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How do women find other women?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Generalisation alert!
Consider the Fab fact that men do not receive first contact messages from women, most of you go one step further and block us from contacting you completely. Maybe this goes back to the old 'men should do all the hard work' ethos, or 'if he likes me, he can make some effort and prove it!'
So, if a woman here is seriously looking for another woman, who in turn would rather sit and wait for someone to contact them ( for the reasons above), it's never going to happen, surely.
But, if this miracle actually does happen, (or has happened) and you do meet. Can you take photos and prove it to me.  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I too have met a woman. Shocking! Yes, I have messaged and been messaged but I have to say word of mouth/friend of a friend has been the most successful method, by accident rather than design. Some of the friends have also benefitted in said process so it's win/win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a little more difficult when the fem half of a couple wants to meet another fem. (don't want single profile)
understandably other women think it's for the couple. It's not!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generalisation alert!
Consider the Fab fact that men do not receive first contact messages from women, most of you go one step further and block us from contacting you completely. Maybe this goes back to the old 'men should do all the hard work' ethos, or 'if he likes me, he can make some effort and prove it!'
So, if a woman here is seriously looking for another woman, who in turn would rather sit and wait for someone to contact them ( for the reasons above), it's never going to happen, surely.
But, if this miracle actually does happen, (or has happened) and you do meet. Can you take photos and prove it to me. "
I've met a lady from here and been messaged by others. I tend to treat women the same as I do men, check out profiles, engage in conversation etc and go from there. Women can be just as flaky and timewasting as men sometimes , trust me. But there are some genuine ones too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Generalisation alert!
Consider the Fab fact that men do not receive first contact messages from women, most of you go one step further and block us from contacting you completely. Maybe this goes back to the old 'men should do all the hard work' ethos, or 'if he likes me, he can make some effort and prove it!'
So, if a woman here is seriously looking for another woman, who in turn would rather sit and wait for someone to contact them ( for the reasons above), it's never going to happen, surely.
But, if this miracle actually does happen, (or has happened) and you do meet. Can you take photos and prove it to me. "
Sounds to much like schrodinger's cat to me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Generalisation alert!
Consider the Fab fact that men do not receive first contact messages from women, most of you go one step further and block us from contacting you completely. Maybe this goes back to the old 'men should do all the hard work' ethos, or 'if he likes me, he can make some effort and prove it!'
So, if a woman here is seriously looking for another woman, who in turn would rather sit and wait for someone to contact them ( for the reasons above), it's never going to happen, surely.
But, if this miracle actually does happen, (or has happened) and you do meet. Can you take photos and prove it to me. "
I've had loads of first contact messages from women, i find that if they like what they see they usual not shy about asking to have it  |
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"Do women and couples ever send first messages?  "
At least 80% of our interaction on here comes from our first message.
This could be because we have filtered out men.
99% of those who message us are couples. Very rarely single females.
We have had more than 1 meet with single females from recommendation. |
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