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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
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So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's upsetting, it's more how that preference is expressed. Too much body shaming of either type, we are what we are and no we're not going to appeal to everyone. But just because you like one type of figure doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with the other one x |
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By *yldstyle OP Woman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
"I have a preference for rich airhead heiresses
Would I get in trouble for confessing to that?"
No, you'd be wished luck in finding her and asked if she has any equally wealthy friends.. yet could be just as offensive to some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a preference is fine, slagging off those you don’t have a preference for is not fine.
Look how many slim women get upset when men say they prefer bigger women because they see them as real women  |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
I honestly don't think it's worth getting upset over.
Popular culture always pushes a certain "look" for people.
I'd sooner look deeper than skin, forge friendships, get to know people, find common ground and interests. I know that I am not conventionally handsome myself and find different things about people interesting.
I saw that thread and to be honest just thought "What a wally!" with his second comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
It's not the liking of slender women it's the apparent dislike of larger women which is the issue. Many guys want to meet me but whether they'd admit to it or be seen in public with me is another story. The guy (sorry his friend) on the thread you mention was thinking of having sex with a larger lady as an act of desperation because he's not had sex for so long....if that's not fat hating I'm not sure what is, it's certainly not slender hating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree that "shaming" is wrong and it happens all the time on here.
However preferences are not wrong, yet they are often questioned.
Why?"
Because some people get butthurt if they don’t fit into the preferences that someone has.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think the problem with the other post was the insensitive way in which the original question was asked and that was the reason for the lynch mob mentality.
However to answer the question here - I honestly don't have a preference other than that there's a connection and a chemistry first and foremost and yes of course there has to be a physical attraction, but for me that physical attraction is not necessarily defined by size or hair colour or length of their fingernails or anything else really - I just find someone attractive or I don't, plain and simple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just read the thread 
The answer? Some will, some won't. I like to think the majority of guys go for more than body shape. Unfortunately, there seems to be this common theme of berating one shape to appease the other. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's upsetting, it's more how that preference is expressed. Too much body shaming of either type, we are what we are and no we're not going to appeal to everyone. But just because you like one type of figure doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with the other one x "
Well said
I don't get upset about the preference of others. It wouldn't be a nice thought that someone has picked you out of desperation because they are having trouble getting meets of their preferred type.
Thankfully I've not encountered this, but I think the fact I like a chat and to establish a connection and meets can take a while to plan because of a lack of free time, I think anyone looking at me from the desperation angle would likely get fed up pretty quickly realising I wasn't an easy option  |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
I don't think that most people think like the poster of that thread-- thank goodness, otherwise only people of a certain shape/size would get meets, fall in love, have relationships etc etc. I think it's not about being slim or big but about how we feel about ourselves which is why we get upset.
Your very sexy and should embrace that and not worry about what others think x Ang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the (heterosexual) main, men prefer women on the slimmer side and women prefer gym fit men. There are, of course, exceptions, but for general proof of that just look at the top couple of pages of each genders hotpics and then tell me that I'm wrong... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most men on here (sweeping generalization, I know) don't have the sense to say what they are looking for and what their preferences are. We've all seen the cover all base profiles "I love a younger woman but wouldn't say no to a MILF" or "I love a nice petite girl but curves can be hot too". I can;t imagine how a woman begins to wade through the hundreds of men available but when I was meeting I was once tol that my profile easily put off 90% of people but that the other 10% were probably pretty keen to meet me.
Personally, unless a profile made it clear that they liked your type, I;d be wary because (another sweeping generalization) some men will say anything if they think it will get them a shag. Kist look at the white knighting where people contradict themselves repeatedly on the forums depending in who they are sucking up to at any given time |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
I have a preference for curvy brunettes. If a slim blonde showed interest would I block her? Would I bloody hell. I love meat n tata but i am not going to turn a steak bake down.
I also like redheads 
That thread was trolling at it's finest. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I posted this on another thread a few days back but it sums up my view of the whole thing:
It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful.
That's not to say that some men don't have a clearly defined body type preference but if they state that I can just avoid them, either because I don't fit that preference or I don't want someone to want to meet me purely because my body type ticks a box. I am me, not just a fetish. There's nothing wrong with the latter, but it's not why I'm here. |
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These never make any sense to me as I'm attracted to all kinds of shapes and sizes, I do love larger women and have been a member of various plus size groups and forums over the years when the internet wasn't dominated by social media. But then I also find some slimmer women attractive too. If someone is hot, they are hot regardless of their size, just the same as someone's size doesn't make them instantly hot based on that.
