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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who and circumstance. I wouldn't meet a couple just to 'access' the female part, or just to be a stunt cock. If meeting a couple it's to be involved in both their fantasy and mine.
A single lady is maybe a little clearer? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like mff 3somes it’s the bestest, it’s why I am here "
Hmmm...no disrespect, but looking at your veri's, they are all single women!?
This is why we ask, as most single guys do have 'couples' as to what they are looking for, but when comes down to it...only addresse the women and actually are quite uncomfortable around another guys Wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
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A onesome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've found that most guys on here are really looking for a single woman but will take a couple if that's what they can get. I'm not saying that's all guys on here, just a majority, in our experience.
But there are plenty of guys who truly enjoy threesomes (and other scenarios with couples). Just concentrate on finding them and have fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
A onesome. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like mff 3somes it’s the bestest, it’s why I am here
Hmmm...no disrespect, but looking at your veri's, they are all single women!?
This is why we ask, as most single guys do have 'couples' as to what they are looking for, but when comes down to it...only addresse the women and actually are quite uncomfortable around another guys Wife. "
You need to be able to fit in with all their needs, respect that they are a couple you're joining and still try to enjoy your fantasy too. It's a balancing act but when it works out it's pretty damn perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like mff 3somes it’s the bestest, it’s why I am here
Hmmm...no disrespect, but looking at your veri's, they are all single women!?
This is why we ask, as most single guys do have 'couples' as to what they are looking for, but when comes down to it...only addresse the women and actually are quite uncomfortable around another guys Wife. "
I've had a few threesomes on another site and apart from one that was a little clunky(the woman though, not the man) I had a great time and felt very comfortable with the man being there, if I'm honest I enjoyed it that bit more as they watched me fuck their wives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find 3somes really fun. I like spoiling the women. Or just as much fun showing her a good time with her husband cannot or just wants to watch. What I am trying to say is there are a lot of fun scenarios when 3 are involved. |
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As this is a site for swingers surely it is about FFM MMF MFMF or multiple derivatives of.....
If people are merely interested in a male/female meet then this is not swinging so why join a designated swingers site when there are multiple dating sites out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As this is a site for swingers surely it is about FFM MMF MFMF or multiple derivatives of.....
If people are merely interested in a male/female meet then this is not swinging so why join a designated swingers site when there are multiple dating sites out there. "
The things I'm looking for with single women are a bit more niche. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As this is a site for swingers surely it is about FFM MMF MFMF or multiple derivatives of.....
If people are merely interested in a male/female meet then this is not swinging so why join a designated swingers site when there are multiple dating sites out there. "
Well yep, exactly our thoughts entirely too, but you'd be surprised just how many guys are on here just for a meet with a woman alone.
Frustrating sometimes as i feel like you say, some folk should be on a dating site, not a swinging site lol ...but hey ho!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dating sites are for meeting a potential partner though, here is for indulging in whatever turns you on, so I'd say they're a separate thing altogether to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At this stage I’m not fussed. I’d be grateful with whatever I can get.
I’m not quite at the point where I’d lower myself to being used as their bitch just to get some action. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dating sites are for meeting a potential partner though, here is for indulging in whatever turns you on, so I'd say they're a separate thing altogether to me."
You'd be surprised with the number of profiles i've read lol
But know where you're coming from. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has this thread come from you having a bad meet or not getting a meet?
Just curious as to what prompted you to post it?"
It's just that most messages from 'single' guys have no inclusion or acknowledgment of the male in our couple (my Husband!) It's really rude to be fair. If i was to say i'd meet alone then most would jump at the chance...when the conversation continues as us meeting as a couple...they sort of dwindle off and make excuses lol... well anyway, we are in no rush so will continue our search and maybe eventually find 'THE ONE' haha |
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I think in a first message its difficult to include both. Mind You i find the first message difficult enough!
Once talking then i have to work out what the couple want! Advertised as a couple but it has surprised me how often the partner just watches... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has this thread come from you having a bad meet or not getting a meet?
Just curious as to what prompted you to post it?
