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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Concider your profile is your CV (a phrase I hate, I don't think of sex as a job) how do you think you fair, and does your profile stand out?
It's not a look at me thread (feel free to comment on my profile, just so nobody gets a time out for comments)
But, I expect my profile is 'normal'. There's little text, it's a guys body pics, no face, no dick pics. There's lots of us like this surely.
So, my question, what do you think is most important for you? Text or pics? Or is it both?
And if you think its Text, why do you post pics?
If you think it's pics only, why have lots of text on your profile, it's NSA after all isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've made mine short and not so sweet. I think it's pointless and tediously boring to try to fit everything into a profile text. There are a few pretty pictures. I'd say mine was as good as I can be bothered to make it. Obviously if I wanted to meet new people then I might make the blurb a bit more friendly... it serves it's purpose  |
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"I don't need to stand out, I just let my penis do that for me  
Oh, and my clock as well
Nice clock."
Cheers Jim, have you got a spare battery? I think I've been stuck in the twilight zone for nearly a year now  |
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Our text is a bit lengthy and we have a fair few pics but we hope that helps people get a true idea of what we’re like and what we’re here for. It should make it easier for them to decide if we’re what they’re after.
However, from some of the messages we get it’s clear that some don’t read the text, they just look at pics. It’s also clear that they’re usually a man pretending to be a woman or couple... hey ho.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your profile is your cv for sex then surely the most important tools for the job should be clearly visible Bee? You wouldn't apply for a job, stating I have experience but I'm not going to show you... So maybe our biogs should be a commentary on our sexual achievements and our pics of cocks and pussys in action? 
So, more action shots and detailed description of your meets please
Peach x
Ps I don't mean it, please don't send me action shots anyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show my face, I'm not the only one but it puts you in the minority as a single guy and slightly different to all the dick pic avatars. No offence to all the dicks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've made mine short and not so sweet. I think it's pointless and tediously boring to try to fit everything into a profile text. There are a few pretty pictures. I'd say mine was as good as I can be bothered to make it. Obviously if I wanted to meet new people then I might make the blurb a bit more friendly... it serves it's purpose "
Wouldn't hiding your profile not be easier than using text to put them off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours is a mix of text and pics. I do think it's hard to say what we really like and are looking for. But equally it's difficult to put into words what we are like as well. I think it just gives a general outline and hopefully enough to make other couples message us to learn more x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I show my face, I'm not the only one but it puts you in the minority as a single guy and slightly different to all the dick pic avatars. No offence to all the dicks."
Have you shown your face from day one? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If your profile is your cv for sex then surely the most important tools for the job should be clearly visible Bee? You wouldn't apply for a job, stating I have experience but I'm not going to show you... So maybe our biogs should be a commentary on our sexual achievements and our pics of cocks and pussys in action?
So, more action shots and detailed description of your meets please
Peach x
Ps I don't mean it, please don't send me action shots anyone x"
Please ignore my last PM...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've made mine short and not so sweet. I think it's pointless and tediously boring to try to fit everything into a profile text. There are a few pretty pictures. I'd say mine was as good as I can be bothered to make it. Obviously if I wanted to meet new people then I might make the blurb a bit more friendly... it serves it's purpose
Wouldn't hiding your profile not be easier than using text to put them off? "
It's not difficult having my profile on display... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
High five Mr Swing, I let the ladies come to me 
That's probably why I haven't had sex for about 30 years "
I'm almost tempted to offer a pity fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us a mix of both is important. And I don't think NSA means text is redundant, there are so many different desires and kinks there would be no point meeting someone for NSA sex if their idea of a good time is totally different to ours. |
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
High five Mr Swing, I let the ladies come to me
That's probably why I haven't had sex for about 30 years
I'm almost tempted to offer a pity fuck. "
As long as you wear "those slippers", I might just take you up on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just re-edited my profile text, as it was quite long and I imagine people may have got bored reading it. So it is now the shortened version, although I will probably add to it. My old version did well for me.
