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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
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Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.  |
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"Problem being with internet is no expression or humour passed through written text
this is it, The internet a blessing or a hindrance? "
Both in equal measure i'd say depending on who you're talking to |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me. "
Why is it a passion killer though?. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?. "
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me. "
I will shout it to the world if I fucked you!
How does that grab you? |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?. "
Because 99 times out of a 100 the guy is attached, and I'm not interested in attached men. |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
I will shout it to the world if I fucked you!
How does that grab you? "
Oh sure, that's fine for the 1 in 100 - the rest mean they're cheating!!  |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally"
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?. "
They really are, things like babe, hunni, norti/nawty etc... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?.
They really are, things like babe, hunni, norti/nawty etc..."
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"99/100? You think that’s true?"
I have no way of knowing, but I am just being honest about how easy it is to put someone off in a room full of people who DO lie through their little pointy teeth. In life I would take it at face value - on internet sites? Not a chance, though I do simply ask directly - that would be my first question 'Are you attached?'. |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?. "
Because most people who use that word are cheating!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"99/100? You think that’s true?"
certainly true often enough for me to take it as someone attached..especially if they use the word more than once...and always has to be spelt incorrectly as well!
i find people who arent cheating tend to mention the reason they can't accom in a message initially anyway. |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
Because 99 times out of a 100 the guy is attached, and I'm not interested in attached men."
Can that same logic be applied to 99 out of a 100 women as well then?. I'm discrete but don't have it on my profile as it serves likkle purpose,apart from what i can see from this thread wgich is to put folk off. Words mean nothing at all to me on fab lol. So many chat s@#t,lie,deceive etc. So i just go by my gut. Serves me pretty well up until now. Hey I've just jinxed myself now haven't i   |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
Because 99 times out of a 100 the guy is attached, and I'm not interested in attached men.
Can that same logic be applied to 99 out of a 100 women as well then?. I'm discrete but don't have it on my profile as it serves likkle purpose..... "
Exactly. There are plenty of attached women on fabs too, I am sure, I just don't look at their profiles!  |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
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I don't assume anything about not being able to accommodate, it's just no good to me so no point even talking, or I might ask diectly. But yes, I may well assume the worst of a profile with no pics, one way or another, and particularly ones that put one anonymous pic of their chest up and take it down when they're not online. Yeah right!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just saw descreet as a way of not telling the world of Fab about your sexy adventures.  everyday is a school day.
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I have no issue with the word in the right context. i dont kiss and tell my business, hence why my veris are hidden and i dont tell noone about what i do on meets either.
im not attached i am single but i value my privacy |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I just saw descreet as a way of not telling the world of Fab about your sexy adventures. everyday is a school day.
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There is the essence of this thread. Reading between the lines of a profile and coming to the right or indeed wrong conclusion. |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?.
They really are, things like babe, hunni, norti/nawty etc..."
Yes, nawty sets my teeth on edge! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
certain words are i think, i get where @frisky is coming from totally
Why do you think certain words a passion killer?.
They really are, things like babe, hunni, norti/nawty etc...
Yes, nawty sets my teeth on edge! "
strange enough, turns me off to the point of block button |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Experience has simply taught me to be wary of such phrases. Discrete is a total passion killer for me.
Why is it a passion killer though?.
Because 99 times out of a 100 the guy is attached, and I'm not interested in attached men.
Can that same logic be applied to 99 out of a 100 women as well then?. I'm discrete but don't have it on my profile as it serves likkle purpose.....
Exactly. There are plenty of attached women on fabs too, I am sure, I just don't look at their profiles! "
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"I just saw descreet as a way of not telling the world of Fab about your sexy adventures. everyday is a school day.
There is the essence of this thread. Reading between the lines of a profile and coming to the right or indeed wrong conclusion."
