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over a year ago
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy 
What have you decided not to do recently?  "
Do they contact you? That's why I do t get the 'looked at you' feature. It's absolutely categorically pointless. It has no bearing on anything on here. If it wasn't there it would not make it less/more enjoyable. And that's what proves the point. Even the wink has a purpose.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all
The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing  "
Ive stopped
They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
Post in the who deserves an award thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Punishing myself for things that aren't my fault!
Have removed a toxic profile from my hot list. Not quote ready to block it just yet.... I'm a work in progress "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently? "
It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages
They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise  |
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
Do they contact you? That's why I do t get the 'looked at you' feature. It's absolutely categorically pointless. It has no bearing on anything on here. If it wasn't there it would not make it less/more enjoyable. And that's what proves the point. Even the wink has a purpose.
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Nope, I have never had a message as a direct result of a 'profile views' thread. I think it's just a negative vibe tbh; guy's wonder why they can't get double-figure views, and women panic because they ONLY got double-figure views. Too many people use the stalker setting making any summary total irrelevant (for guys anyway) |
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages
They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise "
Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages
They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise
Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x"
I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised  |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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Sending out opening messages cos it takes a good 15-30 mins to rite and spell chek and to bottal up my nurves cos i try to rite a nice opening message just for it to be deleted or insulted. So i just don't bother anymore.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it
It will be the day we make it ..
I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.
If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.
Today I have nothing I want to give up ...
Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it
It will be the day we make it ..
I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.
If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.
Today I have nothing I want to give up ...
Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all
The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing
Ive stopped
They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike"
I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post. |
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages
They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise
Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x
I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised "
My apologies, I didn't mean any offense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Contributing to the 'How many views have you had' type threads anymore, it's soul-destroying as a single guy
What have you decided not to do recently?
It can be just as soul destroying as a single woman to get lots of views and not many messages
They looked and didn’t like what they saw is how I interpret it so sometimes not being able to see how many views you’ve had is a blessing in disguise
Maybe when they read your profile they can't meet what you are looking for? To be fair, the 'Move on, nothing to see here' isn't very inviting x
I don’t think I asked for my profile to be criticised
My apologies, I didn't mean any offense "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all
The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing
Ive stopped
They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike
I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post."
Sometimes it takes a while for me to cop myself on
Like 50 years |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Make an effort for men who just sit back and do fuck all
The op was referring to something that you are stopping doing
Ive stopped
They step up, make a fucking effort, join in like big boys or take a fucking hike
I'm surprised you ever did anything else. Hence my first post.
Sometimes it takes a while for me to cop myself on
Like 50 years"
O eck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it
It will be the day we make it ..
I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.
If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.
Today I have nothing I want to give up ...
Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."
Very deep but very good post |
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"Today is going to be a good day..if you dare to let it
It will be the day we make it ..
I've given up lots of things in the past and eventually discovered it's not what you give up that matters... it's what you do with what you have left.
If your going to give anything up make it for reasons that make you happy .....not just because you feel angry.
Today I have nothing I want to give up ...
Who knows maybe that's how we finally learn to gain the things that matter.."
Great post! But giving up something that makes you unhappy, can only make you happier, surely? |
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