It's just that most messages from 'single' guys have no inclusion or acknowledgment of the male in our couple (my Husband!) It's really rude to be fair. If i was to say i'd meet alone then most would jump at the chance...when the conversation continues as us meeting as a couple...they sort of dwindle off and make excuses lol... well anyway, we are in no rush so will continue our search and maybe eventually find 'THE ONE' haha "
I think there are a lot of men on here who fantasize about it but are scared when it becomes a real thing, basically they love to use this place for a wank.
There are plenty of us on here though that love it and have met couples so keep on looking and you'll find someone eventually.
I'd rather be in your shoes though tbh, the single man side of swinging is mind numbingly difficult. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Predominantly here to meet singles. That is the 'setting' I have chosen. I had a bad experience with a couple on another site. That has made me majorly wary of meeting them. So I have on my profile that I am open to meeting them. Just don't have it in neon lights. Additionaly I was slagged off on a post on here which was asking how people saw the dynamic of a single guy joining a couple. I gave my honest view and boom. This just fuelled the thought that I am just a toy for them to use. Much like you may see posts about single fems feeling that way. Despite this it's something that I am still open to just with a very cautious approach. Anything gangbangy though I am in! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally I am happy meeting either. I have had many mfm and enjoy the dynamic, I enjoy seeing a girl enjoy herself.
Having said that, I met a single female last year, through the site, but while I was taking a rest from it, if that makes sense. We generally met once a week for around 8 months and I have to say it was some of the best sex I have had. So I've just changed my profile to echo that, but I do still enjoy that mfm or maybe more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help."
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this. "
Crystal clear to me.
If marc has a particular thing he wants to watch then I'd find it a huge turn on to know he's feeling as I do when I see things that turn me on, I'm sure that in turn would turn you on too.
You can't treat a couple like they're two entities and just ignore the bit you don't like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think in a first message its difficult to include both. Mind You i find the first message difficult enough!
Once talking then i have to work out what the couple want! Advertised as a couple but it has surprised me how often the partner just watches..."
Oh good grief no! Watching wouldn't be any option for us. My Hubby wants the full threesome experience lol..Errm...and so do I!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has this thread come from you having a bad meet or not getting a meet?
Just curious as to what prompted you to post it?
It's just that most messages from 'single' guys have no inclusion or acknowledgment of the male in our couple (my Husband!) It's really rude to be fair. If i was to say i'd meet alone then most would jump at the chance...when the conversation continues as us meeting as a couple...they sort of dwindle off and make excuses lol... well anyway, we are in no rush so will continue our search and maybe eventually find 'THE ONE' haha
I think there are a lot of men on here who fantasize about it but are scared when it becomes a real thing, basically they love to use this place for a wank.
There are plenty of us on here though that love it and have met couples so keep on looking and you'll find someone eventually.
I'd rather be in your shoes though tbh, the single man side of swinging is mind numbingly difficult. "
Well to be honest it's reeeeally hard work looking for a compatiable couple too believe it or not.
Why do you like all the wrong people by the way? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this. "
I must admit to being surprised how many men on here do not wish to play with couples, I find it incredibly erotic, two or more guys pleasuring a female. I always address any message to both. I also know that I am an enhancement to their sex life, not just hers. I've played with couples, where the male likes to watch or join in and on occasion just the female on her own. But we always took photos to show her husband at a later time. I always imagine that it was a major turn on for both and they had great sex later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this.
I must admit to being surprised how many men on here do not wish to play with couples, I find it incredibly erotic, two or more guys pleasuring a female. I always address any message to both. I also know that I am an enhancement to their sex life, not just hers. I've played with couples, where the male likes to watch or join in and on occasion just the female on her own. But we always took photos to show her husband at a later time. I always imagine that it was a major turn on for both and they had great sex later."
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this. "
Forgive me if I have got this wrong. I totally agree with what you have said. However I have never messaged a couple because of lack of success with singles. It is something that I would genuinely like to experience and I used to have it has a setting on my profile. So in actual fact I may very well have reduced my meeting pool, for want of a better phrase, by removing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has this thread come from you having a bad meet or not getting a meet?
Just curious as to what prompted you to post it?