Personally I will read the text before looking at photos. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think on balance my profile is the right mix of pics and text and paints a fairly accurate picture of me the person, what I'm looking for and what I think I can offer.
I tweak it every now and then and swap pics in and out but I'm generally happy it, along with my forum persona, paints a fairly accurate image. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
High five Mr Swing, I let the ladies come to me
That's probably why I haven't had sex for about 30 years "
That’s it - play them at their own game
It’s a long game but keep going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
High five Mr Swing, I let the ladies come to me
That's probably why I haven't had sex for about 30 years
I'm almost tempted to offer a pity fuck.
As long as you wear "those slippers", I might just take you up on that "
They're not pink you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile must stand out a bit. I had 30,000 hits in 4 days recently so I suspect I'm doing something right?
When looking at profiles, I like to see some decent pics, a bit about the person and a few verifications. If it says "fill in later" and it's a blank avatar, I'm definitely not interested.
Regards what other people think of my profile.. it's mine and I can present it how I choose |
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By *a72Man
over a year ago
london |
"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now "
Had a quick look at your profile and you haven't really got into the proper swing of 'not looking to meet'yet mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines a very 'tongue in cheek' profile, it's meant to be light hearted and fun and just a couple of pics to entice you further haha
I always look at text in others profiles but ultimately it's the pics that dictate if I message or not, shallow I know |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I have and like to see a few pics and a bit of text on a profile. Something to catch my attention if I’m looking and something that would make people want to know a little more about me from my profile.
I think mine is very me. What you see and hear is how I am. |
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
High five Mr Swing, I let the ladies come to me
That's probably why I haven't had sex for about 30 years
That’s it - play them at their own game
It’s a long game but keep going "
I'm running out of shitty sticks to fight 'em off with now though
A man can only take so much ya know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I've had most luck joining in the the forums which have lead to a few PM conversations, not sure how my profile is perceived by others but I've a mix of photo's and text that hopefully portrays me in a good light? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t
I’m one of those irritating - not looking to meet types now
Had a quick look at your profile and you haven't really got into the proper swing of 'not looking to meet'yet mate "
It’s been a busy year |
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"Do you think you've got more chance of finding the prize you want if someone gave you one Kinder egg, or if you were presented with 100 Kinder eggs? "
All that chocolate would just make me sick
Despite my contrary view... I've stumbled across that prize once or twice anyway without really looking. Most recently purely by chance, so I think I'll just leave things in Kate's hands in future lol. |
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I’m really looking for well presented profiles, sounds arrogant but true.
If the profile appears to be rushed with little or no effort put into it, then I assume it’s a reflection of their personality/traits.
Yes, it is supposed to be about fun but if you want to be taken seriously, put some effort in.
Mr |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I've been tweaking my profile for ages, I'm happy with it atm but I don't think it stands out as such. There's a good mix of photos and text, well, maybe that bit is a bit long. Someone told me it makes me sound harsh the other day, I disagree it just says it how it is
If it was a cv which I used to apply for a job as a swinger it would probably be binned!!! But I'm alright with that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you think you've got more chance of finding the prize you want if someone gave you one Kinder egg, or if you were presented with 100 Kinder eggs?
All that chocolate would just make me sick
Despite my contrary view... I've stumbled across that prize once or twice anyway without really looking. Most recently purely by chance, so I think I'll just leave things in Kate's hands in future lol."
Is that why loads of profiles say not looking? Late is doing all the work for everyone?
Kate, call me? |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
Just where I need to be. |
I need to rewrite my profile as it still is the same as I joined. Some of the text does get mentioned in messages, so I know that people do read. I put up pictures that I like. I'd rather not stand out too much, I prefer to float under the radar and look myself.My profile and pictures are a starting point for someone's interest. |
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I have text because I want to try to be seen as an individual (rather than as an anonymous Fab female), and a fair few photos because it's important to me that people have a pretty real idea of what I look like from the start (as I have lots of decades old body issues, not a lot of self confidence and a fear of being rejected in person because of how I look which I'd prefer to avoid).
