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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure if anyone else gets random emails from guys who haven't read your profile but why do they then get all nasty if you don't respond? "
Another one is they send a message saying "hiya" and then follow it up with a friends invite, well it annoys me lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure if anyone else gets random emails from guys who haven't read your profile but why do they then get all nasty if you don't respond? "
we get loads from people who've obviously never read our profile. sometimes we just delete them,other times we reply pointing out they've either not read it or ignored what it said. but....
we've never received a nasty mail in response. Not once |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
When you' re old and grey and full of sleep and sitting by the fire.... 
Only joking with the first lines of teh famous poem..... but this topic comes up every now and again and most people would suggest to just ignore them or if they are really upsetting to report them to Admin...
Yes, people "should" read profiles but the reality is many do not and send out copy and paste type messages in large numbers. Just dont take them personal... xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones who really get me are the ones who send a message then the following day send another stating, I messaged you yesterday, just checking that you got the message' Then the next day, 'did you get my message' then the following day, I sent you a few messages but you didn't reply, I assume you're not interested'
No shit Sherlock ! 10/10 for observation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones who really get me are the ones who send a message then the following day send another stating, I messaged you yesterday, just checking that you got the message' Then the next day, 'did you get my message' then the following day, I sent you a few messages but you didn't reply, I assume you're not interested'
No shit Sherlock ! 10/10 for observation"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones who really get me are the ones who send a message then the following day send another stating, I messaged you yesterday, just checking that you got the message' Then the next day, 'did you get my message' then the following day, I sent you a few messages but you didn't reply, I assume you're not interested'
No shit Sherlock ! 10/10 for observation"
Extra brownie points for persistance? I enjoy ignoring those kind further  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"cause you maybe the 121768 profile they have looked at today and be chaffing.... the vinegar stroke brings the worst out in some"
Hahahahaha! Love it.
And I only wish I knew. I can tell when guys have read my profile and I am much more likely to respond. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
" I can tell when guys have read my profile and I am much more likely to respond."
That is it in a nutshell... I "know" when they have and it does get my attention...and when they have not, it kinda bores me !! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
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but....
we've never received a nasty mail in response. Not once"
You must be joking!!
I pointed out a blatant copy and paste message last week...I was polite and pointed out it would not bode him well....only to get heaps of abuse!
Needless to say he then deleted his profile, but now back on site and even cheeky enough to look at my profile again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but....
we've never received a nasty mail in response. Not once
You must be joking!!
I pointed out a blatant copy and paste message last week...I was polite and pointed out it would not bode him well....only to get heaps of abuse!
Needless to say he then deleted his profile, but now back on site and even cheeky enough to look at my profile again! "
so what does a copy 'n' paste message look like?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Needless to say he then deleted his profile, but now back on site and even cheeky enough to look at my profile again! "
 I explained all that...
*but ya still gorra cracking rack....* |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
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but....
we've never received a nasty mail in response. Not once
You must be joking!!
I pointed out a blatant copy and paste message last week...I was polite and pointed out it would not bode him well....only to get heaps of abuse!
Needless to say he then deleted his profile, but now back on site and even cheeky enough to look at my profile again!
so what does a copy 'n' paste message look like? "
His profile was about 3 lines long, his message was copy and paste about half of the profile! So yes very obvious! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
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Needless to say he then deleted his profile, but now back on site and even cheeky enough to look at my profile again!
I explained all that...
*but ya still gorra cracking rack....*"
And I wasn't going to name, names!!! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"my profile hasnt got much on it! is that bad do i need to fill it in??"
Most people, not all... pre3fer to learn something about the person. Remember there are soooo many single male profiles, it is best to make yours stand out a bit...
(The profile that is;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my profile hasnt got much on it! is that bad do i need to fill it in??Most people, not all... pre3fer to learn something about the person. Remember there are soooo many single male profiles, it is best to make yours stand out a bit...
(The profile that is;-)"
k ill have to crack on with that then, thankyou i dont get much out of this site lol probably why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my profile hasnt got much on it! is that bad do i need to fill it in??Most people, not all... pre3fer to learn something about the person. Remember there are soooo many single male profiles, it is best to make yours stand out a bit...
(The profile that is;-)"
ha ha im always standing out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure if anyone else gets random emails from guys who haven't read your profile but why do they then get all nasty if you don't respond? "
Because of course you should reply to all of them and pledge your undying love and exclusivity after all they have taken the time to send a long and correctly worded email too you so of course you should respond imediatly with a resounding YES
After all as your post says if you do not then some of them (who incidentally have no manners and absolutly no clue as to what swinging is about) of course have every right to berate you and slag you off I'm pm
Come on woman why do you not understand this? Xx |
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