It's just that most messages from 'single' guys have no inclusion or acknowledgment of the male in our couple (my Husband!) It's really rude to be fair. If i was to say i'd meet alone then most would jump at the chance...when the conversation continues as us meeting as a couple...they sort of dwindle off and make excuses lol... well anyway, we are in no rush so will continue our search and maybe eventually find 'THE ONE' haha
I think there are a lot of men on here who fantasize about it but are scared when it becomes a real thing, basically they love to use this place for a wank.
There are plenty of us on here though that love it and have met couples so keep on looking and you'll find someone eventually.
I'd rather be in your shoes though tbh, the single man side of swinging is mind numbingly difficult.
Well to be honest it's reeeeally hard work looking for a compatiable couple too believe it or not.
Why do you like all the wrong people by the way? lol "
I like ppl who don't like me, story of my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this.
Forgive me if I have got this wrong. I totally agree with what you have said. However I have never messaged a couple because of lack of success with singles. It is something that I would genuinely like to experience and I used to have it has a setting on my profile. So in actual fact I may very well have reduced my meeting pool, for want of a better phrase, by removing it."
You haven't gotten anything wrong. I was just fleshing out your comment about feeling like a sex toy. I often hear that when singles complain about couples (and rightly so, considering some of the stories I've heard). But I thought I would think it out from the perspective of a woman in a couple as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a fairly new person on here, my preference is single women only because I haven't had a threesome to compare it to.
As for the addressing the husband issue, I know many couples profiles are showing more of the woman than the man. So people automatically assume they're contacting the woman. Plus if you think about the number of straight males looking for a mfm then it's more likely they're going to address the woman. |
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"Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
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Both have there merits, i am about 50/50 with my meets on here for 3somes and single ladies.
There is a great dynamic to meeting a relaxed, secure horny couple, but also one-one fun is fun too, do i have to choose? x
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Interesting topic. We often wonder this when receiving some messages.
To address a couple other issues:
We are of the opinion that swinging = group sex = 3 or more people. We are actively seeking singles and so want singles on this site. But just because dating sites aren't a good for some singles looking only for others singles, doesn't mean this site is a fit for you either.
"I think in a first message its difficult to include both. Mind You i find the first message difficult enough!
Advertised as a couple but it has surprised me how often the partner just watches..."
It's really not difficult. If it's too difficult it's not for you. It's just as easy to say 'how are you both' a it is to say 'how are you'
They are correct to 'advertise' as a couple as they'd both be at the meet.
Really would like to point out were not single guy bashing, as we do want to meet the genuine and respectful ones who share our fantasy of mutual pleasure. This is bashing the ignorant fecks who message chancing their luck when they know it's not what the couple wants. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
Both have there merits, i am about 50/50 with my meets on here for 3somes and single ladies.
There is a great dynamic to meeting a relaxed, secure horny couple, but also one-one fun is fun too, do i have to choose? x
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Haha no, of course not.
The way we are finding it on here is that there really aren't as many guys as you think that are REALLY into the whole MMF thing. Now ask them if they wanted FFM Hmmmm....lol
I guess your fantasy is your fantasy, but if something does not really float ya boat and you'd rather not....then don't try making conversation with a couples wife if you know a threesome will never happen... it's down to just timewasting again, on the off chance there is going to be sexy chat... or the woman will meet alone....we are definitely not all like that!( well i'm not anyway) But i think it's just assumed! 
There ya go rant .... over haha x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Interesting topic. We often wonder this when receiving some messages.
To address a couple other issues:
We are of the opinion that swinging = group sex = 3 or more people. We are actively seeking singles and so want singles on this site. But just because dating sites aren't a good for some singles looking only for others singles, doesn't mean this site is a fit for you either.
I think in a first message its difficult to include both. Mind You i find the first message difficult enough!
Advertised as a couple but it has surprised me how often the partner just watches...
It's really not difficult. If it's too difficult it's not for you. It's just as easy to say 'how are you both' a it is to say 'how are you'
They are correct to 'advertise' as a couple as they'd both be at the meet.
Really would like to point out were not single guy bashing, as we do want to meet the genuine and respectful ones who share our fantasy of mutual pleasure. This is bashing the ignorant fecks who message chancing their luck when they know it's not what the couple wants. "
Spot on _ollipine!!
