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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. |
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"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "
You've had it now.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "
some of the men i have met arent professional models, professional pain in the asses maybe but  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't know I was a model i ain't lucky enough to have a meet yet only been here 2 weeks but I'm getting the best conversations and I'm getting a few replies router with the smooth son |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
Look at the messages then, maybe that's where you're going wrong. |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
Oooooh what would you have done if you got a reply??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
Try not to take it personal.
What makes me laugh is how some women keep moaning about being let down by fake profiles and yet real one's don't get a look in. |
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There is so much choice for the ladies out their, so need to really stand out. I've chatted with women for them just to go quite as someone else has caught their eye. But when I was on here few years back in Scotland I had loads of meets. So could be the area also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a lot of negativity around you pal, you’ve not asked for profile advice so can’t give it, but that’s where the recipients of your messages go first before reading the message you sent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
Look at the messages then, maybe that's where you're going wrong. "
im a woman and i dont get meets  |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex."
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.  |
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"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "
If you think they looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp why did you message them?
Is that the sound of desperation I hear? |
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"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site. "
See club section 
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
Try not to take it personal.
What makes me laugh is how some women keep moaning about being let down by fake profiles and yet real one's don't get a look in. "
Yes that gets my goat also.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."
Socials are a good place to start  |
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"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."
No I doesn't, however you do get to meet people in the flesh and make new connections. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not really up for clubs to be honest. Effort comes in many forms and doesn't require going to a club does it."
why doesn't effort require going to clubs, many of us will disagree 
a club meet or a 121 means the same effort as getting ready, picking out clothes (ok underwear)
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
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Not all profiles are in club section |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate |
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OP I find it doesn't really matter about looks on here. If you have hundreds of verifications and will have sex with anyone then you will do better than some of us. Some people are intimidated by good looking people so it's a difficult one. You can't please everyone pal. I don't do as well as people like to think as I won't meet just anyone. Sometimes being attractive is a curse not a blessing hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think p's before you press the send message button.
Profile - does yours stand out among the 1000's of other men?
Personality - have you put it across well in your message?
Pictures - can the recipient view enough to enable them to decide if they fancy you or not?
Picking - find a person whose preferences you feel you suit the best.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"
a good well written profile explaining what you are looking for and some good photos with body shots will help |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section "
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop? |
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"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"
What if she had replied OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
What a joker you message the worst people you can find who are you to judge no wonder your getting no luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"S I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
is it?"
Or is it a swingers site? Fabswingers is the website name lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
What a joker you message the worst people you can find who are you to judge no wonder your getting no luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate
What if she had replied OP? "
Then I’m sure he OP would oblige, dude, your profile needs to stand out, lose the negative comments, who are you? What can you offer? What are you looking for?
Some public pics help, body shots, suited and booted those kind of pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I find it doesn't really matter about looks on here. If you have hundreds of verifications and will have sex with anyone then you will do better than some of us. Some people are intimidated by good looking people so it's a difficult one. You can't please everyone pal. I don't do as well as people like to think as I won't meet just anyone. Sometimes being attractive is a curse not a blessing hahaha"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"S I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
is it?
Or is it a swingers site? Fabswingers is the website name lol"
thats my other question but you beat me to it LOL damn u woman x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't come across to me remotely as you describe yourself. Maybe the same can be said for your messages?
You say you've messaged people with the worst profiles and someone who looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp?
Well if anyone you messaged reads what you wrote about them here, I'm sure the can't wait to meet you now \sarcasm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about it! Keep your dummy in stay positive it will happen coming on here complaining won't get you anywhere women won't meet you because they feel sorry for you mate |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop? "
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble 
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "
I no how you fill op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't come across to me remotely as you describe yourself. Maybe the same can be said for your messages?
You say you've messaged people with the worst profiles and someone who looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp?
Well if anyone you messaged reads what you wrote about them here, I'm sure the can't wait to meet you now \sarcasm
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung. "
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people are too full-on here it puts people off I find. A lots like too chat get too know a person as could be Jack the ripper .. At clubs its more meet and shag I find . |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it "
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "
Or a great personality, decent banter and be respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "
actually no.
if i was talking to someone in a swingers club and he had his "chopper" out id walk away talk about keeping me intregued |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"
I'd like to say something sarcastic to this comment, but it would be too much effort
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves..."
