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Do guys really only last 15 mins?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This was always a joke or punchline when talking amongst blokes and my mates over a pint. But really, is this the average time a guy lasts? 
What's your expectations for a good meet when swinging? And what do you normally get?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"More to the point, do people actually time themselves?  "
I know right.  .
I'm Only aware when the sun starts to rise in the morning at 6:48am how long we've been at it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough."
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. "
The whole meet? It takes me 15 minutes just to get the condom on properly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. "
The whole thing 15 minutes??? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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Actual penetration, I dont last anywhere near 15 min. As for all of the fun and non-penetrative play both before and after I cum, then that is a different matter.
Also when couples swap with other couples, there is the additional dynamic of how long your partner, and the other person are going to be playing for. You don't want to be going at it for hours if they have already finished and are sitting there playing scrabble.
So play in a one-on-one private meet will generally last a lot longer than play in a couple swap meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole meet for me? I prefer overnight, so several hours. There's food and stuff in there too, though, not just 12 hours of straight fucking  "
....food you say |
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. "
Oh Lord! No, nowhere near enough it takes me fifteen minutes to get my shoes off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
Ive lasted less than that  . She was sexy, and soon at it again after a few more snogs.  "
Nice but this one didn't was a one minute wonder .was last time I was on .But I do laugh as he's still on fab and his verifications are far from the truth .with how he was with me .sometimes men get excited though .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. "
A good meet for me includes chatting, watching a film maybe, eating and having sex. The sex includes quickies in the kitchen as well as longer sessions in the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience.
The whole thing 15 minutes??? "
Wouldn't be worth starting the car for. Takes me longer to drink a coffee |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"The whole meet for me? I prefer overnight, so several hours. There's food and stuff in there too, though, not just 12 hours of straight fucking "
This is me too. My fab meets so far have been overnights and one weekend too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Er....yes?
LOL I think its amusing how many people above the age of 30 still cant differentiate between porn and sex. They're not the same. People get the impression that lasting hours non-stop is normal because they saw some heavily edited porno in which some dude with a 15 inch cock rammed a woman endlessly for 40 minutes.
Its also the reason why so many women here talk so much about wanting "VWE" and then complain when lacking the common sense to realize that most bigger dicks tend to hurt lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be fucking mortified if I lasted 15 minutes.
I like long meets, 4 hours+. That isn't solid fucking though. Lots of kissing, foreplay, teasing, spooning, chatting and having a laugh interspersed with lots of little fucks. Food and drink if needed also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I can last with the best of em, but jeez with those boobs in my face i can see why it was 4 mins!"
Lol I should of kept bra on eh ? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Fifteen minutes?! I think I've only met a couple of men who could last more than two when it came to actual penis in vag stuff. As far as a whole meet? I like a good hour or so of sexual stuff but quite often when a man comes, that's the end of that. |
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I can last with the best of em, but jeez with those boobs in my face i can see why it was 4 mins!
Lol I should of kept bra on eh ? "
Yes! Il rip it off when i hit 16 mins |
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"Fifteen minutes?! I think I've only met a couple of men who could last more than two when it came to actual penis in vag stuff. As far as a whole meet? I like a good hour or so of sexual stuff but quite often when a man comes, that's the end of that. "
Wow, your meeting the wrong guys! Beleive me ! Eeee what id give.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I've had that happen a couple of times. Apparently I'd got them worked up. Not even a repeat attempt. X "
That meet was the same and was quick to get me out of door .I then realised i can't do quick sex and like what I have know .All night and morning with someone I trust .cold quick sex is bad at least bad for me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I've had that happen a couple of times. Apparently I'd got them worked up. Not even a repeat attempt. X
That meet was the same and was quick to get me out of door .I then realised i can't do quick sex and like what I have know .All night and morning with someone I trust .cold quick sex is bad at least bad for me . "
Yes, it wasn't good, he just got up and left the three of us to it. Was very uncomfortable. Wouldn't meet them again after that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck that... or... not.
I like as much cuddling, kissing and foreplay as possible, though I get bored if the penetrative stuff goes on for too long. However fifteen minutes overall just isn't my idea of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I've had that happen a couple of times. Apparently I'd got them worked up. Not even a repeat attempt. X
That meet was the same and was quick to get me out of door .I then realised i can't do quick sex and like what I have know .All night and morning with someone I trust .cold quick sex is bad at least bad for me .