Sorry if that comes off as white knighting but I'm an equal opportunities pervert. |
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"I posted this on another thread a few days back but it sums up my view of the whole thing:
It's got nothing to do with 'real' men liking 'real' women or whatever trite old cliché gets rolled out attempting to flatter one type of womanly shape by being insulting (possibly accidentally) about another. It's simply about the fact that most straight/bi men like women for loads of reasons and in reality don't notice or really care about the bits we hate because hey, boobs or wow, face or phwoar, arse instead. I personally wince looking at my body as a whole, especially in certain positions that make what I consider my most awful bits prominent yet I have never met a guy who has seen my body the same way I do. Perspective is useful.
That's not to say that some men don't have a clearly defined body type preference but if they state that I can just avoid them, either because I don't fit that preference or I don't want someone to want to meet me purely because my body type ticks a box. I am me, not just a fetish. There's nothing wrong with the latter, but it's not why I'm here."
Excellent viewpoint.. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes I do laugh on here, the last thread was in total uproar due to the wording regarding larger ladies, but calling slim ladies, clothes hangers, not real women, and only dogs like bones, may only receive one ot two 'out of order' comments.
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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If I look at someone and find them attractive they are attractive.
I do not check clothing size labels.
I also find;
Personality
Sense of Humour
Eyes and
Long manicured nails
Attractive.....they are not size related. |
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I'm very visual when it comes to sex, Being on he slim side I prefer Women who are similar in size or not much bigger and its the same with their height,
For me its about how we look together not just how big she is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do laugh on here, the last thread was in total uproar due to the wording regarding larger ladies, but calling slim ladies, clothes hangers, not real women, and only dogs like bones, may only receive one ot two 'out of order' comments.
You've gotta love fab "
That is absolutely not true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shape, size or any type of look is not really a thing to think of play is good even when it's different. However if you have the personality of a dead fish your probably going to fuck like one too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I do laugh on here, the last thread was in total uproar due to the wording regarding larger ladies, but calling slim ladies, clothes hangers, not real women, and only dogs like bones, may only receive one ot two 'out of order' comments.
You've gotta love fab "
I don't agree, I've seen lots of people standing up for body shaming, of all sizes. That thread was jumped on because it was pretty derogatory. |
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You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I do laugh on here, the last thread was in total uproar due to the wording regarding larger ladies, but calling slim ladies, clothes hangers, not real women, and only dogs like bones, may only receive one ot two 'out of order' comments.
You've gotta love fab "
Rubbish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a preference is fine, slagging off those you don’t have a preference for is not fine.
Look how many slim women get upset when men say they prefer bigger women because they see them as real women "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet. "
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet. "
True in a sense. I want sex. Who doesn't. How i choose who to have sex with is decided by a lot of factors that's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing wrong in asking about something out of your comfort zone.
Saying it was from desperation and not being inquisitive changes the tone of it.
I really don't care if anyone thinks someone is desperate for wanting to fuck me. I'm here for the fucks.
There are people that think a lot of fat on a body looks gross but will still fuck that body, because it's just a fuck. I believe they are letting themselves down as much as the person they are fucking.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them "
Agreed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes people are dicks when expressing preferences and sometimes they're not, they just express it badly word wise (for whatever reason that maybe).
Nothing lights the forum touch paper faster than someone posting / questioning about women who are on the larger fab sizing scale.
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I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And so it continues.
Thread begets thread begets thread all driven by a need to comment on other people's physical attributes, and often by both genders of preconceived ideas of the opinions of others.
We all have preferences prejudices things in out past that determine how we view each other or our futures
I wonder if the lick suck fuck..does my dick look big in this. ..who's tits are best contributes to the mind set amongst some that body shaming in any form is acceptable.
I've said this often if the girl blows my mind ...then nothing else matters. I sometimes wish that those who do blow my mind responded likewise.. but then that's a whole new thread
I wonder if maybe I've just done the same as everyone else by saying that...
May we all be happy in our own skin and never be hurt by the mockery of fools... |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
It's definitely not what most people think but of course some people have preference for skinny girls
The bbw threads prove that a big proportion of guys like bigger girls.