Spot on!! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"99/100? You think that’s true?
certainly true often enough for me to take it as someone attached..especially if they use the word more than once...and always has to be spelt incorrectly as well!
i find people who arent cheating tend to mention the reason they can't accom in a message initially anyway."
initial message?! Most have strung me along to point of almost meeting them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
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Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Some are brutally honest and spell everything out. Others put whatever they think is relevant to get themselves across.
We all sell ourselves differently, either to appeal to as many as possible, or to filter against a certain kind of person.
My profile (which I am particularly fond of) has attracted messages from people I can connect with.
I speak exactly how my profile reads, I'm a wordy (nerdy?) kind of chap. So I use phrases like fun (a massive bug bear for some) and other such musings.
I won't change my profile, forum posts or messages to please anyone else.
However I don't have to include all my personal details.
Lets face it, ladies can get away with profiles that are just a smiley face, a ....or a fill in later.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says"
me no it was the quickest ones i could think of while composing this thread, and the fact i was on my 1st coffee.
It was one of my thoughts of the day |
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“I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”
? Robert McCloskey
It doesn't matter what you write, how it is perceived is the only point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"“I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”
? Robert McCloskey
It doesn't matter what you write, how it is perceived is the only point!"
add to 1st impression will be made as soon as they read the profile, look at the photos or meet you in the 1st few minutes if need be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says
me no it was the quickest ones i could think of while composing this thread, and the fact i was on my 1st coffee.
It was one of my thoughts of the day "
And thats just my opinion on it, nothing to read into
I think more people should say what they mean, and mean what they say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says
me no it was the quickest ones i could think of while composing this thread, and the fact i was on my 1st coffee.
It was one of my thoughts of the day
And thats just my opinion on it, nothing to read into
I think more people should say what they mean, and mean what they say"
nope it gets me into trouble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong "
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says
me no it was the quickest ones i could think of while composing this thread, and the fact i was on my 1st coffee.
It was one of my thoughts of the day
And thats just my opinion on it, nothing to read into
I think more people should say what they mean, and mean what they say
nope it gets me into trouble "
Me to, but those who matter dont mind and those who mind dont matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most folks profiles bang on about how wonderful they are, at doing certain sexual acts etc. Which is fair enough. However, self praise is no recommendation.
I'd prefer to chat, get to know them, check out their humour, see how tolerant they are of moody women, lull them into a false sense of security that i'm not that moody, shag them, then go out in a big bang of moodiness.
My profile doesn't tell you all that, but corresponding with me would.
See. Never judge a book by its cover. |
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character. "
I disagree - it's one thing I am looking for in a profile, some indication of personality or character! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
x
Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says"
Sorry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most folks profiles bang on about how wonderful they are, at doing certain sexual acts etc. Which is fair enough. However, self praise is no recommendation.
I'd prefer to chat, get to know them, check out their humour, see how tolerant they are of moody women, lull them into a false sense of security that i'm not that moody, shag them, then go out in a big bang of moodiness.
My profile doesn't tell you all that, but corresponding with me would.
See. Never judge a book by its cover."
Exactly - there's a fine line between blatant self promotion, and attempting to give some of yourself across in a profile.
It's a bit like a CV and job interview. My CV is good, but my interview technique is WAY more impressive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Profiles are an all to brief snapshot of every one by their very nature. They lack the emotional connection of the real world all those things that make us human inflection in our voice the way we talk listen smile and just connect.
They may be a shop window but some windows are dressed better than others and what's inside the shop may or may not be better.
Indeed for those not gifted with words they may even be less easy to write.
But the instant nature of the web the swipe right approach to the world the limited time and attention often given to our online presence does I believe create an immediate judgement about others as does the language we use... discreet can't accommodate etc...it leads to sweeping generalisations and the reinforcing of our personal prejudices based on past experience
That's like real life too... but here we have in comparison so little to go on in assessing others than we do in the None fab world.
We all judge subjectively and alwsys will thsts why not every profile connects with us as individuals.
But maybe sometimes we need to remember that try to judge less accept that behind each profile is a person who we may or may not connect with...and recognise that the turn offs or turn ons are nothing more than a minor part of each of us....and that everyone is here for similar reasons...