Thankyou!! x |
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"Single guys!!!
Bit of a poll here for you please.
What really is your personal preference for a meet ( and be totally honest).
The female on her own?? ...
Or as a couple ( no bi-ness going on here either. Just a good ole threesome?
Both have there merits, i am about 50/50 with my meets on here for 3somes and single ladies.
There is a great dynamic to meeting a relaxed, secure horny couple, but also one-one fun is fun too, do i have to choose? x
Haha no, of course not.
The way we are finding it on here is that there really aren't as many guys as you think that are REALLY into the whole MMF thing. Now ask them if they wanted FFM Hmmmm....lol
I guess your fantasy is your fantasy, but if something does not really float ya boat and you'd rather not....then don't try making conversation with a couples wife if you know a threesome will never happen... it's down to just timewasting again, on the off chance there is going to be sexy chat... or the woman will meet alone....we are definitely not all like that!( well i'm not anyway) But i think it's just assumed!
There ya go rant .... over haha x "
Always been happy to chat with the make or the female of a couple, indeed a good social is as much as a part of the fun for me x |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Additionally comments in this post, including yourselves OP, regarding singles shouldn't be on here don't help.
I agree with you on this.
However, further to your other comment, I do wish guys who really just want a single woman wouldn't message a couple just because they are finding the odds against them with single women. In all honesty, it makes me feel like a sex toy (similar to how you described feeling once with a couple you played with). See, when a guy messages us but isn't interested in the fact that we are a couple, then all I can think is that he doesn't care about what will turn me on (whether that is a threesome, or having Marc watch, or even me playing alone with him with the intention of telling Marc about it later). Basically, all I am is an interactive flesh light he is using because no single women wanted to meet him that weekend. I'm not single, so he doesn't build the intimacy, but he is also ignoring my partner, who is a big part of what turns me on when the intimacy is missing. I don't know if that makes sense outside of my mind, but I've often thought this.
Forgive me if I have got this wrong. I totally agree with what you have said. However I have never messaged a couple because of lack of success with singles. It is something that I would genuinely like to experience and I used to have it has a setting on my profile. So in actual fact I may very well have reduced my meeting pool, for want of a better phrase, by removing it.
You haven't gotten anything wrong. I was just fleshing out your comment about feeling like a sex toy. I often hear that when singles complain about couples (and rightly so, considering some of the stories I've heard). But I thought I would think it out from the perspective of a woman in a couple as well. "
Sorry for very delayed reply.
Very tricky dynamic to get right. I completely understand why a couple would prefer a guy or indeed a lady who is experienced to join them. |
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Always a woman on her own (unless she wanted to bring a lady friend along with her then I guess I could put up with that )
In all seriousness though I just love the intimacy that can be built up when it's just you and someone else with no other distractions. |
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"As a fairly new person on here, my preference is single women only because I haven't had a threesome to compare it to.
As for the addressing the husband issue, I know many couples profiles are showing more of the woman than the man. So people automatically assume they're contacting the woman. Plus if you think about the number of straight males looking for a mfm then it's more likely they're going to address the woman. "
That to me sounds like the thought process of someone who isn't really into threesomes and doesn't understand the dynamic. We're another couple who get very miffed with guys who assume they're talking to me (her) and never mention him, and seem to be trying their luck because there are more couples than single women.
Of course there are more pictures of me, we're mostly looking for mfm fun so assume potential meets are happy to have an idea what he looks like but don't want to see loads. That doesn't mean it's ok to leave him out of the equation.
And I don't think it's difficult to message a couple, ask questions or make comments that relate to both. |
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It all depends on who and why you’re all meeting up.
Some 1:1s are amazing but that’s what you’re meeting for and when you have a threesome that’s also amazing.
I love being one of two guys at a woman’s call, knowing that between us we have to fulfil her needs and desires and that she is the focus of the night, us her play things. So hot! |
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Without a doubt my Fab preference is for MFM threesomes. I came to swinging when I was still part of a couple and group sex is still my kink. I do meet single ladies from here occasionally but frankly if I want a fuck I'll use Tinder |
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