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NO SHOWS/HOW MANY TO INVITE?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's something I've been thinking about for awhile and want to try out .I want to get dressed up in Basque tights knickers and boots and have a group of men wank and cum on my clothes preferably bum and pussy areas.(a tights Bukake sort of thing)just dipping my toes in so to speak.
I've heard alot about no shows / time wasters! So how many should I invite to ensure a decent amount.ideally I'd like 5 .so I thought I'd put this out to u all for advice .rather than going ahead and booking a hotel only to have no one show up and my time and money wasted . |
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"There's something I've been thinking about for awhile and want to try out .I want to get dressed up in Basque tights knickers and boots and have a group of men wank and cum on my clothes preferably bum and pussy areas.(a tights Bukake sort of thing)just dipping my toes in so to speak.
I've heard alot about no shows / time wasters! So how many should I invite to ensure a decent amount.ideally I'd like 5 .so I thought I'd put this out to u all for advice .rather than going ahead and booking a hotel only to have no one show up and my time and money wasted ."
Just me, I promise not to wank for 3 weeks beforehand so my balls are like space hoppers !  |
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"Go to a club to do it will be sooo much easier. Guys on here are a nightmare.go with this idea far easier"
Definately this. They are real and have turned up. Go on a mixed night or some clubs have events that are purposely top heavy wih guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I've checked clubs out Pandora looks like the one as the date I want to do it it's couples and singles night .appreciate all your advice thanks .now just need to get some guys |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok I've checked clubs out Pandora looks like the one as the date I want to do it it's couples and singles night .appreciate all your advice thanks .now just need to get some guys "
Put a meet request up for the night you're going with some info on what you're looking for |
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"There's something I've been thinking about for awhile and want to try out .I want to get dressed up in Basque tights knickers and boots and have a group of men wank and cum on my clothes preferably bum and pussy areas.(a tights Bukake sort of thing)just dipping my toes in so to speak.
I've heard alot about no shows / time wasters! So how many should I invite to ensure a decent amount.ideally I'd like 5 .so I thought I'd put this out to u all for advice .rather than going ahead and booking a hotel only to have no one show up and my time and money wasted ."
Invite at least 20... at least 10 will reply but only 5 will turn up!! Good luck sweetie xx |
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I used to organise parties like these a few years ago on my old profile. I’d say 5:1 invite:attend
Get phone numbers, speak to them and secure a confirmation.
Some will drop out the day before, on the morning and 5 mins before. Most just don’t turn up.
It feels like a full time job arranging it and is a lot of hastle.
Apartments are better than hotels. Get a co-ordinator- someone to meet people in an agreed neutral location, walk them in. Co-ordinate when clothes go and ensure everyone plays by the rules eg condoms, etc
If you want any specific advice then pm me
Good luck and enjoy |
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"I used to organise parties like these a few years ago on my old profile. I’d say 5:1 invite:attend
Get phone numbers, speak to them and secure a confirmation.
Some will drop out the day before, on the morning and 5 mins before. Most just don’t turn up.
It feels like a full time job arranging it and is a lot of hastle.
Apartments are better than hotels. Get a co-ordinator- someone to meet people in an agreed neutral location, walk them in. Co-ordinate when clothes go and ensure everyone plays by the rules eg condoms, etc
If you want any specific advice then pm me
Good luck and enjoy "
Spot on advice. I work in a similar fashion when trying to organise something (think of it as trying to herd cats, lol)
Would add, don't be disappointed if you don't get the number of people you think you were going to get - work with what you get on the night - helpful if your coordinator is a playmate, so a major no show scenario becomes a nice evening with a friend - only one turns up, becomes an enjoyable 3sum,etc.. |
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"Ok so club seems the way to go .do u just go and ask guys that are already there ? Or arrange with guys before to meet there "
Do both. If it's a club, it matters so much less if the timewasters don't turn up, you'll be having a good time regardless with the ones who are there already!
It might be handy if you have a trusted wingman with you to help invite just the guys you would like to play.
Have fun! |
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plus you will be safer in a club 
