is that too many men are utterly clueless as to what is- and isn't- acceptable behaviour. "
Do you think it’s a generational thing? Every time something similar has ever happened to me it’s been an older guy |
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"One of the interesting fallouts from the Harvey Weinstein case is that too many men are utterly clueless as to what is- and isn't- acceptable behaviour.
Do you think it’s a generational thing? Every time something similar has ever happened to me it’s been an older guy "
I'm older so I don't get any younger men attracted to me (that may then be inappropriate) so can't really say. |
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"One of the interesting fallouts from the Harvey Weinstein case is that too many men are utterly clueless as to what is- and isn't- acceptable behaviour. "
I think lots of men have no idea. Mr N and I were chatting in the wake of the HW revelations and I was saying that the men who do understand these things often don't realise how many guys find it acceptable to comment sexually to a woman. It doesn't happen to me now but when I was younger it wasn't unusual for complete strangers to comment on my breasts, in the street as I went about my business. It isn't generational young women nowadays experience it too. Some men truly believe that women are first and foremost sex objects. |
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy just like to complement a good looking woman"
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? |
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? "
maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad |
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over a year ago
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At a guess most of them are so shocked they don't have time to frame a polite version of Fuck Off or Creep or are trying to get away fast. Sounds so lecherous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad"
Maybe they’re just being polite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it limited to a friendly smile if you happen to make eye contact. Anything else is sexual harrassment.
Would you be happy for someone to do that to your mum,granny, sister or daughter (delete as appropriate)."
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad"
So no, then. |
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad "
And given the fact you were 22 back then, have you not grown up? |
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Totally creepy, repulsive in fact.
I have a charismatic male friend who regularly compliments women, he will openly and enthusiastically say, with a broad grin, 'Wow you look totally fantastic in that dress!!!' and that kind of compliment has always gone down well.
It's the creepy, pervy, 'hmmm' or uninvited sexual comment that is so, so wrong! |
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i think its tricky. everyone likes to be complimented but the way you described it would feel a bit creepy to me as well.
maybe find some other ways to do it? I know it really made my day once when I was in town smiling to myself and an older guy said "keep on smiling- it brightens up the day for everyone" and just continued on his way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally creepy, repulsive in fact.
I have a charismatic male friend who regularly compliments women, he will openly and enthusiastically say, with a broad grin, 'Wow you look totally fantastic in that dress!!!' and that kind of compliment has always gone down well.
It's the creepy, pervy, 'hmmm' or uninvited sexual comment that is so, so wrong!"
I assure you my comment was firmly tongue in cheek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad"
Bro they're just being polite and if they are a little introverted they'll not want to be a "bitch" and earn your masculine disapproval. It's not the mmm itself, it's the fact that it's an opener with no prior contact or context. Of course none of us are there to see you in action so maybe you are just a smooth heartthrob with the ladies but I'm guessing you wouldn't have asked if you were thoroughly convinced that your methods are failsafe. If a woman did that to me I'd think, what a creep.. unless it was Beyoncé |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I message some ladies I think have a gorgeous face and figure.....
All I get is a delete!
Saying it to a stranger in the street is risky! "
if someone sends me a nice message like that I always say thanks and have had some lovely chats as a result. I suppose in public it would depend on where and how it's said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's creepy I was letched over in my local swimming pool the other week, don't do it.
Hmmm, what were you wearing though???a one piece swimsuit."
You tease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If some guy mmmm'd at me when I was going about my daily business I'd be pissed off because 9 times out of 10 I'd have my child with me.
IF I was on a night out and a guy I thought was handsome gave me a compliment or mmm'd at me or whatever, I'd accompany him to the smoking area and have a feel of his penis. |
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad"
When confronted with an inappropriate comment or touch supposedly done to be complimentary, it often puts women on guard and anxious, we then adopt a positive or tolerant reply or repose because anything else may entice the creep to become aggressive and that we don't want to deal with.
Total strangers gaslight me here when I defend myself from their bullshit self entitlement.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If some guy mmmm'd at me when I was going about my daily business I'd be pissed off because 9 times out of 10 I'd have my child with me.
