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By *olgate OP   Man  over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I have just got into an argument regarding advice for someone else on fb with someone who has made a few snide comments towards me. The problem is I don’t think he realises who I am and that he is due to work for me in the near future.

My predicament is....

A- Do I bite my tongue and get the work done?

B- Do I cut my nose off to spite my face and tell him his services aren’t required?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No point in holding a grudge

Gets you nowhere

Forgive, forget and move on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shame it wasnt on here you could of bribed him, all is forgiven if i can sleep with your wife

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they can do a good job and are competitively priced, no point in hurting your own wallet.

If anything, wait until the job is finished, pay up, then point out how close they were to losing the gig.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bite your tongue, you can always make him aware of who you are once the works complete, I'd personally leave it, your paths may cross professionally again at some point.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple  over a year ago

Bedworth

I'd probably investigate whether there were other people able to employ to do the job. If so I'd use their services instead, if not I'd suck it up and tell him what an arse he is after the job was completed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame it wasnt on here you could of bribed him, all is forgiven if i can sleep with your wife "

Really??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I have just got into an argument regarding advice for someone else on fb with someone who has made a few snide comments towards me. The problem is I don’t think he realises who I am and that he is due to work for me in the near future.

My predicament is....

A- Do I bite my tongue and get the work done?

B- Do I cut my nose off to spite my face and tell him his services aren’t required?

"

how pissed off were you when you heard what they had been saying?

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By *eliz NelsonMan  over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Snide comments seem so prevalent on facebook...

A potential good employee is worth going for...

Actions speak louder than...blah blah

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By *olgate OP   Man  over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I have just got into an argument regarding advice for someone else on fb with someone who has made a few snide comments towards me. The problem is I don’t think he realises who I am and that he is due to work for me in the near future.

My predicament is....

A- Do I bite my tongue and get the work done?

B- Do I cut my nose off to spite my face and tell him his services aren’t required?

how pissed off were you when you heard what they had been saying?"

It’s an emotive subject for me, people who know me well know it’s a no go area in conversation.

Problem is I have already had another tradesman (who was half the price) let me down by not turning up on time to do the job.

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By *olgate OP   Man  over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Cancelled in the end.

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