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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
This is your first forum post. Spend some time and get to know people and the community and let them get to know you. With every post like this the advices is always the same. Hope that helps! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "
Why do you think you are doing something wrong just because you haven't met anyone? There are way too many men on Fab for all to realistically get a meet. Some men will never get a meet, often though no fault of their own, simply because there aren't enough women and couples to go round. That being said, there are ways to improve chances. One is having a good profile that makes you seem tempting to your target market. The other is getting out there either to socials or clubs where people can have a chance to know the real you.
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By *achealTV/TS
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
It's all in your profile I think your off to a good start a face pic and smartly dressed no cock pics, just interact with people on line fab pictures, chat, post new pics and it will all fall into place babe xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will be too young for some... to old for others.. not sure your exactly in a hot bed of swinging to be fair either.
Good photos ( although not my type but the photos are good ones )
Maybe expand what you say about yourself |
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You're only here a few months? Have patience, and also its good to remember you won't be everyone's cup of tea (none of us are!). Without knowing what your conversational skills are like its impossible to give any constructive comment on how you're approaching females in your area...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong "
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"
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Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting. |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"
I don't think that statement is correct tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\
Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting. "
Exactly what I was just thinking.I get so bored of explaining, and feeling the need to explain to guys why I don't want to meet them. They don't seem to appreciate the fact they're just not what I'm looking for. Being on fab isn't a guaranteed meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why"
Don’t be ridiculous. Plenty of us only look for single men. |
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"I've been to the Isle of Man. About 5 people live there, right? I think we may have found your problem...
Lovely place, though.  "
80,000 people live there but probably only 5 females active on fab.
I think it's safe to say you're fighting a losing battle. I'd either give up on fab or move. |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless"
I'm sorry you're feeling this way about the site. Unfortunately it can be frustrating at times, I have seen your status update and although it's easy to see you're unhappy, it's not fair to tar everybody with the same brush. Us women also have to deal with dishonesty. By saying nobody on the site is honest you're also calling yourself a liar. Exaggeration is an unappealing quality when used in that way, so maybe this is something that is hindering your experiences? |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\
Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting. "
 if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why"
LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true. "
Boom! Hot Manx chick enters the thread |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\
Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting.
if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic! "
But I'm not most women am I? And I have met in the past, and no doubt will again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As many have/will say it's down to 2 things.
1) Your profile and how you use it to "sell" yourself
2) Simple numbers. Massively more single men here than couples and ladies. Some guys will never get a meet, others of us may get more than our share....it's just the way it is.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Most guys here won't get a meet ,,most women got a hundred messages a day ,most women won't even meet here they just enjoy the attention this site will just depress you and make you feel worthless\
Interesting how you speak for 'most women' on here - just because they're not meeting you, doesn't mean they're not meeting.
if only someone else had posted that! It wouldn't be soo ironic! "
But she makes it clear (VERY CLEAR IN CAPITALS) at the start of her profile that she isn't meeting just now....so guys know not to message her to try and get a meet. Where's the harm in that? |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
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Apart from moving.. actually, you could swap with me, Douglas is a far more beautiful part of the world than the part of London I live in..
Expand upon your profile, women are not like men, they enjoy reading and if you can win them over with words, 90% of the work is done..
Show them you have a sense of humour, write something amusing or anecdotal (use artistic licence) get some interesting and maybe amusing pics...
Find funny road signs or names to take a pic with you in..
You only get out what you put into it and if you haven't put it in, well you just won't get any offers to put it in.. |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here "
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Don’t be ridiculous. Plenty of us only look for single men. "
Agree. I mainly look for single men and the odd couple. |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter. "
Well that's bullshit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here "
Not me sorry you feel that way.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.
Well that's bullshit"
Bit harsh  he’s much more likely to get anywhere being himself than trying to be someone he’s not. And if most men could see the inside of a woman’s or couples inbox I reckon these types of thread would soon disappear |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.