IF I was on a night out and a guy I thought was handsome gave me a compliment or mmm'd at me or whatever, I'd accompany him to the smoking area and have a feel of his penis. "
I think you're right, you need to consider the context of such attention. What is unacceptable in a office can be fine on a night out, but it's also how it's interpreted too. Sometimes people are just waiting to be "offended" by something |
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It all sounds a bit cringy to me. If you’re single and genuinely find a lady attractive why not just approach her and tell her she’s beautiful or something? Even if she’s not interested you’d make her feel good about herself. Ogling and ‘hmmmm’ noises are a bit immature and uncomfortable. Mrs x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It all sounds a bit cringy to me. If you’re single and genuinely find a lady attractive why not just approach her and tell her she’s beautiful or something? Even if she’s not interested you’d make her feel good about herself. Ogling and ‘hmmmm’ noises are a bit immature and uncomfortable. Mrs x "
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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OP.
If they are ‘nice to you’ in reply it’s because they don’t want the hassle and abuse that comes from saying how it really makes them feel.
Just google ‘why is catcalling bad’ or look at the tweets by women on #everydaysexism
It’s not acceptable. It’s not appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy mjust like to complement a good looking woman
Given that so many have said they would not appreciate this behaviour, OP -- will you stop? maybe not stop but definitely read the situation better ive had more ladies smile and say thanks than not and have never been told to fuck off yet in fact about 14 year ago i smiled and said your stunning to a girl and when i was on my lunch she walked in the pub i was in we ended up living together for 3 years so not all bad
When confronted with an inappropriate comment or touch supposedly done to be complimentary, it often puts women on guard and anxious, we then adopt a positive or tolerant reply or repose because anything else may entice the creep to become aggressive and that we don't want to deal with.
Total strangers gaslight me here when I defend myself from their bullshit self entitlement.
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So. Bloody. True. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds pretty creepy to me. "
This
Mmmm nice....I think I’ll stalk you across the car park
Then tap on your window....
Asking for your number...
True story!
MrsK x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never forget when I was in maguluf and I went back to the room to change and was walking alone back down the strip to the bar my friends were in, some guy was following me asking if I wanted to fuck him and before I even had a chance to tell him to fuck off he fell over the concrete boulder things that's along the pavements! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I never forget when I was in maguluf and I went back to the room to change and was walking alone back down the strip to the bar my friends were in, some guy was following me asking if I wanted to fuck him and before I even had a chance to tell him to fuck off he fell over the concrete boulder things that's along the pavements!"
well I guess that stopped him then lol
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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Mr writing here
Very interesting responses from the ladies.
I have complimented a few women in public and never had a bad reaction only positive. I don't make a habit of it but occasionally I've seen a woman look so good ' in herself ' ( not necessarily drop dead beautiful) that a compliment is given.
However it is VERY important in the way, when and how it is done.
1. Never do it you women much much younger than you- that's creepy.Always compliment around the same age.
2. Make the compliment clear to the lady. NOT mmmm
3. Be clear your not trying to chat her up.
4. Always make sure you are smartly dressed yourself. Not dressed in your gardening togs or just rolled out of bed.
5. Then walk away.
So for example, I saw a lady who looked amazing in a business suit and just looked fantastic. She was not stunning model but she looked great and was on her own. I was dressed in a business suit.
So I walked up to her and she ' excuse me please. I'm not chatting you up as I'm married. However I just want to say you look absolutely fantastic. In fact so good I felt I needed to tell you.
Now I wish you a good day and a super week ahead '. Then I walked away.
The ladies reaction?
A big smile, a thank you and you could see her glow and grow in stature.
So it's not alwYs creepy. It like everything. It's how and when it's done along with the timing.
Looking forward to being blocked now !!!
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Mr writing here
Very interesting responses from the ladies.
I have complimented a few women in public and never had a bad reaction only positive. I don't make a habit of it but occasionally I've seen a woman look so good ' in herself ' ( not necessarily drop dead beautiful) that a compliment is given.
However it is VERY important in the way, when and how it is done.
1. Never do it you women much much younger than you- that's creepy.Always compliment around the same age.
2. Make the compliment clear to the lady. NOT mmmm
3. Be clear your not trying to chat her up.
4. Always make sure you are smartly dressed yourself. Not dressed in your gardening togs or just rolled out of bed.
5. Then walk away.
So for example, I saw a lady who looked amazing in a business suit and just looked fantastic. She was not stunning model but she looked great and was on her own. I was dressed in a business suit.
So I walked up to her and she ' excuse me please. I'm not chatting you up as I'm married. However I just want to say you look absolutely fantastic. In fact so good I felt I needed to tell you.
Now I wish you a good day and a super week ahead '. Then I walked away.
The ladies reaction?
A big smile, a thank you and you could see her glow and grow in stature.
So it's not alwYs creepy. It like everything. It's how and when it's done along with the timing.