Me ? I like all women of all shapes, sizes and race IF they are fun, friendly, gsoh etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet. "
Exactly ~ dont cut your nose off to spite your face springs to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them
Agreed! "
Although, I don't necessarily think all guys do that. Some do go for personality and a connection. I'm fat and I've not had issues in my past or on here. Although I am very rich with lots of leather bound books and mahogany, so maybe it's that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"These never make any sense to me as I'm attracted to all kinds of shapes and sizes, I do love larger women and have been a member of various plus size groups and forums over the years when the internet wasn't dominated by social media. But then I also find some slimmer women attractive too. If someone is hot, they are hot regardless of their size, just the same as someone's size doesn't make them instantly hot based on that.
Sorry if that comes off as white knighting but I'm an equal opportunities pervert. "
I'm the same. I have no 'preference' for age, size, gender. I can't state 'what I'm looking for' because I'm looking for anyone that I find attractive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some bigger women I find sexy, some I don't, same applies for slim women. I think for me its more about how you hold yourself, confidence is a beautiful thing regardless of size.
I find it odd to rule people out purely based on body shape or size. I get that it's preference and some people stick strictly to that, but surely there's always exceptions to the rule. I tend to gravitate to bigger women most of the time, but also find slim women stunning aswell. |
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them
Agreed!
Although, I don't necessarily think all guys do that. Some do go for personality and a connection. I'm fat and I've not had issues in my past or on here. Although I am very rich with lots of leather bound books and mahogany, so maybe it's that. "
Oh yes I don't think all guys think like that. But I think especially on the forum many guys will say what they think will gain popularity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I recently met a guy who met all my preferences. He was tall, physically fit, I was attracted to him visually and when we met, I was attracted to him physically. He had the funniest personality and had me in stitches. However, when he kissed me (not sure if he was trying to dissect my uvula with his tongue), I couldn't take the meet any further.
What I'm trying to say is, if there's chemistry and a strong connection, the body shape really should not be an issue? |
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"These never make any sense to me as I'm attracted to all kinds of shapes and sizes, I do love larger women and have been a member of various plus size groups and forums over the years when the internet wasn't dominated by social media. But then I also find some slimmer women attractive too. If someone is hot, they are hot regardless of their size, just the same as someone's size doesn't make them instantly hot based on that.
Sorry if that comes off as white knighting but I'm an equal opportunities pervert.
I'm the same. I have no 'preference' for age, size, gender. I can't state 'what I'm looking for' because I'm looking for anyone that I find attractive.
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Pretty much this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them "
There are people who don't have age, race, size, gender and whatever preferences. I really only have one myself, which is an age one, that I don't stick rigidly to.
I don't think less of a man because he finds all sizes of women attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes people are dicks when expressing preferences and sometimes they're not, they just express it badly word wise (for whatever reason that maybe).
Nothing lights the forum touch paper faster than someone posting / questioning about women who are on the larger fab sizing scale.
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I feel like this sort of belittles why people get annoyed on those threads. Personally, I've listened to people have derogatory views on my weight all my life. Whether that's come from a malicious place or just bad wording. I'm sure many of the larger ladies have.
When someone says something about body shaming on a thread, I always try to comment to make people see why their wording/views may hurt. I think others do this too, which is why it can get so heated. |
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"I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx"
I didn't get chance to answer your question on the other thread. If someone was desperate for a fuck and I knew they didn't really fancy me... yes I would still meet them if I fancied them. It would entirely depend on how they acted with me. Respect goes a long way. If they play the game then I'm happy. |
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"I recently met a guy who met all my preferences. He was tall, physically fit, I was attracted to him visually and when we met, I was attracted to him physically. He had the funniest personality and had me in stitches. However, when he kissed me (not sure if he was trying to dissect my uvula with his tongue), I couldn't take the meet any further.
What I'm trying to say is, if there's chemistry and a strong connection, the body shape really should not be an issue?"
Some of us see past the physical; maybe because we haven't been conditioned by our peers or society, or because we don't care what people think of our preferences. |
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet. "
I concur.
I never trust what a guy states on any site.  |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much?
I have a preference for curvy brunettes. If a slim blonde showed interest would I block her? Would I bloody hell. I love meat n tata but i am not going to turn a steak bake down.
I also like redheads
That thread was trolling at it's finest."
