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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a little tale to all the single men on here complaining they are not getting any meetings.
I have been on this site for 6 months now - wasn't sure what I was looking for but never my intention to sleep with every female on here - a chat and a drink would be a good night!!!
Sent numerous mails out with limited responses/non responses, several blocks by people who didn't like the look of me!!! lol and some who I chat to quite regularily.
One of these I chatted to turned into a meeting and long story short we are meeting again and it looks like it is going to be a regular thing. I'm so happy to have found her and that she feels the same way, that my profile is hidden but am here to chat!!
Suppose what I am saying is it can happen for you but it takes a lot of time, effort, humour and rejection before it does - but when it does happen!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some very true words well spoken there, I don't want a string of knotches. Quality over quantity every time. I have meet a stunning couple Ad & Shaz, so the site dose work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"D'awwwww, so much romance in the air on here at the mo.
Mercury is in retrograde
That usually causes a break down in communication though.
Which could explain a lot! "
LOL you know your astrology  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"D'awwwww, so much romance in the air on here at the mo.
Mercury is in retrograde
That usually causes a break down in communication though.
Which could explain a lot!
LOL you know your astrology "
I'm one of those tree-hugging paganny types, so astrology is one of my hobbies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, many congratulations, and I wish you both every happiness x"
Thank you Sunny and everyone for the nice comments. Still early days and no one knows what the future holds but we are both happy with each other!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op does she like spitroasts...im avail mon-sun and inbetween those days too
Sorry, I'm a bit greedy and keeping her all to myself!!!
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Aww, maybe shes greedier though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
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hey itsa all possible, we are single men yet nice...and we dont mind sharing some fun..ya can hug n kiss when we leave hehehehe |
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Good Man Ohso! It took a while for me to get any replies but I finally had a lovey phone chat with a very nice lady last night and I'm hoping it will lead to good things.
I think Patience, Politeness, and a little Friendliness & Wit are the best course for us single guys. Especially Patience!
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Rugby... Where are you??? I want this thread closed immediately.
Bloody single males on here moaning all the time
I know it looks like he is doing OK, but I am sure he is complaining about not getting meets, just have to figure out the code... 
OP... Well done geezer.. Hope your association lasts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
hey itsa all possible, we are single men yet nice...and we dont mind sharing some fun..ya can hug n kiss when we leave hehehehe"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
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Ohh hello, this i thought was a swingers site, where folks are free to meet and have fun with who ever they like, turns of phrase like "keeping her all to myself" equally gives single blokes a bad name on here, theres plenty single women/couples who im sure would experience their toes curling at the thought they'd just met someone who thought they had been made "theirs"  |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
Ohh hello, this i thought was a swingers site, where folks are free to meet and have fun with who ever they like, turns of phrase like "keeping her all to myself" equally gives single blokes a bad name on here, theres plenty single women/couples who im sure would experience their toes curling at the thought they'd just met someone who thought they had been made "theirs" "
bit unfair,i saw it more as tongue in cheek.
single blokes get a hard enough time,on here.
be fair,read the posts,as the poster intended.not how you want to see it.  |
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i must admit i have been very lucky on this site and have had some great meets!, met some great ladies and couples!,i don't know what the secret ingredient for success is at all!,i suppose be yourself,be honest and think positive!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
Ohh hello, this i thought was a swingers site, where folks are free to meet and have fun with who ever they like, turns of phrase like "keeping her all to myself" equally gives single blokes a bad name on here, theres plenty single women/couples who im sure would experience their toes curling at the thought they'd just met someone who thought they had been made "theirs"
bit unfair,i saw it more as tongue in cheek.
single blokes get a hard enough time,on here.
be fair,read the posts,as the poster intended.not how you want to see it. "
Maybe reading it wrong, apologies in advance both If it was tongue n cheek and dont see the unfair part. |
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Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner. "
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm. "
Its bang on, who needs to lighten up exactly? |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
Its bang on, who needs to lighten up exactly?"
you seem like a bit of an angry person.we could start with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
Its bang on, who needs to lighten up exactly?
you seem like a bit of an angry person.we could start with you. "
Too late, i've just met sumone, busy hiding my profile and off to put my eggs all in the one basket,lol |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
Its bang on, who needs to lighten up exactly?
you seem like a bit of an angry person.we could start with you.
Too late, i've just met sumone, busy hiding my profile and off to put my eggs all in the one basket,lol "
watch those eggs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a little tale to all the single men on here complaining they are not getting any meetings.
I have been on this site for 6 months now - wasn't sure what I was looking for but never my intention to sleep with every female on here - a chat and a drink would be a good night!!!
Sent numerous mails out with limited responses/non responses, several blocks by people who didn't like the look of me!!! lol and some who I chat to quite regularily.
