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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't feel it's anything, but eager would be closest, as I don't get desperate for sex. I get desperate for someone in particular, and someone else wouldn't quash that feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

(i meant messages you get sorry i forgot add this part)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

For me it is more anticipation and excitment of the meet. I wouldn't have a meet out of desperation. Thats not fair on the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

(i meant messages you get sorry i forgot add this part)"

Depends on what they say and how they say it. I always meet for just a social first as I find it easier to assess people in person rather than via messages.

I have socials very rarely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

99.9% of messages are sent in desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99.9% of messages are sent in desperation."

Statistics can be used to prove anything 78.9% of people know that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think there can be a lot of desperation on here and sometimes its so very obvious xx

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

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"when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

(i meant messages you get sorry i forgot add this part)"

What one person finds desperate,another may not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would describe myself as mainly reluctant

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By *rNaughtyNickMan  over a year ago

Birmingham


"when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

(i meant messages you get sorry i forgot add this part)

What one person finds desperate,another may not. "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The 'been let down, fancy a fuck?' msgs speak for themselves! I like to think eagerness, a social would prove one way or another.

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would not assume that someone was desperate or eager. I talk a long time before agreeing to meet someone; or not, if I don't feel the attraction. Any desperation or eagerness would have waned by then.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I would not assume that someone was desperate or eager. I talk a long time before agreeing to meet someone; or not, if I don't feel the attraction. Any desperation or eagerness would have waned by then. "

This

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By *heeky_subCouple  over a year ago

northampton

Sometimes I get the feeling as I'm a bbw, the ones that show an interest, slow the communication, so it looks I'm desperate and grateful to be contacted.

Which certainly isn't the case.

Then sometimes, I get a message by some random that wants to take me out dinner and shag or just shag me, and when i say no, they're gutted.

That's a little desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sometimes I get the feeling as I'm a bbw, the ones that show an interest, slow the communication, so it looks I'm desperate and grateful to be contacted.

Which certainly isn't the case.

Then sometimes, I get a message by some random that wants to take me out dinner and shag or just shag me, and when i say no, they're gutted.

That's a little desperate."

They're desperate because they are gutted that you turned them down?

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By *heeky_subCouple  over a year ago

northampton


"Sometimes I get the feeling as I'm a bbw, the ones that show an interest, slow the communication, so it looks I'm desperate and grateful to be contacted.

Which certainly isn't the case.

Then sometimes, I get a message by some random that wants to take me out dinner and shag or just shag me, and when i say no, they're gutted.

That's a little desperate.

They're desperate because they are gutted that you turned them down?"

Desperate because what they're offering, and gutted that I've said no.

I can't be the only person they've made contact with, why would you be gutted?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've discovered the exact moment in time where I would literally fuck anyone. It's once a month for a few minutes in the early hours of the morning when I'm 2 days into my menstrual cycle.

It happens every month. I'll be asleep then I'll dream that I'm using my vibrator but the orgasm never comes, takes a few moments to realise I'm still asleep then I wake in a semi conscious state, grab my vibrator from the drawer and go to town and have some of the most intense orgasms ever. If I had a guy in my bed during these times I'd be sticking a bobble on his willy and jumping on for a fuck.

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By *ieman300Man  over a year ago

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Surely you want someone to be eager to meet you?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"when looking for a suitable meet, whenever it be a meet for play or social

when do you decide if its eagerness or desperation

(i meant messages you get sorry i forgot add this part)

What one person finds desperate,another may not.

+1"

Yay lol

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