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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I'm just at 194, I can tell from the profile and the message box whether it is worth opening, though I am losing 20 messages every night I log off and some ladies don't seem to believe that lol  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Mine's currently at 10. Months of filters have had them slowly reduce to that as ancient messages drop off the page. I am intrigued how long it'll take to get any lower; I got all excited at the weekend when it dropped to 9 and then someone I apparently replied to with no further contact over a year ago remessaged so it went back up to double figures.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"194? Jesus"
Yeah, most aren't worth opening never mind responding to, I've endured so much abuse over the years I find it is better to piss them off by leaving them unread as it frustrates them more as they just don't know, but maybe that is just my sense of humour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not exactly sure but over 100, sometimes. I go onto my laptop to get to unread messages that have gone from the first page, so I can clear them. They are usually responses to my no thank you reply, or short sentences from a thread that I didn't have to open to read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always delete messages...read, unread, sent...in all of my email accounts etc...
Can't stand a cluttered inbox!"
I never get over 50, it just annoys me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine annoys me when it’s around the 400 mark so I do a global delete and heave a sigh of relief.
It’s 128 right now though and I’m already twitching over the delete button.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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97 but we always clear them at weekends when we're both at home and online together etc! We never read them in the week, it's says this on our profile but some folk still send...and a few still get sh*tty when they're not read! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I answer it all every time I'm online.
Goody 2 shoes 
Nah... I just don't need the ego boost that some do.
Some females don't need an ago boost, so it is wrong to assume so! "
I don’t understand the ego boost comment. Good on you for your efficiency, I don’t know how you do it. I genuinely can’t, but why is that ego related? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I answer it all every time I'm online.
Goody 2 shoes
Nah... I just don't need the ego boost that some do.
Some females don't need an ago boost, so it is wrong to assume so!
I don’t understand the ego boost comment. Good on you for your efficiency, I don’t know how you do it. I genuinely can’t, but why is that ego related? "
Which would be an ego boost- 100's of mails from men desperate to fuck them, or an empty inbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I answer it all every time I'm online.
Goody 2 shoes
Nah... I just don't need the ego boost that some do.
Some females don't need an ago boost, so it is wrong to assume so!
I don’t understand the ego boost comment. Good on you for your efficiency, I don’t know how you do it. I genuinely can’t, but why is that ego related?
Which would be an ego boost- 100's of mails from men desperate to fuck them, or an empty inbox?"
You’re answering my question with an unrelated question. Why is not being able to answer all messages an ego boost? Your comment was alongside your own ability to reply to all of yours. I’m genuinely curious. (My inbox is currently clear, as an aside, I did a block delete, I haven’t answered most of them. No ego involved). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're on the site to meet i'm not sure i understand how you can leave so many messages unread? Surely you'd have to read them to to see if there is a connection and if they are what you are looking for?
Unless you do your own searching?
Even if logging in once a week or something, surely women who have been on the site a while don't get 100's of messages still, daily?
If so, clearly i must be doing something wrong.
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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago
Norwich |
We hit the 300 mark A DAY ...read and Answer them ALL....even if the reply is just a "Thank you" ....We spend 4 odd hours a day doing emails on here ...
The more effort people put in the more we do ....the more basic the mail so is our reply.
As the person mentions above if you don't read them/start a conversation how do you know if you want to meet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site to meet i'm not sure i understand how you can leave so many messages unread? Surely you'd have to read them to to see if there is a connection and if they are what you are looking for?
Unless you do your own searching?
Even if logging in once a week or something, surely women who have been on the site a while don't get 100's of messages still, daily?
If so, clearly i must be doing something wrong.
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When I take off my filters to receive messages from my chosen age group, my unread messages go up quite quickly. I'm in a highly populated Fab area, and they soon rack up. If I find someone I'm really interested in, or the messages are overwhelming, I put my filters back up and try to reply to the unread ones. I'm currently on 16 unread messages because they aren't on the first page. So I can't get to them. |
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"We hit the 300 mark A DAY ...read and Answer them ALL....even if the reply is just a "Thank you" ....We spend 4 odd hours a day doing emails on here ...
The more effort people put in the more we do ....the more basic the mail so is our reply.
As the person mentions above if you don't read them/start a conversation how do you know if you want to meet.... "
Wow. I am hugely impressed that you can reply to 300 a day. That is a full time job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over 12k by the time she replaced her device. Oh yes, that's just the unread ones....
On fab? Is that even possible? "
No, not on here, just personal emails.. |
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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago
Norwich |
Well we have the luxury of working from home ....Plus Mary is a work a Holic (is still working now) and often works till 1-2 am ....so while she is one end of our office muggings here is the other lumbered with doing most of them.....It can et to you at times hearing the same ole same ole every day all the time.....
How are you
Are you ok
what you doing
How was your day
etc etc
you know the ones .....But still answer them......
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"Well we have the luxury of working from home ....Plus Mary is a work a Holic (is still working now) and often works till 1-2 am ....so while she is one end of our office muggings here is the other lumbered with doing most of them.....It can et to you at times hearing the same ole same ole every day all the time.....
How are you
Are you ok
what you doing
How was your day
etc etc
you know the ones .....But still answer them......
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You have THE best profile photos I've seen on here! Totally what fab should be about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We hit the 300 mark A DAY ...read and Answer them ALL....even if the reply is just a "Thank you" ....We spend 4 odd hours a day doing emails on here ...
The more effort people put in the more we do ....the more basic the mail so is our reply.
As the person mentions above if you don't read them/start a conversation how do you know if you want to meet....
Wow. I am hugely impressed that you can reply to 300 a day. That is a full time job. "
Me too. Can’t ge bothered with that. I just fuck and go. So much more fun than replying to “hi”. And “wot you up to?” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure SS would reply to such a post ~ "filters"
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Ah but the thing is I'm not complaining about them. They certainly aren't an ego boost. They have amassed over months. I'm just a lazy bitch. Pure and simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on the site to meet i'm not sure i understand how you can leave so many messages unread? Surely you'd have to read them to to see if there is a connection and if they are what you are looking for?
Unless you do your own searching?
Even if logging in once a week or something, surely women who have been on the site a while don't get 100's of messages still, daily?
If so, clearly i must be doing something wrong.
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I only get that amount daily if I've uploaded a photo.
My age means I'm off some radars but my location attracts a lot of transient types. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I accidentally deleted over 200 last week and now it hovers around 30, I can deal with that ... but really miffed as I may have missed something great in the deleted ones 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently on 513, I had a really active day test day trying to answer messages. I need to have a cull but it just refills "
I find the longer I'm 'active' for the more mail I receive. When I'm having an inbox tidy up I hide my profile, makes the process easier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently on 513, I had a really active day test day trying to answer messages. I need to have a cull but it just refills
I find the longer I'm 'active' for the more mail I receive. When I'm having an inbox tidy up I hide my profile, makes the process easier!"
Ah I like this, I'm still learning lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read mine - I'm too nosey to leave it unopened
Even if theres loads it doesn't take that much time - because lets face it we aren't reading epic messages that are the length of War and Peace |
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Yes, childish but true. I'll delete before it goes much higher 