I think my profile *could* be improved - the blurb could be wittier, maybe a little more open, maybe a little warmer and more friendly. Compared to some others it's a bit boring. And my photos aren't exactly what I want them to be - I'm forever frustrated by my inability to recreate the images in my head because I don't understand the settings on my camera properly and some things are almost impossible to capture on your own.
However - as it is I'm not too unhappy with the attention my profile attracts (though I rarely hear from other women). I don't get a lot of time to meet anyway but if I did, maybe it'd need to be tweaked a bit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dunno. It showcases my personality well.
Shows that I'm young but a good communicator.
I get messages from people so it must work. "
But do you rely solely on your text for your personality? Or, do you try to reflect it in your pics? Can you reflect a personality in photos? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not even trying to stand out. Before? I did because of my awesomeness on the forum, my photos, my age and my mixed heritage. My profile text said about some of my preferences and went into detail (BDSM for example) but it was rarely read. Actually my sort of tagline referenced the sub side and that was often used in messages I received.
I'm going to change it again soon when I am ready to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile is not intended to make me stand out because in reality I'm not part of any demographic that has an definitive description that applies to all individuals....
I don't initiate the approach to other swingers ,,,,, I respond to people who approach me.....
There you go Sox in a box .....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like reading profiles - perhaps that is what influenced my decision to write as much as I have...some people like it, some don't.
Sometimes even I feel that it may be too much - but it's who I am.
X |
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"Not sure what ladies and couples think of my profile as I tried to be different and not sure people get my intended soh from it
Thinking of changing it all "
You have been in that swimming pool for more years than I care to imagine. Are there no lifeguards about? Do prunes have a particularly good sex life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me to say how my profile stands out... will leave that to the couples and women who have been interested enough to engage with me. Just be yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not even trying to stand out. Before? I did because of my awesomeness on the forum, my photos, my age and my mixed heritage. My profile text said about some of my preferences and went into detail (BDSM for example) but it was rarely read. Actually my sort of tagline referenced the sub side and that was often used in messages I received.
I'm going to change it again soon when I am ready to meet."
And your modesty of course |
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"Not sure what ladies and couples think of my profile as I tried to be different and not sure people get my intended soh from it
Thinking of changing it all
You have been in that swimming pool for more years than I care to imagine. Are there no lifeguards about? Do prunes have a particularly good sex life "
I've developed webbed feet and daren't get out of the pool as I've lost my shorts and have a permanent erection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think my profile is a bit different, I wrote it that way mostly because it amused me to do so. A few people have said they like it which is a bonus really. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
I don't think mine makes me stand out and I'm not trying to, pretty much how I am in life outside fab.
I'm just trying to say a bit about how I am and what I'm looking for and people can decide for themselves if I match their preferences, so I think a mix of pics and text are important and those are the kind of profiles I'm more likely to respond to or message myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get a lot of messages saying nice profile - haha - people get that compliment if they have nothing there i guess so its hard to judge off comments i get - mine is just to the point - hopefully encourages people to want to chat more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The obvious answer to the photos/text question is both OP.
People like to see what they're getting physically to see if the attraction is there. Likewise they also want to see they're getting someone whose outlook matches theirs and isn't a drooling idiot, which profile text usually reveals to some degree.
In terms of how my profile stands out, though I think my pics are acceptable, I'd say it's more the text side of it as it's more unique to me and I can let my naughty imagination run riot...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Mine targets the kind of person i would like to meet. It doesn't need to stand out.
And in your opinion, is it the text or pics that does that?
Text."
Is it as short and precise as this reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines a mixture. Enough pics so you know what your getting, but enough text that helps out people I probably wouldn't want to meet.
I don't mind short text as long as it's well written. Strangely anyone that writes something like 'fun man wants fun woman for fun times' is usually overlooked pretty quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines a mix of both . Yes I have quite a wordy profile but for me it's all about letting people k ow about me and what I'm looking for.
