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Truth and no games

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have noticed online the amount of people that want 2nd chances when they have lied in the past, played games

i dont mean white lies, i mean proper lies or games that could hurt people and they think "its ok to have another chance"

personally, if they have lied to you once or played games they could and will do it again..

do you agree or do you think everyone should have a 2nd chance?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Normally, I'd say no 2nd chances. But if I lived hard n fast by that rule. We wouldn't be married, wouldn't be expecting, would both likely be single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only some of the lies I tell are not the truth

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

I guess it depends on the lies and the situation I know from experience that if the lie is bad enough even if you give them a second chance the thing that never comes back fully is the trust

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it depends on the lie and how they justify it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it depends on the lie and how they justify it.

this... the odds of me giving a second are inversely proportional to the scale of the lie

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

"I have noticed online the amount of people that want 2nd chances when they have lied in the past, played games

i dont mean white lies, i mean proper lies or games that could hurt people and they think "its ok to have another chance"

Personally I don’t give second chances

personally, if they have lied to you once or played games they could and will do it again..

do you agree or do you think everyone should have a 2nd chance? "

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I'm another where it depends on the lie. If you're lying to me because you're planning a surprise party for my birthday, I ain't gonna be mad. If you're lying to me because you're hiding something serious, depends how serious and how I found out.

If you're lying to me because you're afraid of hurting my feelings.... I'm a big girl and lying will so me more harm than the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this the 'fool me once, fool me twice attitude?

It depends who the person is to me that lied. Did they intend to hurt me? Etc. I'm

More mindful than looking at it selfishly, or at least I try to be.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

It depends on who the person is, what the lie was and how much damage it did.

If I feel the person is worth the effort, they seem contrite and they didn't fuck me over too badly I will possible give them a second shot..... but never a third.

If they can't even be bothered to give an honest apology then they don't stand a chance, they are gone.

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