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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why waste both of our times talking all week then get cold feet, I'm a very open and honest person but I'm starting to think either people are nosey or just rude. |
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People can genuinely change their minds during a discussion, don't forget that - but they should of course politely inform you in good time so you are not unconvenienced. I won't even get in the shower if someone is not communicating freely, but if people mess me about or seem insincere or disrespectful I will cancel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's happened to me, even so far as speaking on the phone, booking a hotel halfway between us and then them not turning up and blocking me on fab. "
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It's time wasting if they don't intend to meet or if they stand you up. It's not if people are potentially open to meeting the right people but someone turns out not to be right for them. Generally users who lose interest before fixing a meet will just go silent and block you.
Work out what you can learn from it and potentially use to improve things for your wellbeing in future.
And report users who are no shows etc. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"It's time wasting if they don't intend to meet or if they stand you up. It's not if people are potentially open to meeting the right people but someone turns out not to be right for them. Generally users who lose interest before fixing a meet will just go silent and block you.
Work out what you can learn from it and potentially use to improve things for your wellbeing in future.
And report users who are no shows etc. "
What happens when you report these people? |
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