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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I turned up to a dance class early as it was a new venue and i wanted to secure a seat for me and my mum (who was with me)
After about 30mins the venue did become full and the class had started. Some late comers arrived and as most people were on the floor starting to learn the moves.. these women then moved our handbags and drinks and sat down
There were tables with seats available away from the floor.
Would you bite your tongue and just move or point out what they already knew was that people were sat there?
I would have bitten my lip and just moved.. my mum however did not and made a fuss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its the one aspect of the dance scene,that pisses me of...not all clubs are like it..
I make a fuss...no worries bout that...ignorant, self centred cunts... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I would say something,but in a nice, not in an aggressive way as I would assume that they simply did not think rather than being deliberately obnoxious. I just find life easier assuming that. |
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"Its the one aspect of the dance scene,that pisses me of...not all clubs are like it..
I make a fuss...no worries bout that...ignorant, self centred cunts..."
Who are the cunts? The people dancing and reserving seats and tables or the people not dancing who want to sit at a table ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its the one aspect of the dance scene,that pisses me of...not all clubs are like it..
I make a fuss...no worries bout that...ignorant, self centred cunts...
Who are the cunts? The people dancing and reserving seats and tables or the people not dancing who want to sit at a table ?"
The cunts who arrive late....refuse to use spare tables, sit at yer table..knock ladies acroutremounts onto the floor and then stand on em, tip over handbags,move yer drinks...then after yer finished dancing to yer 2 requests, brazzeningly try and front it out......hahahaa...yeah...that`ll work..fuck the cunts.....
Manners please....especially..a fella nicking a ladies seat...sheesh!!!.. |
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I would have politely told them you were sitting there. Had there been no bags and empty glasses I would have took it on the chin. But as there were and it was a dance class where you expect people to be learning steps on a dance floor I would have had to say something. Good on your mum  |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
I'm with your mum on this one.
Don't think you said how it ended, I hope the ensuing fuss resulted in them moving on. Education of the ignorant!
Whatever next? they'll be moving our towels off the sun loungers  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm with your mum on this one.
Don't think you said how it ended, I hope the ensuing fuss resulted in them moving on. Education of the ignorant!
Whatever next? they'll be moving our towels off the sun loungers "
some of us have a natural talent at that..;-) |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick.."
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well done x "
I guess you`re replying to me Grans....thanks...tho its raises eyebrows and can lead to a moment of embarrassement...but boundaries need asserting, its a personal space that wasn`t respected..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick..
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table! "
We always have alot of giggles mon ami !
Do you dance ?.. |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick..
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table!
We always have alot of giggles mon ami !
Do you dance ?.."
Two left feet! but always happy to make a fool of myself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am now officially shit scared of Dave 
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hahaha I have an inkling of how I come across....aggressive I guess.. 
I can be assertive, but really I`m a gentle sod..honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My old mom would have had em by the throat with their handbags wrapped round it. lmao .
subtle wasnt her style im afraid.
But then. i would have told them to kin sling their hook too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick..
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table!
We always have alot of giggles mon ami !
Do you dance ?..
Two left feet! but always happy to make a fool of myself! "
I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
I`m wondering what sort of dancing Sassy is doing ?..
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"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick..
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table!
We always have alot of giggles mon ami !
Do you dance ?..
Two left feet! but always happy to make a fool of myself!
I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
I`m wondering what sort of dancing Sassy is doing ?..
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Would love to learn to jive |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
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I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
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I attended two Salsa classes held at a local primary school but the hall stank of cabbage and urine. I'll give it another go at a proper dance centre, sounds fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
I attended two Salsa classes held at a local primary school but the hall stank of cabbage and urine. I'll give it another go at a proper dance centre, sounds fun! "
they probably use the room for the old dears bingo before your dancing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do tell ........
He was behaving badly....I had a word...there was a difference of opinion....he moved...
Self centred, narcisstic prick..
Well if I ever go dancing, I want DaveShaz on my table!
We always have alot of giggles mon ami !
Do you dance ?..
Two left feet! but always happy to make a fool of myself!