Would you like some of my popcorn? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "
You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn? "
As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn?
As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am "
Open wide I’ll see if I can it in your mouth from over here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn?
As long as it ain't salted my I have some too please ma'am
Open wide I’ll see if I can it in your mouth from over here. "
Om nom nom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn? "
Got any toffee flavour?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn?
Got any toffee flavour? "
I only do the sweet flavours. I’m not into this salted popcorn madness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn?
Got any toffee flavour? "
I'm with these guys xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn?
Got any toffee flavour?
I only do the sweet flavours. I’m not into this salted popcorn madness. "
I hate salt yuk yes please beautiful |
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"There’s a lot of negativity around you pal, you’ve not asked for profile advice so can’t give it, but that’s where the recipients of your messages go first before reading the message you sent."
Yup, I click on the profile, and if there are no good pics I generally go no further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's it I can't work out where I'm going wrong. I don't send dick pics, I send a nice message with a picture of what i look like. I actually had a reply from someone that looked like a bulldog chewing a wasp saying I'm not her type. I had to hold back from saying anymore lok "
Why did you message her in the first place then?
This post really doesn’t show you in a very good light  |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Desperate is one thing I'm not love. I just found it surprising from the lack of replies so thought id send a message to someone far below what I'd consider my type and see if I was punching above my class. Yes any advice on my profile is welcome mate"
Wow.
Someone “far below” you consider your type? So in your opinion she should have been grateful you bothered to message her at all?
I haven’t read your profile, but I think perhaps you need to drop your sense of entitlement. |
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OP. In the nicest possible way...
On this thread you display disrespect, a sense of entitlement and whininess I suspect that's why you aren't getting meets.
The odds massively favour women here so if your personality gives out negative vibes, they will ignore you and move on to the next guy.
As a general point these "woe is me I can't get meets" are completely self defeating. Feeling sorry for yourself never attracted anyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves..."
Sometimes the OP says it all for you
" too much like hard work"
Says it all. That sentence right there |
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"OP. In the nicest possible way...
On this thread you display disrespect, a sense of entitlement and whininess I suspect that's why you aren't getting meets.
The odds massively favour women here so if your personality gives out negative vibes, they will ignore you and move on to the next guy.
As a general point these "woe is me I can't get meets" are completely self defeating. Feeling sorry for yourself never attracted anyone.
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect "
Wtf
Who's showing no respect. |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect
Wtf
Who's showing no respect. "
You in many ways |
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"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here. "
Do we just have to take your word for it that you're decent looking? |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect
Wtf
Who's showing no respect.
You in many ways "
How do you work that out |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
You have no idea the way to stand out is the be different from the rest set a new standard of respect
Wtf
Who's showing no respect.
You in many ways
How do you work that out "
Sorry not you other dude |
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I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really! |
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Would you like some of my popcorn? "
Prefer buns but go on then..
Wondering if OP dares to tell every one who the worst profile on here is... |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol"
Jesus Christ, what an entitled attitude! Lose the arrogance! As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give it, most will read profile before responding to you, or not as the case may be!
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
So only women who look a certain way should be allowed to state what they want on their profile? |
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Sometimes the OP says it all for you
" too much like hard work"
Says it all. That sentence right there"
I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lolJesus Christ, what an entitled attitude! Lose the arrogance! As you haven't specifically asked for profile advice, I can't give it, most will read profile before responding to you, or not as the case may be!"
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
I believe they are called preferences, we are all allowed to have them. Oh sorry, I forgot this is fucking instashag, and we are just unpaid whores waiting to drop our knickers when entitled, arrogant men click their fingers!
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"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
And the point of this post is? |
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"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
Because they don't look like Kelly Brooke means they should be less choosy n fuck people they don't want to? |
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Sometimes the OP says it all for you
" too much like hard work"
Says it all. That sentence right there
I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread "
A pre unlos thread
You have just created the next big thing, right there
Love it |
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They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "
Sorry, but that's complete rubbish.