Your profile is really just an advert for yourself.
I think I have a good mix of pictures too. Though that's really for others to decide if they want to say hello |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
I have geared mine to say a little bit about me. Its too easy to go down the route of saying I like this that and the other. Or conversely what you don't like. My mind doesnt work like. I like a little bit of mystery. I guess it means I don't stand out so much and probably means a lot of people would just pass me by. As for pics I am just not a good photographer! As I said on another post this morning I do need to work on that aspect. |
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"Mines a mix of both . Yes I have quite a wordy profile but for me it's all about letting people k ow about me and what I'm looking for.
Your profile is really just an advert for yourself.
I think I have a good mix of pictures too. Though that's really for others to decide if they want to say hello "
I'd meet Pooch anyday and wander off into the hills....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I show my face, I'm not the only one but it puts you in the minority as a single guy and slightly different to all the dick pic avatars. No offence to all the dicks.
Have you shown your face from day one? "
Hard to remember that far back but yeah pretty much. Think I may have gone a couple weeks without face on show but no more than that. |
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I noticed that it does not matter what women say they like.
Being a decent guy will not get you popular. Even when guys come on here and say they couldnt get a second meet all the girls who say they want a decent guy tell them "it's not a dating site", "maybe this site isnt for you".
They seem to want the type of guy that walks up to every girl at the end of the night and asks them for sex.
If the guy is too decent, too handsome, too nice, the girls will be put off. They will get too nervous, they will think the guy wont like them. But the decent enough guy who will fuck with no complaints is just what they want. |
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Mine is a mixture if pics and text.
It covers what I'm looking for what I'm not (in a nice way)
I do hide the profile a fair amount though because I'm not always looking or in the forums.
Or more importantly because life takes over and I dont want a pile up of messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a lot on my profile, no public pics at the mo, no list of veris detailing who I've shagged. I don't feel I need to "stand out" as I meet all the guys I need to at clubs, and being a woman on fab you always get a decent response if you put a meet up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think mine is pictures ( i love taking them) i do have a rambling profile but tbh not many people read it x
I did. I read every one"
Everyone? That would be a full time job. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not even trying to stand out. Before? I did because of my awesomeness on the forum, my photos, my age and my mixed heritage. My profile text said about some of my preferences and went into detail (BDSM for example) but it was rarely read. Actually my sort of tagline referenced the sub side and that was often used in messages I received.
I'm going to change it again soon when I am ready to meet.
And your modesty of course "
You know me so well! |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Don't know whether our profile stands out or not. We think it's pretty clear. It has a good range of photos and some text which we think gives an indication of who we are and who we're looking for.
Mr2 |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"Don't know whether our profile stands out or not. We think it's pretty clear. It has a good range of photos and some text which we think gives an indication of who we are and who we're looking for.
Mr2 "
Yours is a great profile. Great pics that show your togetherness. Text that is very clear about what you seek and your boundaries. |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"Don't know whether our profile stands out or not. We think it's pretty clear. It has a good range of photos and some text which we think gives an indication of who we are and who we're looking for.
Mr2
Yours is a great profile. Great pics that show your togetherness. Text that is very clear about what you seek and your boundaries. "
Thank you very much for comment. Much appreciated. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
My text should hopefully give people an idea of what I am like and what my expectations are. My pictures are kept up to date to reflect the real me.
If people choose to ignore it and message me anyway, then I am more than justified to ignore them |
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" Mine targets the kind of person i would like to meet. It doesn't need to stand out.
And in your opinion, is it the text or pics that does that?
Text.
Is it as short and precise as this reply "
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Mine targets the kind of person i would like to meet. It doesn't need to stand out.
And in your opinion, is it the text or pics that does that?
Text.
Is it as short and precise as this reply
Yes."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure our profile is highly appealing to the masses but we are entertained.
The pics feature me and hubby only, no face pics on display due to previous stalking issues. But what you see otherwise is most certainly what you would be getting.
