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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, I don't. It's possibly led to me making some mistakes but I think my friends who over think have missed out on opportunities. Swings and roundabouts  "
I think my over thinker has led to some mistakes!
As you say, swings and roundabouts x |
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Not generally though I sometimes like to suspend thinking, so that my unconscious mind can use Its resources. I tend to like simplicity and doing things fairly easily.
And it's important to know and act upon when you know you have spent enough time and energy on something. When you know your approach isn't the most effective, start to change it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah but do men do it?  x"
Some do. I used to in my professional life but not so much now as I eventually realised what a waste of time and effort it is. Now instead of perfection I will frequently settle for adequate, sometimes falling to can't be arsed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do.
Is a wink more than a wink?
Has my most recent message got across what is in my head?
If I reply too quickly is it seen as too keen, too stalkery, too desperate?
If I don't message, is it too aloof, too cold, too disinterested?
Is my profile too long, too detailed, too all emcompassing?
Is my comment on the forum ignored for being dull?
Am I passed over on the kiss fuck pint thread because I'm a minger or because the sexy lady above me gets the attention?
Should I risk a face pic early or build up a rapport first?
Are my low profile views because my tag line or pic puts people off or is it because of ninja viewing?
Is Mark's mate (who's a ninja) really a Ninja?
Should I keep my cock pic private, friends only or public?
Does my cock meet with approval?
Am I as confident as my profile appears? Does my profile appear confident?
Do I overthink responses? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massive overthinker here. From everyday life- is whatvim wearing ok? Have I put too much make up on? Not enough?
How did that come across with what I've just said?
Why haven't they answered my email?!
It goes on and on and on...., |
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