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Aren't there some creepy little individuals around!
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker! 
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If he's continuously setting up new profiles here to get around your blocks then make a note of the names and report them all to admin  "
Well I'm not sure it's to just get around my blocks,but that's worth a try I suppose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he's continuously setting up new profiles here to get around your blocks then make a note of the names and report them all to admin
Well I'm not sure it's to just get around my blocks,but that's worth a try I suppose."
Admin can block his IP address I had a stalker which they did this to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really sad that someone has resorted to that. It's a form of stalking in reality and must be really uncomfortable for you not to be able to enjoy being on here without interference.
I hope someone can stop him doing it.
Sending a hug
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well."
Don't understand weirdos like this ... why can't they just take no for an answer?  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If he's continuously setting up new profiles here to get around your blocks then make a note of the names and report them all to admin
Well I'm not sure it's to just get around my blocks,but that's worth a try I suppose.
Admin can block his IP address I had a stalker which they did this to."
Oh right that's good to hear actually,I shall be on the lookout for his next profile. I was going to report him on Pof,but no doubt they'd kick me off there for being on here! |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"It's really sad that someone has resorted to that. It's a form of stalking in reality and must be really uncomfortable for you not to be able to enjoy being on here without interference.
I hope someone can stop him doing it.
Sending a hug
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Every so often an idiot come's along and reminds us why it's not a good idea to have face pic's up,damn annoying but that's life eh! We have to take the good with the bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's really sad that someone has resorted to that. It's a form of stalking in reality and must be really uncomfortable for you not to be able to enjoy being on here without interference.
I hope someone can stop him doing it.
Sending a hug
Every so often an idiot come's along and reminds us why it's not a good idea to have face pic's up,damn annoying but that's life eh! We have to take the good with the bad."
Very true but it's sad that people can't go about their own business because someone is out to spoil it for no real reason.
We don't have face pics on our profile, only in private for that very reason.
I hope that for your trouble with this guy that there is someone incredibly nice that will make you smile and balance it out x |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Unfortunately he could easily get around the IP address being blocked, especially if using their mobile to access the internet...a woman I had stalking me always did...thankfully she got bored after two years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's really sad that someone has resorted to that. It's a form of stalking in reality and must be really uncomfortable for you not to be able to enjoy being on here without interference.
I hope someone can stop him doing it.
Sending a hug
Every so often an idiot come's along and reminds us why it's not a good idea to have face pic's up,damn annoying but that's life eh! We have to take the good with the bad."
Its why my face pics arent up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well."
Is he creepy just because he keeps messaging you? How is he being horrible? |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well.
Is he creepy just because he keeps messaging you? How is he being horrible?"
Of course he's not creepy just because he keeps messaging,it's the content of his message's. They're vile and threatening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He'll open a profile using his pics or yours?
If your pics then that is creepy, if his, then sadly it is a small "dating/casual sex" world and i've had chats with 3 men on here who i've also seen on POF.
It's just their way of trying to get more sexy-time.
If he harrasses you, then report him and block him everytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's really sad that someone has resorted to that. It's a form of stalking in reality and must be really uncomfortable for you not to be able to enjoy being on here without interference.
I hope someone can stop him doing it.
Sending a hug
Every so often an idiot come's along and reminds us why it's not a good idea to have face pic's up,damn annoying but that's life eh! We have to take the good with the bad.
Its why my face pics arent up"
I keep most of my pics for friends only and only add people I've seen on cam in chat so I know they aren't him. Limits my friends but I'm ok with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well.
Is he creepy just because he keeps messaging you? How is he being horrible?
Of course he's not creepy just because he keeps messaging,it's the content of his message's. They're vile and threatening."
Its sad someone feels the need to do this and to this extent
Sadly all admin will do is block the profiles
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"He'll open a profile using his pics or yours?
If your pics then that is creepy, if his, then sadly it is a small "dating/casual sex" world and i've had chats with 3 men on here who i've also seen on POF.
It's just their way of trying to get more sexy-time.
If he harrasses you, then report him and block him everytime."
Using my pic's from here and pof,no doubt he's just a sad individual who face to face wouldn't say boo to a goose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are alot of strange people on here unfortunately. I agree with the other comments ignore and report.
I cannot understand what this guy thinks he is going to gain from acting like this. Such weird behaviour |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Can you block him and then maybe change your username/profile pic so he can't rejoin and automatically search your name?"
I've blocked him on pof,I'm trying to see if I can see a profile of his on here I haven't blocked yet. I need to keep a look out on the updates I've seen him on there before.
He's just been an irritant in the past and I haven't hugely been bothered by him |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Can you block him and then maybe change your username/profile pic so he can't rejoin and automatically search your name?
I've blocked him on pof,I'm trying to see if I can see a profile of his on here I haven't blocked yet. I need to keep a look out on the updates I've seen him on there before.
He's just been an irritant in the past and I haven't hugely been bothered by him"
But now he's pissing me off slightly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Escalate it.
Stalking, including cyberstalking – e.g. inundating someone with unwanted messages online – became a crime in 2012.
It is no different to someone dropping messages through your letterbox.
You're probably not the only one he/she is causing a misery to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you block him and then maybe change your username/profile pic so he can't rejoin and automatically search your name?
I've blocked him on pof,I'm trying to see if I can see a profile of his on here I haven't blocked yet. I need to keep a look out on the updates I've seen him on there before.
He's just been an irritant in the past and I haven't hugely been bothered by him"
hope admin can help. Threatening to use your pics is not on. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Escalate it.
Stalking, including cyberstalking – e.g. inundating someone with unwanted messages online – became a crime in 2012.
