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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok... so here goes...
There's many men/women/couples around here that are saying it's hard to get a meet without my veris....so my offer is this!
If anyone is about THIS Saturday (14/10/2017) and doesn't have any verifications, but would like a SOCIAL ONLY and receive one, then post here.
This will be ESSEX only, I will be about all day in different parts of the county.
So now's the time to quit the whining about not being able to get verified, and come and meet for a coffee and get yourself on the ladder.
Awaiting responses....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do."
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
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I know I understand that,I'm just looking at it from a straight guy's point of view. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
I know I understand that,I'm just looking at it from a straight guy's point of view. "
As pointed out above... they don't have to display it, just show they have one.
Oh and I don't do graphic ones, just the tame variety... turned up when they said, looked like their pic etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
I know I understand that,I'm just looking at it from a straight guy's point of view.
As pointed out above... they don't have to display it, just show they have one.
Oh and I don't do graphic ones, just the tame variety... turned up when they said, looked like their pic etc..."
If a social veri from a guy, on a single guys profile, is not displayed then people assume it was a play meet and won't meet, and also not everyone reads veris either, to know they are social. These reasons are often why guys don't meet guys, or verify eachother when they do meet, even when they are in situations with females present  |
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
I know I understand that,I'm just looking at it from a straight guy's point of view.
As pointed out above... they don't have to display it, just show they have one.
Oh and I don't do graphic ones, just the tame variety... turned up when they said, looked like their pic etc...
If a social veri from a guy, on a single guys profile, is not displayed then people assume it was a play meet and won't meet, and also not everyone reads veris either, to know they are social. These reasons are often why guys don't meet guys, or verify eachother when they do meet, even when they are in situations with females present "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could get to Margate in under 2 hours,
I'm sure someone out there would appreciate a verification "
This is not only open to single men! Haha... and the fabguys site would be a better option if that was the case |
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"You could get to Margate in under 2 hours,
I'm sure someone out there would appreciate a verification
This is not only open to single men! Haha... and the fabguys site would be a better option if that was the case "
It's mainly Men who say they can't get a meet without a verification, I doubt many Women would need to meet up unless they wanted to meet you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I can see what you are trying to do op, there are many girls and couples that don't meet if someone has hidden verifications. I've had to explain mine aren't hidden, but from people that have left the site.
Again a man that has a verification from another man will always be viewed with suspicion by those that only meet straight males, whether a social or not.
Good intentions though!
I'm sure as you say it would help single females and couples too. |
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I appreciate the effort but for the following reasons this will not run.
1. The verification system is primarily for ing out fakes. No one will fake being a single man so there is no point them taking up your offer.
2. Couples and single women can pretty easily get verifications from people they want to meet for sex reasons.
3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason. |
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3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason. "
Ooh I wish I’d read this before posting! You have a point!! |
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
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Well said you.
Its a verification that they are who they say they are, nothing else.
Nice one OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you can change it to Sunday, I’ll come along and we can both do veris!  "
You are welcome to come for a coffee... but you have veris already so that shows your genuine.
Sunday eh... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems Op, that they either love you or hate you...
As it is, I don't need a verification however if yer buying coffee, I will have a black coffee no sugar please..  "
Oh Paul.. i thought it was you buying me a coffee! Haha 6 sugars and a latte please |
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"If you can change it to Sunday, I’ll come along and we can both do veris!
You are welcome to come for a coffee... but you have veris already so that shows your genuine.
Sunday eh... "
I don’t need the veri’s I meant more for the single men who don’t want another man as their veri |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
"It seems Op, that they either love you or hate you...
As it is, I don't need a verification however if yer buying coffee, I will have a black coffee no sugar please..
Oh Paul.. i thought it was you buying me a coffee! Haha 6 sugars and a latte please "
Oh alright then..
Don't want anyone saying I don't buy a round...
Six sugars though.. and I thought you was sweet enough already... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate the effort but for the following reasons this will not run
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason. "
Did someone call....
Regardless of who is offering I don't agree with verifying in a speed dating kind of way.
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
Nice idea but I did this last year with another fab lady. Loads of people messaged us but not one turned up on the night because we wouldn't play or at least give them a bj !! That's the mentality of people near me  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain |
"3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves. "
I’m pretty sure Fab’s systems recognise your IP address so nobody can set up two profiles & verify themselves. If they could every single guy would have two accounts & there wouldn’t be anyone bemoaning the fact they can’t get Verified.
Anyway, a well intended Thread, OP.
Like another commentator I’m not sure if I’d be 100% comfortable with handing out Veris to folk you may not have had any real interaction with on Fab prior to dishing out your Verifications, or whether you’ll even get any uptake. That said, your offer seems well intentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems Op, that they either love you or hate you...
