Only if that's what everyone in the relationship wants. No one relationship format is right for everyone. I cite the number of people on here without their partners knowledge as evidence of that.
And no, I'm not making a judgement. |
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If it works for both parties and they have each had a chance to explain their boundaries and each respect the other’s choices, I would imagine for a time it could work out. None of us know you though, or your circumstances OP. |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed"
How could anyone else ever know what sort of relationship is best for you.
Tbh I'm not even sure I understand the question |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed"
For who? Each couple have to work that out between them. Certainly not for us. Everything we do, we do together.  |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed"
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up"
Yup... be careful what you wish for eh. |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up"
You should tell that story to all the men that post about wanting to get their girlfriends/ wives into swinging.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Isn't an open relationship where one or both fuck other people.. so swinging...  "
To us, an open relationship is when you go off, on your own, to play with other people, go on dates etc, that's why I said it wasn't for us, we only meet together and play in the same room. It obviously means different things to different people. |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up
You should tell that story to all the men that post about wanting to get their girlfriends/ wives into swinging. "
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"Isn't an open relationship where one or both fuck other people.. so swinging...
To us, an open relationship is when you go off, on your own, to play with other people, go on dates etc, that's why I said it wasn't for us, we only meet together and play in the same room. It obviously means different things to different people. "
Ah ok thank you. Fair point.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Isn't an open relationship where one or both fuck other people.. so swinging...
To us, an open relationship is when you go off, on your own, to play with other people, go on dates etc, that's why I said it wasn't for us, we only meet together and play in the same room. It obviously means different things to different people.
Ah ok thank you. Fair point. "
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Personally if you're going to have a open relationship you might as well just not date and just become casual sex. I'm getting that like my ex many years ago wanted the relationship so the other person is their to fill the gap his sex partners had no interest in. If the partner isn't interested then do the decent thing close the book on that chapter or leave. |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up
You should tell that story to all the men that post about wanting to get their girlfriends/ wives into swinging. "
The bloke was a prat and his wife was lovely, he obviously hadn't thought it through  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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You see I'd say an open relationship is where a primary couple have sexual encounters with others independently of each other.
When you start talking about dates and emotions you cross over into the realm of polyamoury. (you can also be poly and in an open relationship)
Poly is super hard work. But really worth putting the effort in if that is what you're thinking of. |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up
Yup... be careful what you wish for eh. "
lucky bastard.. sounds like a win, win to me
Why the hell would he want to back to the way things were
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
I dont want a relationship.
Id much rather be single and fuck who I want without rules and drrrrama!
A fuck buddy would be nice though.
I'd like someone to go out with. |
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"Is open relationship the best relationship to engage in right now?.. Any opinion welcomed
Only if you're happy for your girlfriend to get a lot more action and you don't mind the thought of other guys being balls deep in her.
Someone I know wanted one and his mrs didn't so he persuaded her, turns out that she loved other guys fucking her so he begged her to go back to how they were but she wouldn't and they split up
Yup... be careful what you wish for eh.
lucky bastard.. sounds like a win, win to me
Why the hell would he want to back to the way things were
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Because he wasn't able to get any meets, he thought it was a free pass to cheat and have lots of sex with other women and he assumed that his wife wouldn't be interested.
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