Yes it was , very entertaining and just what the forum needed on a Sunday morning
We used to prefer meeting women up to size 12 , and didn’t have any desire to meet larger than that . Our preference at the time . We are now very much more into meeting larger women too as long as they are not too into putting themselves down , and are willing to just enjoy themselves . Too many larger women are self conscious and neurotic about themselves , and this is no fun at all . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
I concur.
I never trust what a guy states on any site. "
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"These never make any sense to me as I'm attracted to all kinds of shapes and sizes, I do love larger women and have been a member of various plus size groups and forums over the years when the internet wasn't dominated by social media. But then I also find some slimmer women attractive too. If someone is hot, they are hot regardless of their size, just the same as someone's size doesn't make them instantly hot based on that.
Sorry if that comes off as white knighting but I'm an equal opportunities pervert.
I'm the same. I have no 'preference' for age, size, gender. I can't state 'what I'm looking for' because I'm looking for anyone that I find attractive.
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"I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx
I didn't get chance to answer your question on the other thread. If someone was desperate for a fuck and I knew they didn't really fancy me... yes I would still meet them if I fancied them. It would entirely depend on how they acted with me. Respect goes a long way. If they play the game then I'm happy. "
Do you think you can tell if someone doesn't find you physically attractive? My long term partner is very attractive and finds women of different ages and sizes attractive. When we have sex it feels like he's trying to get under my skin, and I feel very desired. Looking at what some people have written on here, he must be desperate to be fucking me. |
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
I concur.
I never trust what a guy states on any site. "
I never trust what anyone states on any site. I only trust what I say. |
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"I recently met a guy who met all my preferences. He was tall, physically fit, I was attracted to him visually and when we met, I was attracted to him physically. He had the funniest personality and had me in stitches. However, when he kissed me (not sure if he was trying to dissect my uvula with his tongue), I couldn't take the meet any further.
What I'm trying to say is, if there's chemistry and a strong connection, the body shape really should not be an issue?
Some of us see past the physical; maybe because we haven't been conditioned by our peers or society, or because we don't care what people think of our preferences. "
Yes we may see past the physical but the physical still has to attract in the first instance. I'll hold my hands up and say that I'm not going to be attracted to a guy with a massive beer gut and looks like my dad. |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much?
It's definitely not what most people think but of course some people have preference for skinny girls
The bbw threads prove that a big proportion of guys like bigger girls.
Me ? I like all women of all shapes, sizes and race IF they are fun, friendly, gsoh etc"
Do they though, or do they just try to appease us fat birds? Considering over weight and obesity is at just over 50% of the adult population and rising, are the guys trying to ensure a fuck? |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
Im really sorry and want to publicly apologise to you. I swear i never ment to offend or upset you in any way. What i said this morning was arrogent and bang out of order im honestly ashamed of myself and embarassed. From the bottom of my heart im sorry for my imaturity. |
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over a year ago
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much?
I have a preference for curvy brunettes. If a slim blonde showed interest would I block her? Would I bloody hell. I love meat n tata but i am not going to turn a steak bake down.
I also like redheads
That thread was trolling at it's finest.
Yes it was , very entertaining and just what the forum needed on a Sunday morning
We used to prefer meeting women up to size 12 , and didn’t have any desire to meet larger than that . Our preference at the time . We are now very much more into meeting larger women too as long as they are not too into putting themselves down , and are willing to just enjoy themselves . Too many larger women are self conscious and neurotic about themselves , and this is no fun at all . "
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much? "
Im really sorry and want to publicly apologise to you. I swear i never ment to offend or upset you in any way. What i said this morning was arrogent and bang out of order im honestly ashamed of myself and embarassed. From the bottom of my heart im sorry for my imaturity. |
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"You always get guys saying, I like all types of women, shapes and sizes etc, I'm not shallow, it's the personality that's the most important thing etc etc... which is fine... but that can also be interpreted as, it's all pussy at the end of the day and he just wants to get his dick wet.
Yep. That's exactly how I interpret it. My preference is for a guy with preferences and isn't afraid to state them
Agreed!
Although, I don't necessarily think all guys do that. Some do go for personality and a connection. I'm fat and I've not had issues in my past or on here. Although I am very rich with lots of leather bound books and mahogany, so maybe it's that.
Oh yes I don't think all guys think like that. But I think especially on the forum many guys will say what they think will gain popularity. "
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People having a preference for women who aren't fat doesn't bother me in the slightest. It's people who think those that aren't bothered by weight who make me laugh. Can they not see past their own over-inflated egos that we aren't all the same.