As it is, I don't need a verification however if yer buying coffee, I will have a black coffee no sugar please..
Oh Paul.. i thought it was you buying me a coffee! Haha 6 sugars and a latte please
Oh alright then..
Don't want anyone saying I don't buy a round...
Six sugars though.. and I thought you was sweet enough already... "
Well I can be sweet... or sour!
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"3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
I’m pretty sure Fab’s systems recognise your IP address so nobody can set up two profiles & verify themselves. If they could every single guy would have two accounts & there wouldn’t be anyone bemoaning the fact they can’t get Verified.
Anyway, a well intended Thread, OP.
Like another commentator I’m not sure if I’d be 100% comfortable with handing out Veris to folk you may not have had any real interaction with on Fab prior to dishing out your Verifications, or whether you’ll even get any uptake. That said, your offer seems well intentioned. "
I've seen a couple with their first veri being from one of their single profile so fab doesn't check ip's or they did it from a mobile or something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well from this thread someone messaged me, and would like to meet on Saturday for a coffee and a veri....so maybe it has helped someone after all.
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Result
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate the effort but for the following reasons this will not run
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason.
Did someone call....
Regardless of who is offering I don't agree with verifying in a speed dating kind of way.
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Why not? A verification is supposed to be verifying that the person is as presented on their profile. It's not a character reference or seal of approval. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This will be ESSEX only, I will be about all day in different parts of the county."
Is it going to be like a treasure hunt? They seek him here
They seek him There
Where is Marmite
We really do care
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your ever near Thanet op ill meet you in a pub for a pint and a very.
At lest it will prove I'm real. "
Ok magnum... you will be in the Ferrari obviously |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"If your ever near Thanet op ill meet you in a pub for a pint and a very.
At lest it will prove I'm real.
Ok magnum... you will be in the Ferrari obviously "
No... Lol
I don't drive.. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it going to be like a treasure hunt? They seek him here
They seek him There
Where is Marmite
We really do care
He's not in Bristol haha"
I got verified thanks, which is weird cos I don't meet people...
But would buy you a pint and do a dual very on Seeside though we would need to find him a Ferrari to sit in at least |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Well that's a few pints to be kept on the pipes until I want them
As for magnum, I will use a mates Ferrari just for him "
Lol if you do can it be befor 3pm as I'm working after 3pm sunday
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a stupendously great idea - and you definitely win the award for most selfless forumite of the day.
Next time my other half is away, I’ll do something similar "
Ohhh is the award gold or platinum?
May spread this over Sunday too if anyone is still looking for a veri and a coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate the effort but for the following reasons this will not run
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason.
Did someone call....
Regardless of who is offering I don't agree with verifying in a speed dating kind of way.
Why not? A verification is supposed to be verifying that the person is as presented on their profile. It's not a character reference or seal of approval. "
So what happens if their profile is a shadow man, / one liner, minimal effort one, pretty hard to say they're presented as per their profile then isn it?
I think verifying just for the sake of someone getting the green tick probably helps provide the subjects of numerous timewaster threads where people exclaim "...and they were verified genuine too.."
I get that it's hard for some men to get verified, it's like the fab equivalent of the holy grail but there are also a lot who put fuck all effort into it too!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I appreciate the effort but for the following reasons this will not run
4. There will be some cynical souls who believe this is a contrived way of getting a meeting and avoid for that reason.
Did someone call....
Regardless of who is offering I don't agree with verifying in a speed dating kind of way.
Why not? A verification is supposed to be verifying that the person is as presented on their profile. It's not a character reference or seal of approval.
So what happens if their profile is a shadow man, / one liner, minimal effort one, pretty hard to say they're presented as per their profile then isn it?
I think verifying just for the sake of someone getting the green tick probably helps provide the subjects of numerous timewaster threads where people exclaim "...and they were verified genuine too.."
I get that it's hard for some men to get verified, it's like the fab equivalent of the holy grail but there are also a lot who put fuck all effort into it too!
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I see where you’re coming from Roxi, but I really don’t see anyone with a shit profile actually making an effort to meet someone simply to get a verification |
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"3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
I’m pretty sure Fab’s systems recognise your IP address so nobody can set up two profiles & verify themselves. If they could every single guy would have two accounts & there wouldn’t be anyone bemoaning the fact they can’t get Verified.
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Nope. We set up a separate profile from the same ip address when we were doing a gangbang with another girl. No problem at all. |
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"Equally, if any women in the South Wiltshire area need a veri of the SEXUAL kind i'll be happy to meet Saturday, especially if you can put me up for the night! "
Still plenty of appointments left |
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"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
Why not. I have veries from other guys?"
I'm gobsmacked that your profile pic has been allowed. |
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Ha I have a veri from a chap who I knew from a social and displayed it all. He has now left the site and when he did the veri text went too. So I now have a verification from a meet with a man....