Most people will meet up in the social area of the club and have no idea of how well hung anybody is. |
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"I think some of these woman think there Kelly brook with the amount of do’s and do not’s on there profiles. Then you realise there just not and think really!"
So only those who look like Kelly Brook have the right to make decisions based on what they do or don't want? |
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Sometimes the OP says it all for you
" too much like hard work"
Says it all. That sentence right there
I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread
A pre unlos thread
You have just created the next big thing, right there
Love it"
And UNLOS. |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper "
True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanders in read OP thread..
Wanders out ...
Sometimes it's better to just say nothing...
Sits on my rock and watches the waves...
Sometimes the OP says it all for you
" too much like hard work"
Says it all. That sentence right there
I do love a tastefully written pre unlos thread
A pre unlos thread
You have just created the next big thing, right there
Love it"
I'm here to serve |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe."
Good job I'm somebody then, and not nobody |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe."
Was he a guitarist |
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
True. Nobody says no to a man carrying a large axe.
Good job I'm somebody then, and not nobody "
There goes that idea. Was trying to figure out how to smuggle the axe into a club... back to the frock idea.... |
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"I just don't get this site. Unless you look like a professional model I can't see how you even get to meet women on here. I'm a decent looking bloke, friendly up for most things yet I dont even get a reply of any of the women on here.
some of the men i have met arent professional models, professional pain in the asses maybe but "
Have we met? |
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At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet. |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "
Because he wasn't getting any response from his messages. It's the sensible thing to do. |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "
Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though  |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave?? "
Disillusionment. Apparently being a decent respectful guy who puts some effort in so the ladies of fab get something out of the deal is hard work. |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??
Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though "
What DO they expect?
Ive often wondered
Post a huge whine, to what ends?
Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?
Because they all follow the same pattern |
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"At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet. "
Ha. Look who's talking! You have also been swelling the members of men... |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??
Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though
What DO they expect?
Ive often wondered
Post a huge whine, to what ends?
Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?
Because they all follow the same pattern"
Unfortunately that’s what they do expect |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??
Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though
What DO they expect?
Ive often wondered
Post a huge whine, to what ends?
Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?
Because they all follow the same pattern"
They expect a queue of grateful women lined up arojnd the block to be so long that the police have send in crowd control...
Aka knee deep in clunge |
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"Why do so many op's post a topic for discussion then leave??
Probably cause they don’t expect a lot of sarcastic answers back, followed by shameless flirting between other members? Maybe wrong though
What DO they expect?
Ive often wondered
Post a huge whine, to what ends?
Do they expect sympathy? Empathy? Shit loads of women msging them?
Because they all follow the same pattern
They expect a queue of grateful women lined up arojnd the block to be so long that the police have send in crowd control...
Aka knee deep in clunge "
It's a guilt trip. He basically accused women of being superficial and only being worried about looks. Maybe he was hoping for someone so desperate to prove him wrong that they would shag him to prove a point.
Either it didn't work and he left or it worked so well his diary is booked for the foreseeable future and he has no need for fab... |
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"At least he left. How many men are on here who say they can't get anyone to meet them. All they're doing is swelling the numbers of men and getting in the way of the men everyone wants to meet.
Ha. Look who's talking! You have also been swelling the members of men... "
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"Seriously though. I could send out a dozen messages and not get 1 reply. Ive even looked for the worse profile i could possibly find just to see if i get a reply and still no luck. I mean it's a site for people to meet up for sex. Surely it should be easier to hook up lol
When was the last time you went to a club or social event?
Effort required. If you don't want to make an effort, you may be better off using a site where you pay for the privilege of sex.
This is a Swingers site NOT a club site.
See club section
Not all profiles are in club section
No, but there are these things called swingers clubs, where swingers go. Granted not all people go there, however... it's a good place to meet swingers. If you wanted sweets would you go to a car showroom or a sweet shop?
Depends on if I want to get my cock out. Sweet shop might get me in trouble
Not really.
Clubs can be intimidating for a single male unless your very well hung.
They really can be intimidating, it's not all about being well hung either. Once you've done it though, you've done it
A single guy on his own in a club has to stand out and the main way is to have a massive chopper
Or a great personality, decent banter and be respectful "
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