I want to do something to symbolise that I'm starting a new chapter in my life, and leaving behind a bad one.
But...
I like my hair, so I don't want to have a drastic new hair change.
I also don't want a tattoo.
Any ideas?
It's almost like a reinvention of my soul.
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"Something permanent? "
Well even hair cuts and tattoos aren't necessarily permanent.
I dunno I'm kind of tossing ideas around.
Symbolic jewellery.
Reinvention of wardrobe.
I dunno they seem a bit feeble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to do something to symbolise that I'm starting a new chapter in my life, and leaving behind a bad one.
But...
I like my hair, so I don't want to have a drastic new hair change.
I also don't want a tattoo.
Any ideas?
It's almost like a reinvention of my soul.
(Female)"
Tick a bucket list wish maybe |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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What about making a mood board with pictures and inspirational quotes of how you want your future to go and how you want this next chapter to pan out.
It would be useful both as a new beginning and as inspiration for your journey. |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
Iceland, but Aldi is closer.. |
Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....
Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...
Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..
Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..
Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..
good luck and enjoy the journey.. |
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"Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....
Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...
Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..
Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..
Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..
good luck and enjoy the journey.. "
I actually like this non sugar coated stuff actually |
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Okay I've decided...
a new nickname (shortening my name differently to the way it normally gets shortened),
and a phoenix necklace when I can find a nice one
AND new activities (and bringing back long lost ones)
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"Okay I've decided...
a new nickname (shortening my name differently to the way it normally gets shortened),
and a phoenix necklace when I can find a nice one
AND new activities (and bringing back long lost ones)
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That sounds brilliant! Here's to your rebirth x |
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" What's ended?
A volatile friendship with a past FWB.
The guy on your profile?
No that's my hubby.
The other guy was a friend and we worked closely together."
Oh. Don't get involved emotionally with fwb's. Always leads to trouble. |
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" What's ended?
A volatile friendship with a past FWB.
The guy on your profile?
No that's my hubby.
The other guy was a friend and we worked closely together.
Oh. Don't get involved emotionally with fwb's. Always leads to trouble. "
Yeah, very complicated messy situation. I'm trying to put it behind me. |
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"Apologies up front, im not Willy Wonka so its not gonna be sugar coates....
Go out and push your limits.. do things that you never considered in the past.. white water rafting, hang gliding, rock climbing, scuba diving, join a cookery class, join a Google group, rambling groups, get a new job...
Basically find other interests, make new friends within those groups and challenge yourself..
Doing stuff like that will fill you with trepidation but when it goes well you will feel great about yourself..
Hair, clothes, tattoos, they are all superficial, you will still be you and will slip back into the old monotony of that life you want to put behind you..however a total lifestyle change will make you evolve into the person you could be..
good luck and enjoy the journey.. "
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Get a photographer to take a decent portrait of the "new you" however you look or feel, it becomes a meaningful image that reminds you that there's a story attached to it. Good luck for the future and with what ever you decide to do. Xx |
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Try a trip, somewhere memorable. 