One of these I chatted to turned into a meeting and long story short we are meeting again and it looks like it is going to be a regular thing. I'm so happy to have found her and that she feels the same way, that my profile is hidden but am here to chat!!
Suppose what I am saying is it can happen for you but it takes a lot of time, effort, humour and rejection before it does - but when it does happen!!!!
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What can happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as i asked earlier,has the fem hid her profile? Next thing you know they will have a cpls profiln with big capital letters NO SINGLE MEN!! Seen it happen loads of times on here? Some guys have very short memories auds |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just enjoy yourself mate and take no notice of people who have to put their own spin on things and turn what is a positive into a negative.
Yes this is a swinging (sex site) but I have met lots of couples who have met on here or in swinging clubs and they ae now partners or married.
Love hits people in the most unusual places and there is no telling where or when.(not saying you are in love but you know what I mean)
Just enjoy the moment and good luck to you both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aww, maybe shes greedier though?
After comments like that, you wonder why single men get such a bad rap on here!!! lol
Ohh hello, this i thought was a swingers site, where folks are free to meet and have fun with who ever they like, turns of phrase like "keeping her all to myself" equally gives single blokes a bad name on here, theres plenty single women/couples who im sure would experience their toes curling at the thought they'd just met someone who thought they had been made "theirs"
bit unfair,i saw it more as tongue in cheek.
single blokes get a hard enough time,on here.
be fair,read the posts,as the poster intended.not how you want to see it. "
In fairness I thought "blimey one meet and he's hidden profile and keeping her to himself?!! "
Whilst I wish the OP well if I were a single man I'd have opened this thread expecting to read positive experience not about someone finding a girlfriend.
Just my thoughts in it! |
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In fairness I thought "blimey one meet and he's hidden profile and keeping her to himself?!! "
Whilst I wish the OP well if I were a single man I'd have opened this thread expecting to read positive experience not about someone finding a girlfriend.
Just my thoughts in it! "
This ^^^^
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm. "
You should take your own advice... I don't appreciate you swearing at me for having an opinion. It's an open forum and I'm fairly sure that if you post a thread you're looking for people to comment. That's what I've done, and I'm pretty sure I managed to do that without being offensive! |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
You should take your own advice... I don't appreciate you swearing at me for having an opinion. It's an open forum and I'm fairly sure that if you post a thread you're looking for people to comment. That's what I've done, and I'm pretty sure I managed to do that without being offensive! "
Dirty... I think this site has become more like a dating site over the last year! We often run into profiles that say they are either only here to chat or are just looking to spice up their relationship and only want webcam! Mostly couples it has to be said.
But then if people accepted that this is a swingers site and not give out the standard "It's up to everyone to decide how they use this site" perhaps it would be different! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Just a little tale to all the single men on here complaining they are not getting any meetings.
I have been on this site for 6 months now - wasn't sure what I was looking for but never my intention to sleep with every female on here - a chat and a drink would be a good night!!!
Sent numerous mails out with limited responses/non responses, several blocks by people who didn't like the look of me!!! lol and some who I chat to quite regularily.
One of these I chatted to turned into a meeting and long story short we are meeting again and it looks like it is going to be a regular thing. I'm so happy to have found her and that she feels the same way, that my profile is hidden but am here to chat!!
Suppose what I am saying is it can happen for you but it takes a lot of time, effort, humour and rejection before it does - but when it does happen!!!!
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Perhaps it did happen because you sound so positive - most people like positive, polite and non pushy people and maybe that was part of your success?
Anyway I am really happy for you, best of luck x |
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
You should take your own advice... I don't appreciate you swearing at me for having an opinion. It's an open forum and I'm fairly sure that if you post a thread you're looking for people to comment. That's what I've done, and I'm pretty sure I managed to do that without being offensive!
Dirty... I think this site has become more like a dating site over the last year! We often run into profiles that say they are either only here to chat or are just looking to spice up their relationship and only want webcam! Mostly couples it has to be said.
But then if people accepted that this is a swingers site and not give out the standard "It's up to everyone to decide how they use this site" perhaps it would be different!"
Which is why I said what I said. Posting a thread giving other single blokes 'hope' that they are going to meet a partner on a swinging site just doesn't sit right with me. It's my personal _iew on why I'm here and what swinging is about for me. However people are free to do as they please within the rules of the site so our own _iews are all that we can share. There's nothing to say we all have to agree. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The original intention of the thread was to tell single men (who seem to bemoan the fact that they get no meets) that if you stay positive, polite, deal withn rejection gracefully, etc then eventually someone/several will want to meet you. For me, I have dropped lucky with someone I am very happy with, nothing to do with dating, love, etc - but one person is enough for me.