I wouldn't want to fuck someone who wouldn't fuck me now, but would if I lost a few stones of fat. |
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Of course it's what people think.
We all wonder about others and assume lots, but curtail our thoughts and opinions.
Expressing diversity if opinion shoukd be encouraged if the dialect is sensible.
I've never been with an Asian lady. I'm not stupid enough to believe the experience is different to other ethnicities but I shouldn't be shut down for thinking about it.
I didn't read the thread you mention, but lets face it, every profile you look at, youre imagining how the experience would be?? |
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much?
Im really sorry and want to publicly apologise to you. I swear i never ment to offend or upset you in any way. What i said this morning was arrogent and bang out of order im honestly ashamed of myself and embarassed. From the bottom of my heart im sorry for my imaturity. "
Fair play to you for saying that, I'm sure it will be all forgotten before the morning is out |
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over a year ago
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"So this morning there was a thread
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/687236
Basically the guy had never been with a bigger woman before and wondered if it would be different?
I actually think that was a fair question, being with anyone new will always be different.
Ssdly his reason for this encounter was desperation got him lynched. Understandably so.
However I am a size 16/18 and I have to wonder if his post is actually what most genuinely think (particularly off the scene) however just don't admit it?
We are all entitled to preferences, why does this liking for more slender women upset so much?
Im really sorry and want to publicly apologise to you. I swear i never ment to offend or upset you in any way. What i said this morning was arrogent and bang out of order im honestly ashamed of myself and embarassed. From the bottom of my heart im sorry for my imaturity. "
If you mean that it's very commendable to say so. |
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"I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx
I didn't get chance to answer your question on the other thread. If someone was desperate for a fuck and I knew they didn't really fancy me... yes I would still meet them if I fancied them. It would entirely depend on how they acted with me. Respect goes a long way. If they play the game then I'm happy.
Do you think you can tell if someone doesn't find you physically attractive? My long term partner is very attractive and finds women of different ages and sizes attractive. When we have sex it feels like he's trying to get under my skin, and I feel very desired. Looking at what some people have written on here, he must be desperate to be fucking me. "
Not at all, their are lads that will go anywhere. finding looks attractive is evolution for procreation just some have evolved that little bit further and control our actions by thought not instincts. You caught a good one |
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I got told by a guy in a couple I seemed to have a type when I asked what he meant he said fat minters that will shag anything ,I replied your a retard and that's why no one wants to meet you |
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"For me, someone who makes me laugh takes precedence over what their body looks like  "
Couldn't agree more :whilst I'm generally attracted to slimmish women, one of the best meets I've ever had was with a larger lady. Reason why? She laughed me into bed. |
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I think the "desperation" thing is something most bigger girls ask ourselves quite often. The misconception that we're easy can make us question any attention we do get but I guess its about being confident in yourself and your bullshit filter.
With regards to how it feels of course its different with a bigger girl but then i can't think of 2 people Ive slept with that have been the same, even those with similar body types. The way we fuck depends on so much more than our bodies. |
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"Sometimes people are dicks when expressing preferences and sometimes they're not, they just express it badly word wise (for whatever reason that maybe).
Nothing lights the forum touch paper faster than someone posting / questioning about women who are on the larger fab sizing scale.
I feel like this sort of belittles why people get annoyed on those threads. Personally, I've listened to people have derogatory views on my weight all my life. Whether that's come from a malicious place or just bad wording. I'm sure many of the larger ladies have.
When someone says something about body shaming on a thread, I always try to comment to make people see why their wording/views may hurt. I think others do this too, which is why it can get so heated. "
Fair enough
I think people are very quick to pounce on someone who maybe just maybe doesn't come across very well with the written word ~ that's how these type of threads sometimes escalate & go into a downwards spiral, the person tries to qualify their viewpoint (not well) and / or become defensive & the cycle begins.
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Was it the guy himself or really for his friend ?
Was him . Read his last post ! "
That's strange then as the little green arrow shows he posted in a thread saying he had sex two weeks ago but this one that got him in trouble says he's not had sex for way way longer, I think 17 months ? |
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"Sometimes people are dicks when expressing preferences and sometimes they're not, they just express it badly word wise (for whatever reason that maybe).
Nothing lights the forum touch paper faster than someone posting / questioning about women who are on the larger fab sizing scale.