Looking forward to being blocked now !!!
Excuse the text layout. Fab doesn't seem to like iPads "
that's not creepy, it's in the right context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's creepy I was letched over in my local swimming pool the other week, don't do it.
Hmmm, what were you wearing though???a one piece swimsuit.
You tease "
"Mmm" or very nice in passing would creep me out too, that's not a compliment it's letchy. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Mr writing here
Very interesting responses from the ladies.
I have complimented a few women in public and never had a bad reaction only positive. I don't make a habit of it but occasionally I've seen a woman look so good ' in herself ' ( not necessarily drop dead beautiful) that a compliment is given.
However it is VERY important in the way, when and how it is done.
1. Never do it you women much much younger than you- that's creepy.Always compliment around the same age.
2. Make the compliment clear to the lady. NOT mmmm
3. Be clear your not trying to chat her up.
4. Always make sure you are smartly dressed yourself. Not dressed in your gardening togs or just rolled out of bed.
5. Then walk away.
So for example, I saw a lady who looked amazing in a business suit and just looked fantastic. She was not stunning model but she looked great and was on her own. I was dressed in a business suit.
So I walked up to her and she ' excuse me please. I'm not chatting you up as I'm married. However I just want to say you look absolutely fantastic. In fact so good I felt I needed to tell you.
Now I wish you a good day and a super week ahead '. Then I walked away.
The ladies reaction?
A big smile, a thank you and you could see her glow and grow in stature.
So it's not alwYs creepy. It like everything. It's how and when it's done along with the timing.
Looking forward to being blocked now !!!
Excuse the text layout. Fab doesn't seem to like iPads "
That's because it doesn't sound creepy!
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy just like to complement a good looking woman"
Very creepy
Good article on r4 today about sexual harassment
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By (user no longer on site)
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I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that! |
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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Hi
Thanks.
It took me sooo long to type it out and fight fabs text box I missed some of the replies.
Yes I totally agree. A guy going ' mmmmmm' ' nice' as he walks past a lady or she past him is just creepy and intimidating.
Even more so if the guys much older than the woman. Say a 50 year old man doing it to a 25 old woman. That's being a letch
If it's a mother with a child then it's totally disrespectful and out of order.
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"Mr writing here
Very interesting responses from the ladies.
I have complimented a few women in public and never had a bad reaction only positive. I don't make a habit of it but occasionally I've seen a woman look so good ' in herself ' ( not necessarily drop dead beautiful) that a compliment is given.
However it is VERY important in the way, when and how it is done.
1. Never do it you women much much younger than you- that's creepy.Always compliment around the same age.
2. Make the compliment clear to the lady. NOT mmmm
3. Be clear your not trying to chat her up.
4. Always make sure you are smartly dressed yourself. Not dressed in your gardening togs or just rolled out of bed.
5. Then walk away.
So for example, I saw a lady who looked amazing in a business suit and just looked fantastic. She was not stunning model but she looked great and was on her own. I was dressed in a business suit.
So I walked up to her and she ' excuse me please. I'm not chatting you up as I'm married. However I just want to say you look absolutely fantastic. In fact so good I felt I needed to tell you.
Now I wish you a good day and a super week ahead '. Then I walked away.
The ladies reaction?
A big smile, a thank you and you could see her glow and grow in stature.
So it's not alwYs creepy. It like everything. It's how and when it's done along with the timing.
Looking forward to being blocked now !!!
Excuse the text layout. Fab doesn't seem to like iPads "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mr writing here
Very interesting responses from the ladies.
I have complimented a few women in public and never had a bad reaction only positive. I don't make a habit of it but occasionally I've seen a woman look so good ' in herself ' ( not necessarily drop dead beautiful) that a compliment is given.
However it is VERY important in the way, when and how it is done.
1. Never do it you women much much younger than you- that's creepy.Always compliment around the same age.
2. Make the compliment clear to the lady. NOT mmmm
3. Be clear your not trying to chat her up.
4. Always make sure you are smartly dressed yourself. Not dressed in your gardening togs or just rolled out of bed.
5. Then walk away.
So for example, I saw a lady who looked amazing in a business suit and just looked fantastic. She was not stunning model but she looked great and was on her own. I was dressed in a business suit.
So I walked up to her and she ' excuse me please. I'm not chatting you up as I'm married. However I just want to say you look absolutely fantastic. In fact so good I felt I needed to tell you.
Now I wish you a good day and a super week ahead '. Then I walked away.