I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
I`m wondering what sort of dancing Sassy is doing ?..
Would love to learn to jive"
Modern jive is an amalgamation of allsorts....its amazingly popular...tho I never knew that...
Try googling Leroc..or..Ceroc...there`s bound to be some clubs near you....stick at it fer a while, then you can travel and meet hundreds of wonderful people..dance to music...love my music |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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it was a ceroc class.. i was completely amazed at the dancers.. i joined in with the beginners class as im only visiting but my mum has been going 6 months now :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it....brilliant social life, with vibrant, happy people to have fun with....
One of the best things I ever done...was going to my first jive lesson...something I hear, time and again..
I attended two Salsa classes held at a local primary school but the hall stank of cabbage and urine. I'll give it another go at a proper dance centre, sounds fun! "
Its like pubs I guess...I never use them tho lol....good and bad...
If its a small club, then they save on hire by getting the less salubrious places...
We`re prepared to travel and go to some stunning venues...after you progress to being comfortable, and that need not take long ( a month or two) you can attend freestyles....popular clubs throw a full blown dance night....no lessons just dancing...lots of bling and glamour sometimes....but its the smiles that stand out...
Give it another try...
Tho to be honest..salsa fer me is abit samey....with jive you get a very eclectic mix of music ...thats me tho .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it was a ceroc class.. i was completely amazed at the dancers.. i joined in with the beginners class as im only visiting but my mum has been going 6 months now :D"
Thats cool Sassy....you should keep going...that could be you Amazing dancer haha
Yes it is amazing....in so many ways..
The times I`ve seen people transform from wallflowers with poor self esteem into vivascious happy people ....thats not aimed at you, but an observation |
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"it was a ceroc class.. i was completely amazed at the dancers.. i joined in with the beginners class as im only visiting but my mum has been going 6 months now :D"
Cool Sassy, hope you keep it up.
There is a school near us that teaches it so may just look it up.
Would love to learn with Rhett but he has 2 left feet and dances like my dad |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
Near Bristol |
"Give it another try...
Tho to be honest..salsa fer me is abit samey....with jive you get a very eclectic mix of music ...thats me tho .."
Thanks for the info on salva/jive, I shall give it another go. Sounds like a good way to increase the social side of life too. Are single males popular in dance clubs lol? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not too bad with the dancing however my nearest Ceroc class is over and hour away.. might just have to pop along with my mum up here in the midlands when i visit
She goes to the Rugby Ceroc classes.. the freestyle session after the lessons were truly mind blowing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Give it another try...
Tho to be honest..salsa fer me is abit samey....with jive you get a very eclectic mix of music ...thats me tho ..
Thanks for the info on salva/jive, I shall give it another go. Sounds like a good way to increase the social side of life too. Are single males popular in dance clubs lol?"
When i went to the Ceroc class there were equal numbers of men to women (bout 50 of each) and there was lots of flirting going on.. there was even a dancing Vicar (i was gobsmacked) lol |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Give it another try...
Tho to be honest..salsa fer me is abit samey....with jive you get a very eclectic mix of music ...thats me tho ..
Thanks for the info on salva/jive, I shall give it another go. Sounds like a good way to increase the social side of life too. Are single males popular in dance clubs lol?"
salsa classes are notoriously short of males and desperate for those who can lead, ie strong leads.... you d be very popular I imagine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not too bad with the dancing however my nearest Ceroc class is over and hour away.. might just have to pop along with my mum up here in the midlands when i visit
She goes to the Rugby Ceroc classes.. the freestyle session after the lessons were truly mind blowing"
Leroc is always worth a try...its just the same, only not a franchise
We live in Taunton...so we can get to Exeter, Bristol, etc....
Yep...we`re going to a freestyle that peeps from all over the country attend tomorrow..national champions etc go to have fun.....its something else....just chatting or dancing with them...
Abit like watching `strictly` sometimes..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Give it another try...
Tho to be honest..salsa fer me is abit samey....with jive you get a very eclectic mix of music ...thats me tho ..