I feel like this sort of belittles why people get annoyed on those threads. Personally, I've listened to people have derogatory views on my weight all my life. Whether that's come from a malicious place or just bad wording. I'm sure many of the larger ladies have.
When someone says something about body shaming on a thread, I always try to comment to make people see why their wording/views may hurt. I think others do this too, which is why it can get so heated.
Fair enough
I think people are very quick to pounce on someone who maybe just maybe doesn't come across very well with the written word ~ that's how these type of threads sometimes escalate & go into a downwards spiral, the person tries to qualify their viewpoint (not well) and / or become defensive & the cycle begins.
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When I was younger I tended to only date modelesque women. This was simply because my social circle meant that these were the kind of women I interacted with.
I had a bit of a moment in life that saw my business collapse and I went from having everything to virtually nothing. It was at this point that I saw who my true friends were and needless to say those in the social circle disappeared quickly.
You may think wtf is he on about but prior to losing everything people may have seen me as having a particular type of woman I dated but this was never the case for me, it was just the old nature or nurture argument.. I have got a type of woman but it's nothing to do with size, it's simply if I'm attracted to the person. |
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"People having a preference for women who aren't fat doesn't bother me in the slightest. It's people who think those that aren't bothered by weight who make me laugh. Can they not see past their own over-inflated egos that we aren't all the same.
I wouldn't want to fuck someone who wouldn't fuck me now, but would if I lost a few stones of fat. "
This is interesting, during my previous time on Fab I was told a couple of times by different ladies that they would love to take things further "if I lost weight" - well that was the end of those communications - take me as I am or not at all |
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I have a mixed hotness scale, but size doesn't really come into it (though big boobs are always a bonus). For me, slim or BBW or in between, it's more about the confidence, attitude and presentation.
Unfortunately, though, in my experience, a lot of BBW are often under or overconfident, which I think most people notice most, even at the subconscious level. This affects what people expect or experience.
This is getting to be a long reply so I'll finish in a minute (that's what he said, ).
Though I guess the confidence thing is nurtured by society/friends/previous partners/ loads of things. Which we can all help with, both in the scene and in real life. The body is beautiful, we all just like different flavours.
The best be thing I have noticed, is body positive seems to be more 'business as usual' in the scene. Which is great.
Love who you are. That's the sexiest thing ever. |
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Everyone has their own preference and I'm good with that
It's like my preference is non smokers as I won't meet smokers
Lime some people like slimmer rather than curvy
Now what really does get my back up is when a guy on fab will meet and sleep with a larger lady on fab, but then confesses in the real world will nit be seen out in public or date one because he has an "image/reputation" to keep up
Which sadly I found out about a guy I recently met. Found out through a third party
So imagine me being a fattie that he has met for sex but has such a low opinion of bigger ladies in the outside world
So niw I think did he only meet me out of desperation and not because of how well we got in etc
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My mate said other month while in meadowhall she would be sexy if she wasnt fat. I looked at her & i thought she was fucking beautiful as she was. So i went & got her number now we chat all the time cant wait to meet her. Yeah if she was slim she would be a model but i like her as she is. |
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"When I was younger I tended to only date modelesque women. This was simply because my social circle meant that these were the kind of women I interacted with.
I had a bit of a moment in life that saw my business collapse and I went from having everything to virtually nothing. It was at this point that I saw who my true friends were and needless to say those in the social circle disappeared quickly.
You may think wtf is he on about but prior to losing everything people may have seen me as having a particular type of woman I dated but this was never the case for me, it was just the old nature or nurture argument.. I have got a type of woman but it's nothing to do with size, it's simply if I'm attracted to the person.
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I was pleasantly surprised to see that nobody had tried to make a light hearted joke by suggesting the OPs friend use talc to find the wet patch. Or fucking in the dark so he doesn't burn his ass on the light bulb. |
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"I prefer slimmer guys because I find being on top with chunky guys awkward as I only have short legs. So I definitely find a difference. "
I am here. You found the perfect person now... |
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" Would many guys let a woman who they didn't find attractive at all wank them off? You know, out dogging or clubbing? "
No, got to be an attraction for me |
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"I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx
I didn't get chance to answer your question on the other thread. If someone was desperate for a fuck and I knew they didn't really fancy me... yes I would still meet them if I fancied them. It would entirely depend on how they acted with me. Respect goes a long way. If they play the game then I'm happy.
