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Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me. Lots of folk on here have complex relationships, and it's easy enough to say on your profile if you only want completely unattached people.
A nicer occasion was when I had a rapport going with someone, eventually swapped face photos and she said "not my type" which I of course graciously accepted ... but she did then accept a friend request from me.
Anyway I'm not grumbling at all. Much the opposite as I've also found an exceptional woman on here who seems to want to see me again ... |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me."
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why bitching if you got someone else lined up. Sounds like sour grapes
Harsh but agreed
Harsh? Meeeee noooooo never  "
I wouldn't wanna cross you if that's the "nice" version of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She blocked you because you are married and she doesn't want to meet cheats. Seems fair enough to me. Given that (despite your claims to the contrary) that you are grumbling about ot, you can see why she chose to block you rather than risk being inundated with messages trying to persuade her to chamge her mind due to your complex relationship |
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Anyway I'm not grumbling at all.
No. Of course not.
Pop it on your profile to give folk forewarning and avoid future grumbling "
This is the nicer way of putting it than I did though with a little more sarcasm I suspect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" it's easy enough to say on your profile if you only want completely unattached people."
I;ve not read your profile but I'm guessing as she had to ask the question it is not easy enough to say that you are married on your own profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says twice that I do not meet attached people. I got in a conversation that had lasted a couple of weeks with somebody and he then admitted yesterday that he was actually attached but he thought that because we were friends now I wouldn't mind. I do mind, I fucking mind. Blocked and deleted
Omission is still lying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anyway I'm not grumbling at all.
No. Of course not.
Pop it on your profile to give folk forewarning and avoid future grumbling "
It does say he has a life partner so unless he's just added that line it's a case of not reading or maybe understanding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One can only control one's own emotional behaviour and individual actions.
Law of averages states for every one person who ends a connection there will be another who has a different mind set and will be ken to push things forward.
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By (user no longer on site)
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One can only control one's own emotional behaviour and individual actions.
Law of averages states for every one person who ends a connection there will be another who has a different mind set and will be ken to push things forward.
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Can only go off the profile as it reads now. If it was updated after some of the initial responses then I make a moot point.
He says he has a life partner. He does not specify whether the partner knows or not. He does not say whether this information was given to the lady who blocked him or not. People appear to have jumped to conclusions on the matter. |
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"Why bitching if you got someone else lined up. Sounds like sour grapes"
Not "bitching" as I said. Just a little sad. Generally if there's a rapport already established then it would seem polite to say "thanks but no thanks" and if they do then I make a "private note" against their profile not to bother then again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People block people.
I have been surprised to find myself blocked by people I haven't interacted with.
I also block people that I haven't messaged as either I don't meet their needs or they don't meet mine.
Move on. |
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"It was obviously a deal breaker for her that she forgot to ask before she friended you on here.
You should put it on your profile though....and then grow a thicker skin "
It's on my profile, though there's so much text not everyone reads it. I ought to make it more concise. As for thick thick skin - I'm quite robust in many ways, but when it comes to flirty rapport and sexual intimacy I tend to open up and be a bit more vulnerable. Not sure a pachyderm approach would be winsome or engaging. |
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"She blocked you because you are married and she doesn't want to meet cheats. Seems fair enough to me. Given that (despite your claims to the contrary) that you are grumbling about ot, you can see why she chose to block you rather than risk being inundated with messages trying to persuade her to chamge her mind due to your complex relationship"
I never pester. But sadly some do, and I do recognise that it's hard for a woman to know whether I'm likely to.
I'm also quite happy to be blocked if that's the best way for someone to manage their account. |
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"It is on his profile 
Oh....I must admit I just had a quick look  "
Awww. Shame that was all it was. I noticed and wondered if I had a new admirer. (I'm too old for your limits though, so I didn't bother you) |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though "
Men don't read profiles,.. |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,.. "
Nor do women.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,..
Nor do women.... "
She didn't meet him and wasted his time, it must be a fella with a fake woman's profile.
* I thought I'd just throw another single male bashing generalisation in here this morning. |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,..
Nor do women....
She didn't meet him and wasted his time, it must be a fella with a fake woman's profile.
* I thought I'd just throw another single male bashing generalisation in here this morning. "
Hahahaha why not indeed, takes the heat off us cheating married b*stards for a while |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,..
Nor do women....
She didn't meet him and wasted his time, it must be a fella with a fake woman's profile.
* I thought I'd just throw another single male bashing generalisation in here this morning.
Hahahaha why not indeed, takes the heat off us cheating married b*stards for a while "
But your fit with a nice ass, you'll be fine on here with men falling over themselves to shag you.
*yet another generalisation. |
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,..
Nor do women....
She didn't meet him and wasted his time, it must be a fella with a fake woman's profile.
* I thought I'd just throw another single male bashing generalisation in here this morning.
Hahahaha why not indeed, takes the heat off us cheating married b*stards for a while
But your fit with a nice ass, you'll be fine on here with men falling over themselves to shag you.
*yet another generalisation. "
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Quite surprised today, having got into a nice flirty rapport with someone, who then accepted my friend request, and a few moments later asked if I was married or attached. I said yes, and without further ado or discussion she unfriended and blocked me.
Had she read your profile she could have said no thanks straight away.
If it wasn't on your profile I'd have done the same though
Men don't read profiles,.. "
Obviously, some women don't either, as it is on his profile that he has a partner.  |
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