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Guys clearly letting women down for meets
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why on earth would a guy set a meet up and let the female down? I mean I see it so much on female updates and then receive a message saying il probably not turn up because I'm not verified?? Come on guys it's effecting us all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fantasists enjoying the thrill of the chase, pic collectors, chickening out and not having the balls to say, gf/wife getting suspicious, think it is a laugh...many reasons unfortunately  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does work both ways though. I've had meets arranged then it all goes radio silence and nada!!!
It's just par for the course here I'm afraid. "
That is, more often than not, another guy though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't give anyone anything to wank over. I had one last night trying to get my fantasies out of me so he could wank. He was quite new and went unlos after an hour of messaging me. People asking for Kik usually stop chatting when they realise the conversation won't getting sexual.
It works for me, I've only had one go quiet just before he was due to arrive. I hadn't bothered getting out of my PJs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does work both ways though. I've had meets arranged then it all goes radio silence and nada!!!
It's just par for the course here I'm afraid.
That is, more often than not, another guy though!"
Cheers for that. I'll just bend over and see if I can reach my self esteem.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fantasists enjoying the thrill of the chase, pic collectors, chickening out and not having the balls to say, gf/wife getting suspicious, think it is a laugh...many reasons unfortunately "
Yup. All those things. |
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"Why on earth would a guy set a meet up and let the female down? I mean I see it so much on female updates and then receive a message saying il probably not turn up because I'm not verified?? Come on guys it's effecting us all"
Another it's affecting us all thread aka "spoiling it for the rest of us" ..... nothing anybody else does affects YOU on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have a wank then don't need to meet. If the women didn't give them wank fodder they wouldn't be let down.  "
How do you explain it when a woman lets a man down? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I kind of always think someone won't turn up after having a couple of no shows in the past, it's less disappointing that way!! I also make them come my way so I don't have to travel too far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kind of always think someone won't turn up after having a couple of no shows in the past, it's less disappointing that way!! I also make them come my way so I don't have to travel too far "
Yeah me too lol...
Then I don't have to leave the man cave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talking the talk but can't walk the walk ....I think if someone doesn't turn up for a meet without a proper reason and without contacting the other person they should be banned for a month ...just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I kind of always think someone won't turn up after having a couple of no shows in the past, it's less disappointing that way!! I also make them come my way so I don't have to travel too far "
This is it isn't it, you start to protect yourself and are less accommodating as you were at the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have a wank then don't need to meet. If the women didn't give them wank fodder they wouldn't be let down.
How do you explain it when a woman lets a man down? "
It's probably a guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have a wank then don't need to meet. If the women didn't give them wank fodder they wouldn't be let down.
How do you explain it when a woman lets a man down?
It's probably a guy "
There's a theme in this thread. I can't quite put my finger on it, but I feel like I need to get defensive soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They have a wank then don't need to meet. If the women didn't give them wank fodder they wouldn't be let down.
How do you explain it when a woman lets a man down? "
She was probably on an ego trip and had no intention of meeting. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I kind of always think someone won't turn up after having a couple of no shows in the past, it's less disappointing that way!! I also make them come my way so I don't have to travel too far
This is it isn't it, you start to protect yourself and are less accommodating as you were at the start. "
Or not quite so naive as you were in the beginning!! Shame really... |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Perhaps it happens to guys too but they don't whine so much about it???
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Ha ha ha ha my side's are splitting.....nice one!! 
It happens to everyone, singles, couples etc etc some moan about it, others realise it's one of the unfortunate pitfalls of this place and accept it, others like me take time over arranging meets until we're as sure as we can be that it's not going to happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You make your own luck on Fab.
Anyone who says that they won't meet x, y or z because of a, b and c probably has a very good reason for it. But people sometimes make exceptions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You make your own luck on Fab.
Anyone who says that they won't meet x, y or z because of a, b and c probably has a very good reason for it. But people sometimes make exceptions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let's put it this way... I don't start shaving until I know for sure it is going to happen "
Legs up in the hotel sink as he's getting undressed next door |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let's put it this way... I don't start shaving until I know for sure it is going to happen
Legs up in the hotel sink as he's getting undressed next door "
funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let's put it this way... I don't start shaving until I know for sure it is going to happen
Legs up in the hotel sink as he's getting undressed next door
funny "
One Fine Day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"guys should think thereselves luck y they even get an offer of a meet ! some of us can't even get that far  "
trollalollalollalollllaalalol Your not doing it right then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why on earth would a guy set a meet up and let the female down? I mean I see it so much on female updates and then receive a message saying il probably not turn up because I'm not verified?? Come on guys it's effecting us all"
They pee me off, we're greatly out number the ladies which doesn't help some of our chances as it is without inconsiderate jerks putting the ladies off even more.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been let down more times than ever. Most recent yesterday.
Meet planned all week, time agreed. Messages sent to agree a place, yep all good.
Then it starts. His car is in for MOT. Oh, OK agree to pick him up. Next thing, can you meet earlier? No, you knew the time. Then can you meet now? Um, no it will take 45 minutes for me to get there, and he knew I had something on first. Then I said, never mind we can sort something again if today is difficult... Then I got, come round here and give me a blow job. Um, no let's do this when you have more time. Next thing, he's unlos.
Seems to be a recurrent theme lately.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, women are just as bad!
OP is having one of those "look at me!!" Sycophant rants. Best to let him proceed."
You trying to say there's more? . I can't wait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been let down more times than ever. Most recent yesterday.
Meet planned all week, time agreed. Messages sent to agree a place, yep all good.
Then it starts. His car is in for MOT. Oh, OK agree to pick him up. Next thing, can you meet earlier? No, you knew the time. Then can you meet now? Um, no it will take 45 minutes for me to get there, and he knew I had something on first. Then I said, never mind we can sort something again if today is difficult... Then I got, come round here and give me a blow job. Um, no let's do this when you have more time. Next thing, he's unlos.
Seems to be a recurrent theme lately. "
Just had one myself and a woman like you should never be stood up x |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I kind of always think someone won't turn up after having a couple of no shows in the past, it's less disappointing that way!! I also make them come my way so I don't have to travel too far
This is it isn't it, you start to protect yourself and are less accommodating as you were at the start. "
This is precisely why the actions of others can affect you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The majority of no shows are people with veri's yet they are the only users welcome here. Go figure "
Not at all. Some people use their common sense and don't rely on the veri system. |
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