Do you think you can tell if someone doesn't find you physically attractive? My long term partner is very attractive and finds women of different ages and sizes attractive. When we have sex it feels like he's trying to get under my skin, and I feel very desired. Looking at what some people have written on here, he must be desperate to be fucking me. "
I have someone that is desperate to fuck me, I know how that feels. I don't see why he must be desperate to be fucking you, unless this is what you mean.
I can tell if someone has distaste in their eyes. Other than that I don't care if someone finds me repulsive as long as they hide it. |
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I honestly find all women attractive, in one way or another. My ex was a size 30, and I've dated topless dancers with your typical hot bodies. And it always comes down to personality. Any woman that enjoys my company, and can hold a good conversation gets my vote...
That and good oral skills |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone."
What a ridiculous thing to say. What do you base this bold statement on? |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone."
mmm so your not in that large percentage then I'm guessing or are u desperate too |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone.mmm so your not in that large percentage then I'm guessing or are u desperate too"
If he's not in that large percentage one can only assume he is here to exploit those that are ffs |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone."
You know what they say about assumptions. You don’t even have verifications so where’s your sample? A silly comment indeed. |
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"Well I don't have any verifications, so how can you say I am here to exploit people. Bit rude isn't it?"
No mate it's rude to suggest the majority are desperate/depressed etc. Why are you here then? |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone.
You know what they say about assumptions. You don’t even have verifications so where’s your sample? A silly comment indeed."
You need to be verified to observe that 90% of messages you get are from guys actually saying they are desperate for a blowjob?
A silly reply to a very observant comment. |
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"Well I don't have any verifications, so how can you say I am here to exploit people. Bit rude isn't it?
No mate it's rude to suggest the majority are desperate/depressed etc. Why are you here then?"
Nah mate, its not against the rules to make a general observation, it is to be personal with someone.
Turn on messages for men, or make a female profile with no photos, then come back and tell me you did not observe a lot of people saying they were desperate for sex. |
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You said majority of people. There were no mention of guys specifically. Do we account for the majority of the site now? Or is your observation based on the male demographic only. And more so, how desperate are you if you’ve made fake female accounts to get mails from other guys? Also that’s against rules. Just a heads up |
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"I was part of the last thread. I don't have a problem with people having likes and dislikes . Im fussy about who I meet, we should all be ... I just felt sorry for the poor girl! If that had been me I would have been so upset to think someone was meeting me out of desperation . It did make me think too OP about how my meets really feel about my body. But as long as the people I meet play the game I'm not going to over think it . . Sex is as sex does .. what ever shape or size you are xx
I didn't get chance to answer your question on the other thread. If someone was desperate for a fuck and I knew they didn't really fancy me... yes I would still meet them if I fancied them. It would entirely depend on how they acted with me. Respect goes a long way. If they play the game then I'm happy.
Do you think you can tell if someone doesn't find you physically attractive? My long term partner is very attractive and finds women of different ages and sizes attractive. When we have sex it feels like he's trying to get under my skin, and I feel very desired. Looking at what some people have written on here, he must be desperate to be fucking me.
I have someone that is desperate to fuck me, I know how that feels. I don't see why he must be desperate to be fucking you, unless this is what you mean.
I can tell if someone has distaste in their eyes. Other than that I don't care if someone finds me repulsive as long as they hide it. "
I know he isn't desperate for a fuck; he has much younger women with the much loved on here hot bodies, as well as younger women with fat bodies, so he isn't going without. I think I know why he loves me so much...I'm an amazing fuck!! |
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone."
Is that the people you have met or are you going by your own reasons of being on here?
I would say that most people are on here for sexual gratification. |
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"I think the problem with the other post was the insensitive way in which the original question was asked and that was the reason for the lynch mob mentality.
However to answer the question here - I honestly don't have a preference other than that there's a connection and a chemistry first and foremost and yes of course there has to be a physical attraction, but for me that physical attraction is not necessarily defined by size or hair colour or length of their fingernails or anything else really - I just find someone attractive or I don't, plain and simple "
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"I assume a large percentage of people are here because they are lonely/depressed/desperate.
Regardless of body size.
However obviously it's not everyone.
Is that the people you have met or are you going by your own reasons of being on here?
I would say that most people are on here for sexual gratification. "
Absolutely. It dosn't matter if we are single, couples, gay, TV's or whatever...............the reason for being here is sexual gratification of all parties involved. |
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