It is no different to someone dropping messages through your letterbox.
You're probably not the only one he/she is causing a misery to.
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No I was thinking that. I just don't know why someone bothers to do it,their time would be better spent trying to get themselves a meet/date. However I do appreciate some people do it for the reason they are unsuccessful in that department and get bitter and twisted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Escalate it.
Stalking, including cyberstalking – e.g. inundating someone with unwanted messages online – became a crime in 2012.
It is no different to someone dropping messages through your letterbox.
You're probably not the only one he/she is causing a misery to.
No I was thinking that. I just don't know why someone bothers to do it,their time would be better spent trying to get themselves a meet/date. However I do appreciate some people do it for the reason they are unsuccessful in that department and get bitter and twisted."
Some do it as they think they are better than you and i was told. “Im outta league”.
Yet message after message, new profile after new profile proves it different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should say i want to meet and send him somewhere far away, that will teach im a lesson.
Maybe,but probably not a great thing to do in the long run."
Noooooo. Your better than this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shocking what some guys will do on fab to get meets. Hopefully he might see this post and maybe get message he’s bang out of order and stop it. Least you’ve blocked him and brought it to attention of others. Obviously we can’t name names but heard of a shocking thing this weekend where a old bloke on here that part organisers social events at a club has been saying to single women if they don’t meet him he won’t put them on the list. We have reported him to fab as have a few people we know. This surely shouldn’t be allowed |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Can't you name him so everyone can harass him,
Or is that a no no on here?
Would be nice to give him a taste of his own medicine."
That will only get myself a ban,I don't know what his up-to-date profile is in here anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Escalate it.
Stalking, including cyberstalking – e.g. inundating someone with unwanted messages online – became a crime in 2012.
It is no different to someone dropping messages through your letterbox.
You're probably not the only one he/she is causing a misery to.
No I was thinking that. I just don't know why someone bothers to do it,their time would be better spent trying to get themselves a meet/date. However I do appreciate some people do it for the reason they are unsuccessful in that department and get bitter and twisted."
Being unsuccessful and becoming bitter & twisted is still no excuse. In fact it is a worrying development.
Every time they get away with it they become emboldened. Eventually that builds up until it could become physical/sexual abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 It's definitely creepy.
You need to report him if he's sending you vile messages and getting around your blocks.
I don't like it when men on POF let me know they recognise me from here.
Urgh creep off!
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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago
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You should take this to the police.
And if he claims to have ED, he should get viagra for that. And if nobody wants to meet him for free, he should have booked an escort. I don't see how either of these issues can possibly justify this sort of behaviour, no matter how "desperate" he might be.
Maybe point these options out to him, then say you'll inform the police if he doesn't leave you alone.
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Unfortunately this sort of thing is the down side of the internet. I dont remember it happening when you had to send a letter to meet swingers for fun. I hated bullies when I was a kid,I still hate them as a adult,hope you get it sorted out one way or another. If you need a hand with the other...give me a shout. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"Not a nice situation to be in OP.
Hope you can get it resolved x big hugs x
He's just an idiot who's looking for a reaction,he's best ignored x"
Keep screen shots of messages at very least too, as previously sad it's part of English law so you can escalate to the police, they will find him fast enough, wonder if the police turning up at his home / work and having that first initial chat would help, if not the possibility of a criminal record could have the desired effect too.
Good luck |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well.
Is he creepy just because he keeps messaging you? How is he being horrible?
Of course he's not creepy just because he keeps messaging,it's the content of his message's. They're vile and threatening."
Report to the police and save all messages for evidence. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
" It's definitely creepy.
You need to report him if he's sending you vile messages and getting around your blocks.
I don't like it when men on POF let me know they recognise me from here.
Urgh creep off!
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I got rid of the POF app because of this. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Not a nice situation to be in OP.
Hope you can get it resolved x big hugs x
He's just an idiot who's looking for a reaction,he's best ignored x
Keep screen shots of messages at very least too, as previously sad it's part of English law so you can escalate to the police, they will find him fast enough, wonder if the police turning up at his home / work and having that first initial chat would help, if not the possibility of a criminal record could have the desired effect too.
Good luck "
I'll mention that to him actually about screenshotting his message's if he contacts me again in the future. |
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Admin can block his IP address I had a stalker which they did this to."
Can't see that working TBH. Every time I reboot my BT router I'm assigned a new IP address that's without the effort of using a VPN . Opera browser even has a free VPN built in for disguising an IP address. |
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"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well."
Say you've changed your mind and arrange to meet him but get "friends" to have a word with him about the error of his ways |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"So I have a sad creepy man who keeps messaging me on pof he know's I have a profile on here as well. He's had numerous profiles on both and I keep blocking him everytime he rears his ugly head.
He say's he's going to open a profile on there with pics from both site's,well GO FOR IT YOUR MOTHER fucker!
Unfortunately that still won't get YOU sex! He really shouldn't be horrible to other's just because his profile say's he has trouble getting an erection.
It's annoying when you can't do what you want with your profile due to other's being wankers,oh well.
Say you've changed your mind and arrange to meet him but get "friends" to have a word with him about the error of his ways"
I don't have any 'friends' like that. God I wish I did at time's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't you name him so everyone can harass him,
Or is that a no no on here?
Would be nice to give him a taste of his own medicine.
That will only get myself a ban,I don't know what his up-to-date profile is in here anyway."
Well cyber crime is beginning to be taken more seriously year by year, And it'll reach a point where keyboard warriors can get done for spouting hate,
Let him carry on if he makes any threats he's buggered himself,
Report him and be done, he'll get a harsher punishment for cyber crime than stalking, UK laws are not the best for stalkers. |
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