On the upside I do get people asking about it when my profile says straight but at least they took the time to look and ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
I’m pretty sure Fab’s systems recognise your IP address so nobody can set up two profiles & verify themselves. If they could every single guy would have two accounts & there wouldn’t be anyone bemoaning the fact they can’t get Verified.
Nope. We set up a separate profile from the same ip address when we were doing a gangbang with another girl. No problem at all. "
People can have more than one profile but it takes the piss a little when they're verifying their other profile.... 
The answer to the veri problem in a nutshell! |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"Ok... so here goes...
There's many men/women/couples around here that are saying it's hard to get a meet without my veris....so my offer is this!
If anyone is about THIS Saturday (14/10/2017) and doesn't have any verifications, but would like a SOCIAL ONLY and receive one, then post here.
This will be ESSEX only, I will be about all day in different parts of the county.
So now's the time to quit the whining about not being able to get verified, and come and meet for a coffee and get yourself on the ladder.
Awaiting responses....
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Fabulous idea OP
Your such a gent as always xx |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
North Colchester |
"You could get to Margate in under 2 hours,
I'm sure someone out there would appreciate a verification "
Drive to where I am for a social and I’ll veri you !
I’ve met Mr Marmite at Mingles many times and he is a very genuine nice guy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You could get to Margate in under 2 hours,
I'm sure someone out there would appreciate a verification
Drive to where I am for a social and I’ll veri you !
I’ve met Mr Marmite at Mingles many times and he is a very genuine nice guy x "
Thanks miss juicy 
On a side note, I could always use my couples profile to verify single gents if they didn't want one from this profile. |
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"You could get to Margate in under 2 hours,
I'm sure someone out there would appreciate a verification
Drive to where I am for a social and I’ll veri you !
I’ve met Mr Marmite at Mingles many times and he is a very genuine nice guy x
Thanks miss juicy
On a side note, I could always use my couples profile to verify single gents if they didn't want one from this profile. "
I think that would be more successful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"3. If single guys do get a verification from you but don't display it, they can get exactly the same effect by setting up a second profile and verifying themselves.
I’m pretty sure Fab’s systems recognise your IP address so nobody can set up two profiles & verify themselves. If they could every single guy would have two accounts & there wouldn’t be anyone bemoaning the fact they can’t get Verified.
Nope. We set up a separate profile from the same ip address when we were doing a gangbang with another girl. No problem at all. "
You can set up multiple profiles but can’t verify them. We’ve got a singles profile each and I’ve just tried verifying our own and it wouldn’t let me and I got a warning message. So if someone has done this then they they have used a different op address to set up the account to be able to verify themselves. Also they must of got a verification off someone verified first has you can’t verify if you’ve not got any verification. |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
North Colchester |
"Ok so one pulled out... anyone around the local area wanting a coffee and a veri this afternoon? "
Your too kind x
Dont go out your way too much
So bad pulling out when you’ve put yourself out |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day. "
I think it was a very genuine offer from you, so sorry that people are so cynical on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day. "
They know a veri won't make a difference to their sad profiles deep down and then what would they have to moan about? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day.
They know a veri won't make a difference to their sad profiles deep down and then what would they have to moan about? "
Very true.
On a separate note... Mingles club is only round the corner to you... fancy a night out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day. "
Did you have firm acceptances and they've no-showed or did no one want to take you up on the offer? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day.
Did you have firm acceptances and they've no-showed or did no one want to take you up on the offer?"
Had 3 firm... all didn't bother to contact this afternoon.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day.
Did you have firm acceptances and they've no-showed or did no one want to take you up on the offer?
Had 3 firm... all didn't bother to contact this afternoon.
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Kind of reaffirms my earlier view of why I don't think people should veri this way.
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"Hows it all going? Well I hope xx
Seems everyone is happy not having any verifications.
Won't be offering again, their loss at the end of the day.
Did you have firm acceptances and they've no-showed or did no one want to take you up on the offer?
Had 3 firm... all didn't bother to contact this afternoon.
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That’s so out of order |
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"It was a good thought... but alas too many time wasters as usual.
No-one took me up on my offer at all. Whats wrong with these women? "
Their loss Clem their loss. Although to be fair I'm not sure what you were offering |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"But a guy may not want a verification from another man. I get the sentiment though,well done you. It's not personally something I would do.
A social one wouldn't matter... it just shows they are genuine.
I know I understand that,I'm just looking at it from a straight guy's point of view. "
Quite - I've been to fabs socials/forum whatssnames and have veris from blokes and TVs - some people will only look at the summary and, in spite of what the veris say, will decide that you fuck men and TVs. |
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Always meeting people at Mingles though 