I have friends where the relationship is sexless, so it's potentially not all bad!
It depends whether it's satisfying for both, the rules and what you want for the future potentially. I'd not give up being single for it, I don't think... Unless I fell in love with someone and it seemed right.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Better alone than in bad company.
A sexless relationship isn't necessarily bad company though is it?"
Quite. I have been single, which sucked even when I was getting sex quite regularly. I will stick with my sexless relationship. I can always have a wank, I can't simulate a relationship.. |
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":O definitely not, doesn't that make you more just friends? Never really felt an emotional bond to the level I would want to enter a relationship without sex"
No. Luckily we are in a very sexual relationship, married for a long time with kids. If for some unknown reason the sex stopped, the relationship would still be a million times more than just a friendship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss  "
I have been thinking about this a lot recently as a close friend of mine is in a sexless relationship and feels like shit about it.
But she has someone to share things with to go out with at weekends to spend evenings with etc ...
Where as I do everything alone which is OK but I do feel lonely!
Sex is easy to come by - a person that wants to share their life with you isn't.
I don't know anymore I just spend too much time alone it's not healthy!
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss
I Really don't no wot to think on this 1.  "
I'm really stuk on this 1
50% of me ses yes cos at lest you got sumone to be with and to shear with.
And
50% of me ses no cos i don't want to have a 100% sexless life.
It's not common for sumone to get me stuk on a question wear I'm 50/50 |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "
Depends on what the relationship is like, otherwise. Relationships aren't all about sex for some people.  |
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"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "
They either lie its the otger persons fault and end up on fab x lol female replying x |
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"Some say being in a sexless relationship is better than being single? Discuss "
There is a huge difference between sexless and loveless.
Sex isn't everything and if you love someone enough just being with them is enough. |
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Who defines a relationship surely the partners in the relationship ...so perhaps its nebulous as it depends on several variables the value of ehich is only known to the parties in yhe relationship |
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Here’s a view that no one would expect from me , but as a result of the last time this came up I’ve given this a lot of thought and here’s my take .
If you’ve been in a very sexual relationship with someone for a long time , and they decide they no longer want sex with you , then it’s going to be very difficult to continue in that relationship if there’s no reason for them to have made this decision . Especiallly if you still desire sex with them .
If however you both decide that sex is no longer important , and you want to pursue other avenues of pleasure together , then yes , this relationship is much better than being alone .
Sex for people like us us is all consuming and can be draining . We are far from feeling like we no longer want it , but at the same time we love our weekends which are always free from fab and swinging . Ok we enjoy sex with each other at weekends , but we share so much more than just that , so I could imagine we would go without sex and still have a happy relationship together . |
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