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over a year ago
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If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?
For example:
'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'
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'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.
I'm interested how people set their boundaries.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No restraints of blindfold, safety first.
No anal, husband only unless he gives the ok.
No cum on me from the neck up, it takes a long time to do my makeup, I'd be pissed if I had to wipe it off because of a bad aim 
No 3 p's, for obvious reasons. |
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There are a couple of things I won't do and receive oral sex is the one that causes the most surprise. The reason is simple...I don't like it .
Other boundaries are in place as a result of discussion, negotiation and mutual agreement. The reasons are varied and range from a desire to keep our relationship apart from swinging to just not being interested in certain things. |
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"If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?
For example:
'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'
or
'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.
I'm interested how people set their boundaries.
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how to set boundaries? Like yourself. Enjoy the power of saying I know what I like. Enjoy the thought that if someone else wants something I don't have to be the one to give it. |
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over a year ago
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Anything with the 3 p's..
Especially as I have a low pain threshold!!! I hate needles when I go away.
Tied up thing is not good, not because it's a control thing but more a safety net type thing, you never know. Always like to chat first as well, like to know who I'm getting to have fun with. |
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"I think boundaries for single people need to take safety in to account in different ways to couples and their boundaries will be influenced by that. "
I agree, I enjoy using blindfolds amd restraints etc. but we play as a couple and I have Ed to look out for me, a single person needs to stay in control of their own safety.
For me, I wouldn’t swallow another man’s cum. Mrs x |
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Tied up would take a bit of trust in whoever I was doing it with then. The three p's, one and a half of them I wouldn't be interested in
Meeting alone in a car somewhere remote. Just obvious safety ones really |
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"If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?
For example:
'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'
or
'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.
I'm interested how people set their boundaries.
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Won't meet unless we've spoken quite a bit beforehand. Unless it's very local and easy place to get to. |
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or being tied up or incapacitated in any way 