The ladies reaction?
A big smile, a thank you and you could see her glow and grow in stature.
So it's not alwYs creepy. It like everything. It's how and when it's done along with the timing.
Looking forward to being blocked now !!!
Excuse the text layout. Fab doesn't seem to like iPads "
Absolutely agree that how and where make all the difference. |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!"
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?  |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger? "
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that! |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that! "
That took courage. That's as good as a F.A.F. coming from a lady! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It's creepy I was letched over in my local swimming pool the other week, don't do it.
Hmmm, what were you wearing though???a one piece swimsuit.
You tease
"Mmm" or very nice in passing would creep me out too, that's not a compliment it's letchy."
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"It's creepy I was letched over in my local swimming pool the other week, don't do it.
Hmmm, what were you wearing though???a one piece swimsuit.
You tease
"Mmm" or very nice in passing would creep me out too, that's not a compliment it's letchy.
Not quite sure what else I should have been wearing in a pool to be honest lol "
Passing a compliment or leaching over a lady in a swimming pool is just out of order. |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that! "
I don’t know what I love more, the fact that you did this or the fact that you shared it with us |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"It's creepy I was letched over in my local swimming pool the other week, don't do it.
Hmmm, what were you wearing though???a one piece swimsuit.
You tease
"Mmm" or very nice in passing would creep me out too, that's not a compliment it's letchy.
Not quite sure what else I should have been wearing in a pool to be honest lol
Passing a compliment or leaching over a lady in a swimming pool is just out of order. "
I was only polite because he had his kids with him it was very awkward. |
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy just like to complement a good looking woman"
are you on the register OP??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi i often compliment if i see a nice lady be it in the supermarket or walking up the street it maybe a simple mmm as they walk past or a very nice! Something like that sometimes i get a cheeky smile back or a giggle is this appreciated by most of you or should i just keep it to myself im never rude or creepy just like to complement a good looking woman
are you on the register OP???"
This |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that! "
This is exactly why I am rubbish at actually chatting people up. I turn into a blathering idiot that can’t speak. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that!
This is exactly why I am rubbish at actually chatting people up. I turn into a blathering idiot that can’t speak. "
Pretty much the same here |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that!
I don’t know what I love more, the fact that you did this or the fact that you shared it with us "
Exactly why I love her.  |
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Damn auto carrot changed my words, next try....
Sorry OP, but if someone, a complete stranger, walked past me in the street, and "Mmmm'd" or "nice'd" me as you described
He'd get told exactly where to go.
It's just fucking odd |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that!
I don’t know what I love more, the fact that you did this or the fact that you shared it with us
Exactly why I love her. "
Proper gave me belly laughs imagining that whole scene |
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"I complimented the guy that comes in my gym that I've fancied for 20 months, I saw him in the kebab house last week getting a pizza (must have been cheat night!) he had glasses on and I said to him you look nice and smart with your glasses, whilst holding my finger up and drawing a circle around my face! He smiled and said thank you very much!
What I wanted to say was fuck I wanna rip them jogging bottoms off you and stick my tongue up your arse right here right now. Don't think he would've appreciated that!
Why did you draw a circle around your face with your finger?
I can't describe it, you know I was like holding my finger up and drawing imaginary circles around my whole face, like to emphasise the fact I was talking about his glasses. I don't know why I did it, felt like a bit of a knob after but it was spur of the moment thing, kind of just fell out. You look nice and smart in your glasses. I couldn't have said anything more wetter than that! "
Oh right I'm with you! . Look I'm sure he really appreciated the compliment inspite of it being wet. It's better than leering at the guy. |
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"If some guy mmmm'd at me when I was going about my daily business I'd be pissed off because 9 times out of 10 I'd have my child with me.
IF I was on a night out and a guy I thought was handsome gave me a compliment or mmm'd at me or whatever, I'd accompany him to the smoking area and have a feel of his penis.
I think you're right, you need to consider the context of such attention. What is unacceptable in a office can be fine on a night out, but it's also how it's interpreted too. Sometimes people are just waiting to be "offended" by something"
Some people can be offensive without realising.
The main theme through this thread is that the OP asked if ladies appreciated that sort of behavior. The general consensus is a no.
The OP can learn from this.
What some people see as "harmless banter" is completely unacceptable to others.
If you don't like Chubby Brown, you don't buy tickets for him.
You do not expect him to randomly walk by you in the street and call you a fat bastard.
Treat people fairly and how you would expect others to treat you or your family, you can't go far wrong. |
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