Without wanting to kick off the bareback debate again...
Some people don't use protection.
Some people use protection except with their long term partner.
Some use protection.
Decide what level of risk you are happy with and don't trust anyone who does not respect your limits. |
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"Ok I'm from the kink scene and cleanliness and protection of toys is always been paramount. Due to cross infection germs etc. I have seen so many pics here where people are not using protection where sex is concerned ... Firstly why... as for things like chlamydia don't always show up straight away in tests ... my point kinda is or trying to satisfy curiosities before play with others as in group... how do you know who is safe and who is not. Because you may be sleeping with a couple but your also sleeping with whoever they gave gad previous .. what about aids n hepatitis ...what is general rule of thumb please as I want to but also am wary of these things ...  "
. Hiya and welcome, all I can say is how we practise safe sex, I Mrs don't play full swap with guys, so we don't have that worry, but Mr does full swap with ladies so a condom is always a must, we never take risks, I do however play with ladies and a strap on and various toys, again condoms are always a must, plus I carry a disinfectant spray in my toy bag, so all toys are cleaned before the condom and after, and then again at home, we take as many precautions as humanly possible, that's really all we can do, I suppose the only way to be 100% is to never swap or play and stay voyuer's, which we were for over twelve months when we first started swinging, but we are taking part fully informed and playing making an informed choice, whilst we are comfortable with this, if we changed our mindset of feeling comfortable then we would stop,anyways have fun in whatever you choose, Mrs blue eyes |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Again we can only speak for ourselves. Mrs plays I don’t. Penetration is always protected and we always ask him to come on her boobs, stomach or back. We’ve lost out on meets because of this and one guy chose to ignore it which pissed us off immensely, but that’s our rules and won’t compromise. Stick to your guns and asses your own level of risk.  |
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Just to throw something else in the mix... I've become super wary of how clean someone's hands are after a bad experience at a club... When someone was invited to give me oral but ended up shoving his fingers up there too. Which seemed fine until I got really ill for weeks and it turned out I'd got a really really bad kidney infection... It's likely this followed on from an asymptotic urine infection. I've never been so unwell in as long as I can remember! Took months to recover.
Now I can't even contemplate someone fingering me as I start wondering where there hands have been... Eg are they touching me right are having been on their phone? It's like having a visible germ radar. Makes me wonder if I'll ever get over it. Or if there's even a way to?
Sara |
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What about oral as in for ladies giving on ladies being bi sexual person I'm greedy that way oops ... even with condoms ur not always safe here's why .... chlamydia is highly infectious if your using products like lube or even womanly secretions his secretions n hers can mix lube can carry and spread chlamydia even with a condom as secretions can leak out the top ... I have spoken slightly in depth with a gynaecologist friend which is why I've asked my questions X |
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Hence why I'm so very very wary of playing with others xx I carry anti bacterial wipes that covers mrsa and other bugs I even have isopropyl wipes I may insist on cleaning hands first good idea Ty X |
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"What about oral as in for ladies giving on ladies being bi sexual person I'm greedy that way oops ... even with condoms ur not always safe here's why .... chlamydia is highly infectious if your using products like lube or even womanly secretions his secretions n hers can mix lube can carry and spread chlamydia even with a condom as secretions can leak out the top ... I have spoken slightly in depth with a gynaecologist friend which is why I've asked my questions X "
And you could get hit by a bus, life has risks, all you can do is protect yourself the best you can, but you also want to enjoy it too. |
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"What about oral as in for ladies giving on ladies being bi sexual person I'm greedy that way oops ... even with condoms ur not always safe here's why .... chlamydia is highly infectious if your using products like lube or even womanly secretions his secretions n hers can mix lube can carry and spread chlamydia even with a condom as secretions can leak out the top ... I have spoken slightly in depth with a gynaecologist friend which is why I've asked my questions X
And you could get hit by a bus, life has risks, all you can do is protect yourself the best you can, but you also want to enjoy it too."
I agree I love great fun and can be under my partners instruction of course being the erm good girl I am lol a very naughty greedy submissive ok very dirty girl lol ... but how far do you go ? |
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