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Why say 'treat this couple/person with respect?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So many verifications say this. 'Treat this couple/person with respect'. Why write that? Surely it goes without saying that we should treat everyone with respect.

Do they generally not treat people with respect, but feel that the recipient/s are a case for special pleading?

Do they think we generally treat people disrespectfully?

Or are they struggling for something to write and saw someone else put it?

They could equally say, 'remember to breathe when you meet this couple/person'.

If anyone reading this used that phrase, could you please explain the logic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because it’s part of the site rules that you have to use certain cliches when you write a verification

Treat them with respect.

I want to keep them to myself.

Sucks like a dyson.

A very suckable cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not used it but had it used in my own veris. I questioned it like yourself.

I think it had something to do with his disrespectful some people can be on here, not to mention rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They don't know what to write so copy what they have seen on many other profiles.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

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"Because it’s part of the site rules that you have to use certain cliches when you write a verification

Treat them with respect.

I want to keep them to myself.

Sucks like a dyson.

A very suckable cock

That's the veri you left me

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

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Totally agree - it's a bit of a meaningless phrase. I think it's probably intended to be complimentary but the author hasn't thought things through ... I always wonder how the recipient(s) of other veris may feel if the 'respect' thing hasn't also been written for them? As in, they don't deserve to be respected apparently but someone else does.

Another variation is along the lines of 'treat them with respect or you'll have me to answer to' Really ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because it’s part of the site rules that you have to use certain cliches when you write a verification

Treat them with respect.

I want to keep them to myself.

Sucks like a dyson.

A very suckable cock

That's the veri you left me

I’d tell everyone to treat you disrespectfully because I know you’d enjoy that

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I tend to think that those who leave veri's like that realise there's more to the person than just genitals.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

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I think it's just one of those things you say to be nice. If your having a genuine social meet. I'ts quite easy to put good company, good laugh or something similar. If you have just had a mind blowing session its more difficuilt to write something different without being too graphic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most verifications are either blandly meaningless and vague or stunningly explicit and specific. What do people really expect others to write?

Sometimes I wonder if people on fab would be happier if all our veris went through double-blind peer-review.