Ok our we alone in this thought why do most cpls profiles only contain limited pics of the male do the ladies not want to see what there going to be meeting and we don't mean a cock pics misses here loves a nice toned hairy chest as well as other stuff come on cpls more male photos on profiles in private ok we don't share all photos at 1st thoughts swinging buddies |
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We have said this previously.
Hubby stays in the background (plus he is behind the camera).
We send pics privately if we plan on meeting after chatting and we all like what we see.
Just our preference. |
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We might not have equal amounts of pics but there's a good selection on public view which I believe shows us both. Op, you only have the one pic of yourselves, isn't that a bit contradictory?
At the end of the day we all show what we're comfortable with 
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We try to have an equal split, but Mr is shy of his face being in our public pics, but we hope people get a feel for him from what we have on display.
We do find it odd that couples don’t have more of the M half most of the time, it’s almost as though the F needs are less important. For us we want to see who we’re both meeting, we’re not ones for taking one for the team so it’s super important that we see both before moving conversations off Fab |
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Its another filter we use, no pics of the guy or a few poorly taken pics of a small part of his body whilst hanging out of his missus and we swerve them.
From experience of having messaged and even met a couple with no photos of the guy whatsoever - I have never been pleasantly surprised and thought yes please.
I dare say there are some yes pleases out there I can't see pics of, but I prefer to see that from the outset saves an awkward thanks but no thanks. L
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I like to see couple profiles with as many pics of th man as there are of the lady. I also love to see lots of pics of them together.
As this is my preference we tend to run our profile like this too. Unless we've been playing with the camera and hubby has got carried away putting pics of me on, we tend to have mostly pics of us both |
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"Ok our we alone in this thought why do most cpls profiles only contain limited pics of the male do the ladies not want to see what there going to be meeting and we don't mean a cock pics misses here loves a nice toned hairy chest as well as other stuff come on cpls more male photos on profiles in private ok we don't share all photos at 1st thoughts swinging buddies "
Bcz any person knows. It's the women that get most attention,but that still doesn't condone why they can't have equal amount of both. It's soo annoying and leads me and my girl to think the guy isn't all that. 7 out 10 times we've found the guy isn't her type and there you have the answer.  |
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Well no doubt having none of me (Mr) will upset some, I don't care.
We are the ones that choose what does and doesn't go on our profile and those who judge us would most likely not be for us anyway.
Zero effort in finding out more will give zero results.
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You're not alone with the thought. Many others will agree, many won't. It's not that big a deal really though. You can ask to see pic' size if the profile has grabbed you enough to want to meet them. You can click the back button if it bugs you to distraction.
We are the couple that bug some folk so much because there aren't too many photos of me (Mr), I don't like my picture being taken, I'm not hugely confident in my looks even if I'm told otherwise. Do I worry that someone will ignore our profile because of it? Not a chance. Lucky for us, fab is a place that allegedly embraces all (seems otherwise occasionally) so will continue on our merry go fuck-a-round. |
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I feel your frustration. We’re in no rush and do love to chat to couples but it does kinda slow things down when they’re no pics of the men. I’m sure everyone has their reason as to why they don’t publish them but it does make you wonder sometimes. Basically, if we can’t see the male then we don’t bother. If he can’t pose for a photo, then how’s he going to cope playing? Just saying.
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We use 'no male pics' as a filter. I wouldn't entertain talking to a couple who only had pics of the guy on show so why should i expect the wife to when it's the other way round?
Our profile is pretty evenly split when it comes to photos though we're not too bothered about that when it comes to other profiles. Even if the ratio is 1 guy pic to every 3 of her - or vice-versa - that's cool as long as we see enough of him to know there could be an attraction.
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It’s probably because they’ve looked at our profile and realised they can’t possibly compete with my gorgeous manliness and so burn their own pictures and Spend their evenings and weekends worshiping me and asking the lord to reincarnate them as sam off of laceyandsam.
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"Ok our we alone in this thought why do most cpls profiles only contain limited pics of the male do the ladies not want to see what there going to be meeting and we don't mean a cock pics misses here loves a nice toned hairy chest as well as other stuff come on cpls more male photos on profiles in private ok we don't share all photos at 1st thoughts swinging buddies "
Think it depends what the couple are looking for.
We have very few public pics of Mr (more in friends though) because although we enjoy meeting up with other couples it's mainly guys we are looking for.
And the men that suit us thankfully only seem to be interested in the pics of me!  |
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"It’s probably because they’ve looked at our profile and realised they can’t possibly compete with my gorgeous manliness and so burn their own pictures and Spend their evenings and weekends worshiping me and asking the lord to reincarnate them as sam off of laceyandsam.
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My boyfriend and I set up our account while he was working abroad There are a few pics of him. More of me but that was my choice.
He is back next week, we have a day together planned to 'catch up' and take pics to add to our profile |
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