Thanks for the info on salva/jive, I shall give it another go. Sounds like a good way to increase the social side of life too. Are single males popular in dance clubs lol?
When i went to the Ceroc class there were equal numbers of men to women (bout 50 of each) and there was lots of flirting going on.. there was even a dancing Vicar (i was gobsmacked) lol"
Clean, respectful males are always welcome at dance classes chap...doesn`t matter what yer feet do for a while...yer smile is the winner...thats a savvy truth as well
The social side is the most dynamic part of a lifestyle with dancing in it.....truly hard not to make good friends...and flirt a little haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar  He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)"
You dance ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah"
We`ll have to rumba |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba "
pas a double?;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)"
With a ronde`.. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. "
I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-) |
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)"
I don`t know those styles to be honest...
Argentian tango is on my hit list...and swing...love the musicality of the music... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
I don`t know those styles to be honest...
Argentian tango is on my hit list...and swing...love the musicality of the music..."
Absolutely, it is the Latin American rhythm like Tango, salsa, samba, mambo... when I hear the music I cannot sit still... it s awesome |
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
I don`t know those styles to be honest...
Argentian tango is on my hit list...and swing...love the musicality of the music...Absolutely, it is the Latin American rhythm like Tango, salsa, samba, mambo... when I hear the music I cannot sit still... it s awesome"
I feel the music in me as well....tho I`m still learning how to express that...hope I never stop trying...it appeals to the creative and expressive parts of my personality...yeah....a good dance is like good sex.... |
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
I don`t know those styles to be honest...
Argentian tango is on my hit list...and swing...love the musicality of the music...Absolutely, it is the Latin American rhythm like Tango, salsa, samba, mambo... when I hear the music I cannot sit still... it s awesome
I feel the music in me as well....tho I`m still learning how to express that...hope I never stop trying...it appeals to the creative and expressive parts of my personality...yeah....a good dance is like good sex...."
Music creates, stabilises, improves, changes, intensifies .... moods and its appreciation is a real gift. I am not talking about a formal study here, I am talking about that moment when the music (whatever music) resonates in you, does something to you, is inescapable... and it is part of you and you are part of it.. and dancing is just an expression of the passion, the feelings...
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
I don`t know those styles to be honest...
Argentian tango is on my hit list...and swing...love the musicality of the music...Absolutely, it is the Latin American rhythm like Tango, salsa, samba, mambo... when I hear the music I cannot sit still... it s awesome
I feel the music in me as well....tho I`m still learning how to express that...hope I never stop trying...it appeals to the creative and expressive parts of my personality...yeah....a good dance is like good sex....Music creates, stabilises, improves, changes, intensifies .... moods and its appreciation is a real gift. I am not talking about a formal study here, I am talking about that moment when the music (whatever music) resonates in you, does something to you, is inescapable... and it is part of you and you are part of it.. and dancing is just an expression of the passion, the feelings...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turned up to a dance class early as it was a new venue and i wanted to secure a seat for me and my mum (who was with me)
After about 30mins the venue did become full and the class had started. Some late comers arrived and as most people were on the floor starting to learn the moves.. these women then moved our handbags and drinks and sat down
There were tables with seats available away from the floor.
Would you bite your tongue and just move or point out what they already knew was that people were sat there?
I would have bitten my lip and just moved.. my mum however did not and made a fuss "
I would have been like your mum.. its just bad manners as far as I am concerned.
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)"
Now when i dance... , it looks like im doing all of them at the same time |
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By *phroditeWoman
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
Now when i dance... , it looks like im doing all of them at the same time "
Thats ok, you are being ecclectic... inclusive... no prejudice or preference... Peaches teh Peacemaker |
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"Sounds very appealing, so long as I don't get the dancing vicar He does dance and rather well but not into salsa... YET!! Mind you, give me time...;-)
You dance ? love it, yeah
We`ll have to rumba pas a double?;-)
With a ronde`.. I actually (seriously) love chaha, tango and Vienesse... not at the time mind...;-)
Now when i dance... , it looks like im doing all of them at the same time "
Thats `street` ..Peaches...you`ve potential... |
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