And perhaps even maybe look at each other a little more gently..
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character.
I disagree - it's one thing I am looking for in a profile, some indication of personality or character! "
How does that work out for you? Do you think your more successful finding a profile represents a person more accurately than when you get to know them?
Maybe it's me, i dont (maybe rarely) over analyse people, |
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"We all look at profiles, photos and we tend to read into things that might not necessarily be right
like the "cant accommodate"
or "Discrete" or the "wont show any photos" blah blah blah
what happened to looking at face value or as the internet changed this for everyone
thoughts
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Well you know what they say "we all think we all think alike"
And those things you mentioned, they only have the meaning YOU PERSONALLY give to them, if your being an english teatcher about it and looking for meaning where theres none past, well exactly what it says
Sorry?"
Was i unclear or are you an english teacher? |
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character.
I disagree - it's one thing I am looking for in a profile, some indication of personality or character!
How does that work out for you? Do you think your more successful finding a profile represents a person more accurately than when you get to know them?
Maybe it's me, i dont (maybe rarely) over analyse people, "
Oh I love to analyse... But I think you miss my point - if I read 10 profiles and 9 are just a list of facts but the 10th displays something of their personality that is engaging, then that is the one I will reply to. |
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Expression is interpreted subjectively according to the disposition of the reader. Assumptions are concluded within the readers blinkered range of parameters and there is no appetite for clarifying debate and contemplation of a deeper exploration of understanding. The remit of the vast majority of patrons in this realm are relatively basic and the reading between lines of scant offerings is futile. Judgements concluded on scant, general rhetoric is personally disappointing, but an envitable consequential collateral carnage of the process.
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character.
I disagree - it's one thing I am looking for in a profile, some indication of personality or character!
How does that work out for you? Do you think your more successful finding a profile represents a person more accurately than when you get to know them?
Maybe it's me, i dont (maybe rarely) over analyse people,
Oh I love to analyse... But I think you miss my point - if I read 10 profiles and 9 are just a list of facts but the 10th displays something of their personality that is engaging, then that is the one I will reply to."
I did miss your point. I'll go and try to record some of my personality into my text.
*I'll start with my sheepish cowardice. |
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"Profiles are our shop window to tempt people in.
Accept things with caution, you won't go far wrong
You see I sit with the thought that I'd like someone to like me for who I am and how I act, not for what it says on my Profile. That's why Fab doesn't work out for me meeting people in the swinging world, I rarely read women's profiles anyway to have to read between the lines.
Profiles can only spell out the facts. Not their personalities or character.
I disagree - it's one thing I am looking for in a profile, some indication of personality or character!
How does that work out for you? Do you think your more successful finding a profile represents a person more accurately than when you get to know them?
Maybe it's me, i dont (maybe rarely) over analyse people,
Oh I love to analyse... But I think you miss my point - if I read 10 profiles and 9 are just a list of facts but the 10th displays something of their personality that is engaging, then that is the one I will reply to.
I did miss your point. I'll go and try to record some of my personality into my text.
*I'll start with my sheepish cowardice. "
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"Most folks profiles bang on about how wonderful they are, at doing certain sexual acts etc. Which is fair enough. However, self praise is no recommendation.
I'd prefer to chat, get to know them, check out their humour, see how tolerant they are of moody women, lull them into a false sense of security that i'm not that moody, shag them, then go out in a big bang of moodiness.
My profile doesn't tell you all that, but corresponding with me would.
See. Never judge a book by its cover."
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"Expression is interpreted subjectively according to the disposition of the reader. Assumptions are concluded within the readers blinkered range of parameters and there is no appetite for clarifying debate and contemplation of a deeper exploration of understanding. The remit of the vast majority of patrons in this realm are relatively basic and the reading between lines of scant offerings is futile. Judgements concluded on scant, general rhetoric is personally disappointing, but an envitable consequential collateral carnage of the process.
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I think you're wordy! "
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