The wording, quite matter of fact I guess, but to the point.
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
Am not worried about standing out, never have and don't think I ever will (except for being over six feet tall)
My profile gives an insight, my pictures too, it's me but am told I am better in person.
"it's NSA after all isn't it" not for all on the site. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
I don't try to stand out; I don't see the point. Even though I have a longish profile it doesn't say a lot about what I want because I don't want to pigeonhole what I'm after and most of the time I'm not after anything specifically. I also probably have too many pics but take them for me more than anyone else. My profile reflects that rather than being a shop window as it were; I just hope that the people I am interested in will be interested in me back when I am in meet mode. |
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"I don't try to stand out; I don't see the point. Even though I have a longish profile it doesn't say a lot about what I want because I don't want to pigeonhole what I'm after and most of the time I'm not after anything specifically. I also probably have too many pics but take them for me more than anyone else. My profile reflects that rather than being a shop window as it were; I just hope that the people I am interested in will be interested in me back when I am in meet mode. "
Ah, i remember that mode.. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"I don't try to stand out; I don't see the point. Even though I have a longish profile it doesn't say a lot about what I want because I don't want to pigeonhole what I'm after and most of the time I'm not after anything specifically. I also probably have too many pics but take them for me more than anyone else. My profile reflects that rather than being a shop window as it were; I just hope that the people I am interested in will be interested in me back when I am in meet mode. "
Shop window analogy I totally agree with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I googled "stand out".... it said:
1) Open front door
2) Take three steps forward
3) Don't sit down
You should now be standing out!
Best advice ever
(PS...I have had a drink or three....I shall go to bed now) |
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I have shouty capitals at the start - this seems to be taken by some as a challenge to test my determination in not meeting at the moment. So I guess my USP must be - come see if I know my own mind... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dunno. It showcases my personality well.
Shows that I'm young but a good communicator.
I get messages from people so it must work.
But do you rely solely on your text for your personality? Or, do you try to reflect it in your pics? Can you reflect a personality in photos? "
Text. And I follow that up in messages as well. My photos have no personality. They suck |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Like this question, although, hard to answer :O
I always tend to look for a well filled out and detailed profile about the person/people behind the profile and what they are looking for. My profile is honest and clear as to where i am currently and what I am looking for but I may have a tendency to waffle a little too much :O |
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"Dunno. It showcases my personality well.
Shows that I'm young but a good communicator.
I get messages from people so it must work.
But do you rely solely on your text for your personality? Or, do you try to reflect it in your pics? Can you reflect a personality in photos?
Text. And I follow that up in messages as well. My photos have no personality. They suck"
I got a message yesterday saying I had legendary pics. I'm not sure about that but they do have my personality in them. I normally try to have a funny if a little sarcastic text but right now I cba so just have a one liner |
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"I have shouty capitals at the start - this seems to be taken by some as a challenge to test my determination in not meeting at the moment. So I guess my USP must be - come see if I know my own mind..."
If you delete everything off your 'looking for' list it takes you off the searches. Cuts down lots of mail. They can still mail you from the forums. |
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Honesty and openness are the trick I find.
My profile is a tad long but covers all aspects of my Fab life and what I want from it. I find those that read all of it are more likely to be the type I’m most likely to get on with. |
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I think if you try too hard to stand out, you're in danger of trying to look for what others want as opposed to advertising who you are.
Better to be a second rate version of yourself than a first rate copy of another.
I'm basically just me. |
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" I think if you try too hard to stand out, you're in danger of trying to look for what others want as opposed to advertising who you are.
Better to be a second rate version of yourself than a first rate copy of another.
I'm basically just me."
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I guess I'm not really trying to stand out from the crowd. I am honest in my profile text about who I am and what I want, im always honest in my messages with people and I think you can tell that? |
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"I guess I'm not really trying to stand out from the crowd. I am honest in my profile text about who I am and what I want, im always honest in my messages with people and I think you can tell that?"
Your profile name is a shining light tho... Very thought provoking |
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