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What do you look for in a person here.?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do look for here on fab. What would make you mail a person .? Is there a tick list for you or do you just go on the pics and profile or how close they are too you.? Or do you just go on there fed back from others.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone that can make me laugh, a decent photo or 2. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, and obviously I need to find them attractive."
In a nutshell  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"Someone that can make me laugh, a decent photo or 2. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, and obviously I need to find them attractive."
But how would you know if they make you laugh if you hadnt messaged them yet  |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
Definitely a decent profile so I can get a feel for them and ensure they match what I am looking for and that I match what they are looking for too. Alas, they always fall into the 'stunning' category so I wimp out and wander on *chuckles*
Don't worry though I have a tin of man the f*** up on order so it's all good! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Good question ...i think for me its the complete combination of pics/profile/locality and sometimes their forum activity (if they use forums) which can also put me off messaging them  "
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Interacting on the forums and chatting in the chat rooms is a lot easier to see if there is some kind of mutual attraction and personality match then sending pms I find, Sometimes trying to have a conversation via messages is like trying to get blood out of a stone |
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A decent avatar, something in it that catches my eye will make me check out a profile.
Definitely not a cock pic. No thanks.
Age & physical attributes.
Other pics too, something in them that's gives a clue to their personality.
A well written profile, that they've put the time & effort into it.
Preferences that match my own.
Location is a factor,but distance is not necessarily a negative.
Tick those boxes, and they may just get a message
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"Someone that can make me laugh, a decent photo or 2. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, and obviously I need to find them attractive.
But how would you know if they make you laugh if you hadnt messaged them yet "
I would have read their profile before I even considered messaging them. If it didn't raise an eyebrow or a smirk then interest disappears.
I think your profile is your place to express a little of who you are, and if you can't be arsed to do that, I can't be arsed to coax it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A big donger and a neat punani...not really, but an advantage hehe!
For me its about personality, the flirtatious tension building up, anticipation of things to come. Included in that has to be some well presented pictures, no dog beds or children's toys in the background. Not too much genetalia on show....
Oh and a one word opening message is rarely going to illicit a response  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile that says they are a billionaire with a dodgy heart.
I’m messaging them straight away
Unfortunately, I still haven’t found one  "
I'm a trillionaire does that help? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What do look for here on fab. What would make you mail a person .? Is there a tick list for you or do you just go on the pics and profile or how close they are too you.? Or do you just go on there fed back from others.?"
a good profile
good recent photos (not just face)
interests that match mine (some are a must)
Banter, flirting, and understanding my boundires |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Well written profile, someone who makes me laugh, some great pictures, reference to being dominant and listing SM as an interest (as I like guys that don’t want to hide it in case it scares the ‘nillas).
I don’t want much, do I? |
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I have a theoretical tick list.
Female
Brunette
Funny
Sarcastic
Straight Talking
Down to Earth
Kinky
Kind
Compassionate
Loving
Attractive
Sexy Body
Aged 39
Likes Ford Escort Mexico's
Lives near me, Not Dudley  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile that says they are a billionaire with a dodgy heart.
I’m messaging them straight away
Unfortunately, I still haven’t found one
I'm a trillionaire does that help?"
How healthy are you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a theoretical tick list.
Female
Brunette
Funny
Sarcastic
Straight Talking
Down to Earth
Kinky
Kind
Compassionate
Loving
Attractive
Sexy Body
Aged 39
Likes Ford Escort Mexico's
Lives near me, Not Dudley "
wow do do have a long list . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well written profile, someone who makes me laugh, some great pictures, reference to being dominant and listing SM as an interest (as I like guys that don’t want to hide it in case it scares the ‘nillas).
I don’t want much, do I?"
I have a well written profile if that'll do ya? |
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"I have a theoretical tick list.
Female
Brunette
Funny
Sarcastic
Straight Talking
Down to Earth
Kinky
Kind
Compassionate
Loving
Attractive
Sexy Body
Aged 39
Likes Ford Escort Mexico's
Lives near me, Not Dudley "
If I had a twin I'd send her |
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"I have a theoretical tick list.
Female
Brunette
Funny
Sarcastic
Straight Talking
Down to Earth
Kinky
Kind
Compassionate
Loving
Attractive
Sexy Body
Aged 39
Likes Ford Escort Mexico's
Lives near me, Not Dudley wow do do have a long list . "
As long as a lamppost maybe?
But it is theoretical |
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"I have a theoretical tick list.
Female
Brunette
Funny
Sarcastic
Straight Talking
Down to Earth
Kinky
Kind
Compassionate
Loving
Attractive
Sexy Body
Aged 39
Likes Ford Escort Mexico's
Lives near me, Not Dudley
If I had a twin I'd send her "
I'd graciously accept her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A profile that says they are a billionaire with a dodgy heart.
I’m messaging them straight away
Unfortunately, I still haven’t found one
I'm a trillionaire does that help?
How healthy are you? "
If you were to turn up to my house with nothing but heels and stockings my April will pound like a 17 year olds first time and drop dead right there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A combination of, good pics, good use of words, someone who is local, and someone who can at least have a conversation on a half decent level. Plus its just nice to be wanted and fancied.
More often than not i write a good message with a around 30 words only to get one or two back. Kinda annoyes me somewhat. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Well written profile, someone who makes me laugh, some great pictures, reference to being dominant and listing SM as an interest (as I like guys that don’t want to hide it in case it scares the ‘nillas).
I don’t want much, do I?
I have a well written profile if that'll do ya? "
Your profile is superlative and you always make me laugh...and you come with tea. That swings it for me! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"A combination of, good pics, good use of words, someone who is local, and someone who can at least have a conversation on a half decent level. Plus its just nice to be wanted and fancied.
More often than not i write a good message with a around 30 words only to get one or two back. Kinda annoyes me somewhat. "
Ha! I get the opposite complaint - guys say I go on for way too long in response. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality. Same as if i spoke to someone in a bar, my attraction to someone is based on there personality obviously you look 1st before you speak but i never decide on looks weather i fancy fucking someone, after all youv gotta speak to someone and be in there company longer than you have sex with them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality. Same as if i spoke to someone in a bar, my attraction to someone is based on there personality obviously you look 1st before you speak but i never decide on looks weather i fancy fucking someone, after all youv gotta speak to someone and be in there company longer than you have sex with them "
P.S thats just my opinion anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think when we arrive here most (well men) start searching and go for anyone locally.
Then we get the knockbacks and broaden the search. Then manage to get a few meets to which some great and some not so great.
Then feel a little mah about it all.
And then you (well me) discover it's more about finding a rapport over time with someone.
Then I think you have cracked it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" What do look for here on fab. What would make you mail a person .? Is there a tick list for you or do you just go on the pics and profile or how close they are too you.? Or do you just go on there fed back from others.?"
Nice tanned body.. nothing else.. |
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that is outrageous 
