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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people insist on putting this as their status..why not just hide profile "
Apparently because this is more than a swingers site, so I've been told, several times, when I've voiced similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people insist on putting this as their status..why not just hide profile "
Maybe they wish others still too see there pics and tex . Maybe they like to get fabs on pics.?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should they hide because they aren't having sex? They may still be chatting to people and don't want to be a faceless profile-less nonentity. If people choose to ignore or not read what's on the profile about not meeting at the moment, that's their problem.
Putting up filters and blocks only means new people can't message and people they have already been messaging can still message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a buyers market?
Wrong thread...
Even the not meeting ever brigade still need their pics fabbing 
People use fab how they want to, which might not suit you, but suits them. I am not actively looking to meet, but enjoy the forums. If I hid my profile, I'd be yet another anonymous entity spouting off behind a keyboard (which I know I am, but you kn[w what I mean). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only draws attention to the profile
Got it in one. Thats why they do it.
The 'not meeting at moment' profiles get more meets than the rest of us.
Welcome to the asylum.  "
If I put that I'm not meeting at the moment, it means that. It's not to get more messages; I get enough with filters off already. I'm still using the site and sometimes still meeting people I have already met. I don't hide because I'm still here, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if someone i chat to hides their profile i dont message - i take it they are out of the game for a reason - but some still want to chat so put up a status saying so - = dont worry so much about what others do and do your own thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if someone i chat to hides their profile i dont message - i take it they are out of the game for a reason - but some still want to chat so put up a status saying so - = dont worry so much about what others do and do your own thing"
Maybe, but I'm still finding out how my thing works! |
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By *l4yerMan
over a year ago
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"It only draws attention to the profile
Got it in one. Thats why they do it.
The 'not meeting at moment' profiles get more meets than the rest of us.
Welcome to the asylum.
If I put that I'm not meeting at the moment, it means that. It's not to get more messages; I get enough with filters off already. I'm still using the site and sometimes still meeting people I have already met. I don't hide because I'm still here,"
So, in your own words 'sometimes still meeting people I know'
Thats not 'not meeting at the moment' thats 'meeting people you know at the moment'
See how confusing it is? No wonder us guys get it wrong...often. Applying logic to an illogical statement. Theres no hope for us.
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I've been very specific on my profile about meeting, what I'm doing on here currently and who I'm communicating with. I'm not trying to draw attention to myself  I actually delete unsolicited messages unread. I don't have pics, I never have, so in theory I should have an empty inbox. But guess what, the unsolicited messages from guys keep coming. There are those that just wink which to be fair I think that is acceptable. I don't have filters because of the forum, I want to interact with ppl from threads. I don't see why I should hide my profile, I'm not misleading anyone, I'm being honest so as not to be accused of time wasting. I think it's unfair to hide my profile from those I interact with on the forum. I'm not trying to hide anything I even made the effort of going to the MLS because I wanted to go obviously, but also so the ppl on the forum I interact with know I do exist and I'm not a silhouette. |
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"It only draws attention to the profile
Got it in one. Thats why they do it.
The 'not meeting at moment' profiles get more meets than the rest of us.
Welcome to the asylum.
If I put that I'm not meeting at the moment, it means that. It's not to get more messages; I get enough with filters off already. I'm still using the site and sometimes still meeting people I have already met. I don't hide because I'm still here,
So, in your own words 'sometimes still meeting people I know'
Thats not 'not meeting at the moment' thats 'meeting people you know at the moment'
See how confusing it is? No wonder us guys get it wrong...often. Applying logic to an illogical statement. Theres no hope for us.
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I fail to understand what's confusing about "not meeting at the moment", it seems cut and dried to me... |
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"It only draws attention to the profile
Got it in one. Thats why they do it.
The 'not meeting at moment' profiles get more meets than the rest of us.
Welcome to the asylum.
If I put that I'm not meeting at the moment, it means that. It's not to get more messages; I get enough with filters off already. I'm still using the site and sometimes still meeting people I have already met. I don't hide because I'm still here,
So, in your own words 'sometimes still meeting people I know'
Thats not 'not meeting at the moment' thats 'meeting people you know at the moment'
See how confusing it is? No wonder us guys get it wrong...often. Applying logic to an illogical statement. Theres no hope for us.
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My profile is quite logical and to the point that makes no difference whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because sometimes it's just for few days and we still wanna keep in touch with ppl on here for potential meets, but do know what you are saying, its like they never intend to meet ... I had a couple look at me n thought oo they look nice went to profile its hidden... I mean why look if no intentions xx female replying xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still want to be able to chat & people to see me ~ but I'm not available at a drop of a hat or knickers as the case maybe... "
Which is a great shame..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often do this
I don't want to hide my profile because even though I'm not meeting at that present time I still like to interact with people on here who could be potential meets for the future
It's nothing about attention seeking for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if someone i chat to hides their profile i dont message - i take it they are out of the game for a reason - but some still want to chat so put up a status saying so - = dont worry so much about what others do and do your own thing
Maybe, but I'm still finding out how my thing works!"
sorry - that made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It only draws attention to the profile
Got it in one. Thats why they do it.
The 'not meeting at moment' profiles get more meets than the rest of us.
Welcome to the asylum. "
Really? Bollocks.
*runs off to change profile* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if someone i chat to hides their profile i dont message - i take it they are out of the game for a reason - but some still want to chat so put up a status saying so - = dont worry so much about what others do and do your own thing
Maybe, but I'm still finding out how my thing works!
sorry - that made me laugh "
Ha, read into it what you will.. |
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