"Anyone have any ideas about how encourage a wife to be more adventurous or letting herself relax and enjoy herself more. "
roleplay what you want to happen and see how she reacts and take it from there  .btw you are going to get a load of nonsense replys because you are a bloke like "show her your profile"and "you shouldint be encouraging your wife to do anything" shite  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone have any ideas about how encourage a wife to be more adventurous or letting herself relax and enjoy herself more. roleplay what you want to happen and see how she reacts and take it from there .btw you are going to get a load of nonsense replys because you are a bloke like "show her your profile"and "you shouldint be encouraging your wife to do anything" shite ."
I'd have said the same thing to any woman....if you want your partner to indulge in the things you enjoy, the first step would be to be open and let them know what that is...
Wasn't passing judgement...is nowt to do with me if someone's playing away.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Leave her...she will discover for herself! If she is not adventurous with you now, she never will be, she might try things to make you happy...but that's not the same! But that is just my opinion  |
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Honesty OP. Talking openly with her about these things will get you further than your fear allows you to think. Try asking her about her fantasies. What she'd like to try. Be interested in, and open to what she wants and in turn she will be interested and possibly open to what you want. Honesty is key to getting what you want. And if its something she doesn't want then I'd imagine you'd respect that because you love her. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Honesty OP. Talking openly with her about these things will get you further than your fear allows you to think. Try asking her about her fantasies. What she'd like to try. Be interested in, and open to what she wants and in turn she will be interested and possibly open to what you want. Honesty is key to getting what you want. And if its something she doesn't want then I'd imagine you'd respect that because you love her."
I'd actually typed out pretty much exactly that then deleted it without posting |
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"Honesty OP. Talking openly with her about these things will get you further than your fear allows you to think. Try asking her about her fantasies. What she'd like to try. Be interested in, and open to what she wants and in turn she will be interested and possibly open to what you want. Honesty is key to getting what you want. And if its something she doesn't want then I'd imagine you'd respect that because you love her.
I'd actually typed out pretty much exactly that then deleted it without posting "
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