Well that's bullshit
Bit harsh he’s much more likely to get anywhere being himself than trying to be someone he’s not. And if most men could see the inside of a woman’s or couples inbox I reckon these types of thread would soon disappear "
I have seeing them...you shouldn't really be on here if you have a problem with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apart from moving.. actually, you could swap with me, Douglas is a far more beautiful part of the world than the part of London I live in..
Expand upon your profile, women are not like men, they enjoy reading and if you can win them over with words, 90% of the work is done..
Show them you have a sense of humour, write something amusing or anecdotal (use artistic licence) get some interesting and maybe amusing pics...
Find funny road signs or names to take a pic with you in..
You only get out what you put into it and if you haven't put it in, well you just won't get any offers to put it in.. "
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why"
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.
Well that's bullshit
Bit harsh he’s much more likely to get anywhere being himself than trying to be someone he’s not. And if most men could see the inside of a woman’s or couples inbox I reckon these types of thread would soon disappear
I have seeing them...you shouldn't really be on here if you have a problem with that "
Thanks for the advice |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.
Well that's bullshit"
Wow, aren't you a gem? I'm no genius kiddo but I reckon if that's your attitude then your attitude is your problem. |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish! "
Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!
Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"
I guess it’s just more obvious with some  |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
No I meant that's how I feel we are treated on here
Try being a single female. I'd love to show you my inbox so you can see things from a different perspective. Being on the forums will give others a better idea of the real you. Be yourself, be true to who you are and hopefully things will look brighter.
Well that's bullshit
Wow, aren't you a gem? I'm no genius kiddo but I reckon if that's your attitude then your attitude is your problem. "
Soooooo this!  |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!
Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"
I don't think that's the case, I know normal people who you'd get on with but act like scum when they've been drinking.
On fab guys who wouldn't treat women badly think they can on here as they can't handle rejection as they think if a woman's on here she'll shag anything.
Sad really and when I see a woman's profile as left the site I hope it's not because of men treating them badly |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish! "
Never forget. Alot of people are single for a good reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
LOL, bit harsh and also totally not true.
Boom! Hot Manx chick enters the thread "
Haha. I'm not his type |
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The reality is that you are probably doing nothing wrong, you just happen to live on an island and that will limit your opportunities somewhat.
You could try to be more enticing with your profile text, as that's the place you get to sell yourself.
Chin up |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!
Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not"
Seems you've either been hurt and your taking your angst out on whoever may read your comments or you're just a troll who likes to cause controversy and make sarcastic remarks. The Green arrow is very informative.
So I take back my advise to you personally about being yourself, because it doesn't make attractive reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you were near me I would definitely meet you for a social, you look smart and the pictures are nice, maybe add to your interests and write a little bit more, add a few more photos possibly.
How do y'all u approach a lady when messaging, hi or I wana fuck you doesn't cut it, the guys who stick out to me are the ones who have a whitty little paragraph, usually nothing sex related, make a lady smile when she's reading something and you will have her attention!! Best of luck babe xx |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
The problem is single men ACT like scum on here, granted not all...or even most, but enough to tarnish!
Realistically how do act like scum....you either are or your not
Seems you've either been hurt and your taking your angst out on whoever may read your comments or you're just a troll who likes to cause controversy and make sarcastic remarks. The Green arrow is very informative.
So I take back my advise to you personally about being yourself, because it doesn't make attractive reading. "
Don't read it then |
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OP, you say in your profile you have a good sense of humour. This is awesome, and I'm personally attracted moreso to those who make me laugh, I would say make yourself known on the forums, get yourself to clubs if you can. A sense of humour is a huge bonus and I'm sure plenty of us would enjoy seeing it. |
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By *achealTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why? "
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x |
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x"
Treated like scum I meant!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x
Treated like scum I meant!!!!"
Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x
Treated like scum I meant!!!!
Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases "
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x
Treated like scum I meant!!!!
Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've literally met no one on here. Please tell me what I'm doing wrong
Single men are scum on here that's why
Am I? Why?
Are we and after all he's had ,18 verifications so girls like scum I guess x
Treated like scum I meant!!!!
Not much difference between treated like an acting like in some cases
You like using emojis don't you pal "
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