Hope the positives in this thread outweigh the negative but if possible would like to close it now as it's getting bitty
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"The original intention of the thread was to tell single men (who seem to bemoan the fact that they get no meets) that if you stay positive, polite, deal withn rejection gracefully, etc then eventually someone/several will want to meet you. For me, I have dropped lucky with someone I am very happy with, nothing to do with dating, love, etc - but one person is enough for me.
Hope the positives in this thread outweigh the negative but if possible would like to close it now as it's getting bitty
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I got what you meant. I think it was a bit mean when people started pulling it apart. Just leave it now for others and enjoy your new relationship. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Hmmm... its lovely that you've met someone and you're happy so forgive me for saying that this thread would make me smile on a dating site but on a swinging site I'd rather not meet people who are here looking for a relationship. I know it happens and sometimes people meet partners in swinging but I'm not entirely sure that giving 'hope' to other single blokes that they're likely to meet a keeper here is a good thing. If you're looking to date, perhaps a dating site is more appropriate? Maybe not... maybe it's just me but I'm here to meet people who want to meet me for some fun rather than as a prospective partner.
ffs lighten up,it happens,thats life.hmmmm.
You should take your own advice... I don't appreciate you swearing at me for having an opinion. It's an open forum and I'm fairly sure that if you post a thread you're looking for people to comment. That's what I've done, and I'm pretty sure I managed to do that without being offensive! "
i often do,take my own advice,it's always good.
nice of you to agree with me,all the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The original intention of the thread was to tell single men (who seem to bemoan the fact that they get no meets) that if you stay positive, polite, deal withn rejection gracefully, etc then eventually someone/several will want to meet you. For me, I have dropped lucky with someone I am very happy with, nothing to do with dating, love, etc - but one person is enough for me.
Hope the positives in this thread outweigh the negative but if possible would like to close it now as it's getting bitty
I got what you meant. I think it was a bit mean when people started pulling it apart. Just leave it now for others and enjoy your new relationship."
Very got what you meant too ! |
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"The original intention of the thread was to tell single men (who seem to bemoan the fact that they get no meets) that if you stay positive, polite, deal withn rejection gracefully, etc then eventually someone/several will want to meet you. For me, I have dropped lucky with someone I am very happy with, nothing to do with dating, love, etc - but one person is enough for me.
Hope the positives in this thread outweigh the negative but if possible would like to close it now as it's getting bitty
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i see why you are happy...but its not exactly hope to men who want to swing is it? And you seem to have missed the point of swinging too. So u like her,she likes you,now you are in an exclusive ,non sharing relationship.Great,so close your accounts and accept swinging aint for you.
Yet again it seem to be another single male who lowers himself to play with us couples, but his woman is too good, too satisfied to swing |
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"The original intention of the thread was to tell single men (who seem to bemoan the fact that they get no meets) that if you stay positive, polite, deal withn rejection gracefully, etc then eventually someone/several will want to meet you. For me, I have dropped lucky with someone I am very happy with, nothing to do with dating, love, etc - but one person is enough for me.
Hope the positives in this thread outweigh the negative but if possible would like to close it now as it's getting bitty
i see why you are happy...but its not exactly hope to men who want to swing is it? And you seem to have missed the point of swinging too. So u like her,she likes you,now you are in an exclusive ,non sharing relationship.Great,so close your accounts and accept swinging aint for you.
Yet again it seem to be another single male who lowers himself to play with us couples, but his woman is too good, too satisfied to swing "
Wait a minute... 
Yes, this is a swinging site but people are people and they'll do as they please. We all swing in our own way. However this meet pans out, I don't think anyone's missed the point. lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I find it odd that there are lots of posts on here about people meeting other people and starting relationships, but this is the only one where the poster has been abused for doing so. |
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Hm all points on here are valid. Lots of people get together on here (apparently) and everyone seems pretty happy for them... recently congrats threads for an engagement I believe. I think the issue here is not that two people have found each other but that the OP appears to be giving hope to single guys to find the same. As a swinging site obviously this is not usually the point of joining and some people obviously feel that encouraging others to look for something not usually on offer is not wise. OP congrats. You can understand why maybe your rejection of swinging now you have bagged your babe slightly grates with some maybe... the rest of you... well I dont know about you but I would not have been interested in sex with others early in a relationship as we were too busy being obsessed with each other. Each to their own. Good luck op. May your profile stay hidden for as long as you wish it to... lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it odd that there are lots of posts on here about people meeting other people and starting relationships, but this is the only one where the poster has been abused for doing so."
He created a point for discussion, created healthy diffrent opinions on swinging and others gave their version of how they swing versus his ideal on it, nowhere do i see abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it odd that there are lots of posts on here about people meeting other people and starting relationships, but this is the only one where the poster has been abused for doing so."
I think the difference is they post sharing their news not telling others to have hope and stick in there as they too can find a partner, that's what caused me to raise my eyebrows and I'm one of those that met my partner swinging, and has a hidden profile! |
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