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Wish fab had an anti-veri system
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be abused though. I could quite easily say someone stood me up. No one but me and them would ever know if we'd even agreed to meet in the first place, I might just have taken a dislike to them. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It would be abused though. I could quite easily say someone stood me up. No one but me and them would ever know if we'd even agreed to meet in the first place, I might just have taken a dislike to them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How petty and dismissive of the negative effect on verified member who doesn't have the privilege of answering back....
You don't need to display received verifications and you don't need to display the frequency of how many times you meet....
I think the idea proposed in the opening thread is clumsy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What annoys me about verifications is if you leave and come back .I don't think people should be able to re verify as I met a few first time I was on for social and were nothing like there pics and still on .so when I returned they sent me verifications .Rather wish they hadn't.But funny as they don't show mine as I was honest |
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"So that we could flag up a warning about our serial time waster/complete fantasist."
If they are a time waster and fantasist why are you allowing them to waste your time and energy any further, you can just block them and then they won’t waste your time anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or maybe verifications should all be shown on a profile that way if someone wasn’t who they said or the meet went bad we could say that and it couldn’t be hidden. But again it would be used in a negative way for people to just get at people that they don’t like. Simplest way is if you think there fake or wasting your time block them and move on. Plenty of genuine people on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe verifications should all be shown on a profile that way if someone wasn’t who they said or the meet went bad we could say that and it couldn’t be hidden. But again it would be used in a negative way for people to just get at people that they don’t like. Simplest way is if you think there fake or wasting your time block them and move on. Plenty of genuine people on here. "
I have received a few nasty messages saying I'm fake so best to block and forget the idiots  |
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"Or even a rating system, so even if they didn't show the veris you'd know if they were good to meet or worth avoiding x "
But that is subjective, whats good for one isnt always gonna be good for another.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or even a rating system, so even if they didn't show the veris you'd know if they were good to meet or worth avoiding x "
 Not so sure about this. One person's 10 is another person's 3?? Consistency is important but we all have bad days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder just how often any compulsory system or anti verification system would just be abused...
All verifications prove is that two or more people met.
They don't guarantee or even infer because people met they would be compatible with anyone else... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder just how often any compulsory system or anti verification system would just be abused...
All verifications prove is that two or more people met.
They don't guarantee or even infer because people met they would be compatible with anyone else..."
Exactly.
In the logical world they mean nowt
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes me laugh when I read people posting stuff like this
Think about it guys
If we were able to leave negative feedback?
There would be all out anarchy
Fab would spontaneously combust in a very short time |
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"It makes me laugh when I read people posting stuff like this
Think about it guys
If we were able to leave negative feedback?
There would be all out anarchy
Fab would spontaneously combust in a very short time"
But what a laugh it would be, I'm a glass half full kind of guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So that we could flag up a warning about our serial time waster/complete fantasist.
If they are a time waster and fantasist why are you allowing them to waste your time and energy any further, you can just block them and then they won’t waste your time anymore "
The point of a veri-type system is to give information to other people. Not to help you save your own energy.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA."
Perhaps if you don't like the answers it's better not to ask the questions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA.
Perhaps if you don't like the answers it's better not to ask the questions "
Perhaps forumites might like to empathise with OPs rather than reflexively think of smart-alec answers and put-downs. Which is what Fab forums seem to be degenerating into. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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How would this anti-verification system be policed?
Even with the current system we have a couple of verifications (they are not on show, before you ask) in which whilst very nice and gushing with their praise make us think that they must have got us mixed up with somebody else as we were never that good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA.
Perhaps if you don't like the answers it's better not to ask the questions
Perhaps forumites might like to empathise with OPs rather than reflexively think of smart-alec answers and put-downs. Which is what Fab forums seem to be degenerating into."
Ok. I'm empathising
How would you envisage your anti verification idea working? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So that we could flag up a warning about our serial time waster/complete fantasist."
Hey, for some us fantasy is all we've got.....but I don't waste anyones time over it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or even a rating system, so even if they didn't show the veris you'd know if they were good to meet or worth avoiding x "
Would you really take somebody else's word for It? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be abused though. I could quite easily say someone stood me up. No one but me and them would ever know if we'd even agreed to meet in the first place, I might just have taken a dislike to them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So that we could flag up a warning about our serial time waster/complete fantasist."
You need to flag yourselves first then, as you are wasting your own time talking to a serial time waster, when all you have to do is block and move on.
Anyway what you gonna say about said time waster....."avoid this member as they are dreaming of meeting and fucking but they really just want a wank" ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A feature to reject a veri would be nice, sometimes people get verified by absolute strangers.
Not happened me, but would be nice to say no."
I'd like to see this too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA.
Perhaps if you don't like the answers it's better not to ask the questions
Perhaps forumites might like to empathise with OPs rather than reflexively think of smart-alec answers and put-downs. Which is what Fab forums seem to be degenerating into."
You claim to have a serial timewaster?
It's not empathy you need
There is a very simple solution in your own hands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyway, the original post was tongue in cheek. Too much to hope that usual forum know-it-alls might refrain from their judgemental, holier than thou shite responses. Sometimes the Fab forums can be a huge PITA.
Perhaps if you don't like the answers it's better not to ask the questions
Perhaps forumites might like to empathise with OPs rather than reflexively think of smart-alec answers and put-downs. Which is what Fab forums seem to be degenerating into."
U ok hun? |
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