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What would put you off a meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just seen an update where the woman was saying she’s looking forward to a night of fun and more of the same the next day. Then ends it by saying not even a cold sore lip will stop me.
Erm... it may stop the others.
If you were meeting this person would you still go ahead? What things would put you off a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ewwww!
A cold sore would be a no go from me - who would want one of those appearing on their bits?!
Other things that would put me off... bad smells, bad breath, bad teeth, bareback preferences (or verifications from known barebackers) etc |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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The cold sore would certainly put us off as would, bareback and a general air of arrogance on the profile.
Things that have stopped us progressing further after a social have been bad breath, poor hygiene and those who seem to have made no effort with their appearance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bloke messaged me on the morning of the meet to tell me he had Quincy, so couldn't do Oral. I backed out of the meet, I didn't fancy catching it. I was rather cross with him for expecting me still to meet and because he,d clearly had it for a while. XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's an STI warning for sure
Ohh dear...  "
Why ?
Giving oral with an active cold sore would send the chance of it transferring to the other person through the roof, type 1 herpes isn't confined to the mouth, it can quite easily be passed on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A bloke messaged me on the morning of the meet to tell me he had Quincy, so couldn't do Oral. I backed out of the meet, I didn't fancy catching it. I was rather cross with him for expecting me still to meet and because he,d clearly had it for a while. XXX"
I was in hospital with Quincy in January, I'm surprised he could even think about a meet! It's painful and scary, I couldn't talk or open my mouth properly, I didn't have sex or play for over a month!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got stung on the lip by a jellyfish a few days before a scheduled meet, it swelled up and didn't look very good so we decided to call it of for the meet, was the best thing to do under the circumstances. |
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"A bloke messaged me on the morning of the meet to tell me he had Quincy, so couldn't do Oral. I backed out of the meet, I didn't fancy catching it. I was rather cross with him for expecting me still to meet and because he,d clearly had it for a while. XXX
I was in hospital with Quincy in January, I'm surprised he could even think about a meet! It's painful and scary, I couldn't talk or open my mouth properly, I didn't have sex or play for over a month! "
I had tonsillitis last year just before we went to Swingfields. Frank became ill so we assumed I'd passed it on. Hospital thought quinsey - turned out it was non-Hodgkins Lymphoma!!! How anyone would feel well enough to even consider a meet is beyond me - I was knocked off my feet & Swingfields was ruined!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't go anywhere near someone with a cold sore as they are very contagious and a sign that that person isn't at their best.
Things that put me off meeting.. Oh God there is such a list as I'm getting more and more picky as been messed about so much. I think top of the list is who they have met. If they have been involved in gangbangs bareback for instance, then it's a definite no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A bloke messaged me on the morning of the meet to tell me he had Quincy, so couldn't do Oral. I backed out of the meet, I didn't fancy catching it. I was rather cross with him for expecting me still to meet and because he,d clearly had it for a while. XXX
I was in hospital with Quincy in January, I'm surprised he could even think about a meet! It's painful and scary, I couldn't talk or open my mouth properly, I didn't have sex or play for over a month! "
Quincy is the worst! Its so fucking painful!
My off puts are people who get a bit pushy before the meet. I always do a veri trail and that has put me off a few times. If someone i havent met before cancels on me then i won't arrange another. Definitely no mouth herpes! Sometimes i dont even know what puts me off. |
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