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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!
Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there? 
She said she has no limits so I wana test it "
That could still mean anything though - best bet would be to sit down and talk to her about what SHE means and what are HER fantasies/expectations in that respect not ask a bunch of people on an internet forum who don't know her or her likes/dislikes |
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"Define rough kinky sex? It will be very different from one person to the next!
Maybe ask your partner what they think it is and adapt from there?
She said she has no limits so I wana test it
That could still mean anything though - best bet would be to sit down and talk to her about what SHE means and what are HER fantasies/expectations in that respect not ask a bunch of people on an internet forum who don't know her or her likes/dislikes "
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"Is this for you or someone else?
She said she has no limits so I wanted to get ideas haha"
I'd be careful if those were her actual words, like they're a bit vague. Has she spoken about this kind of thing specifically ? |
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Everyone has a limit I agree talk to her and see what she's expecting and set safe words.
We've had it where people have said they are kinky and have no limits but they weren't as kinky as they thought they were everyone has different perspectives. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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If you're talking BDSM "kinky" OP then once you have talked to your partner then there are some very good on-line questionnaires that you could both complete that cover a range of activities (everything from light bondage to some fairly hard-core stuff) where you can indicate a level of interest in each and that will give you a good grounding as to the kind of things you might like to try
But as I said above - first thing you need to so is sit down with her and get an understanding of what she means by rough kinky no limits sex |
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"If you're talking BDSM "kinky" OP then once you have talked to your partner then there are some very good on-line questionnaires that you could both complete that cover a range of activities (everything from light bondage to some fairly hard-core stuff) where you can indicate a level of interest in each and that will give you a good grounding as to the kind of things you might like to try
But as I said above - first thing you need to so is sit down with her and get an understanding of what she means by rough kinky no limits sex "
I was just thinking about the questionnaire ...
It's very easy to say you have no limits but something written and seen in black and white you realise oh no way!
Also it akways an easy way to discus each thing... to settle on hard no or possible but only if
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over a year ago
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"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo 
Did they include marmite & custard creams? "
No. I bloody hate custard creams |
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"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo
Did they include marmite & custard creams?
No. I bloody hate custard creams"
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo "
My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this for you or someone else?
She said she has no limits so I wanted to get ideas haha"
baseball bat and a balaclava use the thick end of the bat though |
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"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo
My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking "
You've been watching Hannibal again haven't you   |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"A guy recently told me he didn't have any limits. So I described a couple of scenarios for him and I never heard from him again. Weirdo
My standard response to someone that says they have "no limits" is to ask if they'd be OK with amputation - soon gets them thinking
You've been watching Hannibal again haven't you "
With a nice chianti and some favva beans? |
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