Yes, it wasn't good, he just got up and left the three of us to it. Was very uncomfortable. Wouldn't meet them again after that x "
This is why some men just do one offs as they are the selfish shite shags .Lol
It's true in my opinion as they aren't bothered and don't care .I'm on one today lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One 4 mins I must be that good .Lol
I've had that happen a couple of times. Apparently I'd got them worked up. Not even a repeat attempt. X
That meet was the same and was quick to get me out of door .I then realised i can't do quick sex and like what I have know .All night and morning with someone I trust .cold quick sex is bad at least bad for me .
Yes, it wasn't good, he just got up and left the three of us to it. Was very uncomfortable. Wouldn't meet them again after that x
This is why some men just do one offs as they are the selfish shite shags .Lol
It's true in my opinion as they aren't bothered and don't care .I'm on one today lol "
But as part of a couple you'd think it would be different. Also had one couple try to arrange a meet for him to admit he couldn't keep it up. WTF x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night.. "
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I think people tend to get a bit obsessed with what's too quick or too long. Opinions will vary greatly from person to person. Would a lady prefer 15 amazing minutes of intercourse or 30-45 mins of repetitive jackhammering? A lot of factors, some very subtle can contribute to amazing sex that when measured in time, won't be very prolonged. As long as he can satisfy the partner, I think it's irrelevant. Now, should he be able to have another go soon after? I'd say most women would say yes! Can't get enough of a good thing |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night.. "
I dunno. I'd truly quite like fifteen minutes of that drilling right now. I'll hand in my woman's card I guess. |
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night..
I dunno. I'd truly quite like fifteen minutes of that drilling right now. I'll hand in my woman's card I guess."
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone..."
Lol, I met a hot young Spaniard off here once....I was the first to verify him, so considering it my duty to let the poor women of fab know what they might be in for, I actually used the word 'Jackhammer' in the veri!! He thanked me profusely, and had a queue of young ladies round the block almost immediately.......so some do indeed like hours of thrashing it seems! |
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night.. "
But in reply to the rest of your post - hell yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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15 mins??!! That's a 'catch your eye, give a nod then fuck against the wall down an alley' sort of meet (I'm not ruling that out...) but for a meet meet, I want you lasting for hours and no napping, you'll be in trouble if you fall asleep on me, unless it's gone past the 24 hour mark 
Peach x |
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience. "
I wouldn't even leave my house/invite someone around if was only spending 15 minutes in their company, Depending on the circumstances anywhere from 3 hours - all night, The weekend with the right Woman/couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience.
I wouldn't even leave my house/invite someone around if was only spending 15 minutes in their company, Depending on the circumstances anywhere from 3 hours - all night, The weekend with the right Woman/couple"
It's not worth getting all dressed up for and looking hot for quickie . |
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"It's not all about drilling or jackhammering, no woman truly wants 15mins straight of that alone. Slower strokes and grinding adoring, caressing, exploring each other, teasing, connecting, talking, foreplay, multiple rounds and cuddles in between can last a whole day or night.. "
That sounds about right. Add in decent chocolate at some stage and it'd be damn near perfect.
No way do I want a meet that's shorter than the time it takes to shower and wash my hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again? "
Yeah sure, I'll take you up on that...it'll give me something to do on my halftime fag break during a 12 hour sexathon
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again?
Yeah sure, I'll take you up on that...it'll give me something to do on my halftime fag break during a 12 hour sexathon
Peach x"
Done. Meet at 1:30 next Friday? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again?
Yeah sure, I'll take you up on that...it'll give me something to do on my halftime fag break during a 12 hour sexathon
Peach x
Done. Meet at 1:30 next Friday? "
Date
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again?
Yeah sure, I'll take you up on that...it'll give me something to do on my halftime fag break during a 12 hour sexathon
Peach x
Done. Meet at 1:30 next Friday?
Date
Peach x "
Great, I can catch the 1:40 bus home.
*I waited that long for the punchline, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Er....yes?
LOL I think its amusing how many people above the age of 30 still cant differentiate between porn and sex. They're not the same. People get the impression that lasting hours non-stop is normal because they saw some heavily edited porno in which some dude with a 15 inch cock rammed a woman endlessly for 40 minutes.
Its also the reason why so many women here talk so much about wanting "VWE" and then complain when lacking the common sense to realize that most bigger dicks tend to hurt lol"
hahahaha couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve had some last far less than that, probably my fault as I like to *squeeze* but I’m not into just lying there like a rag doll "
Wow I love a women when she squeezes so sexy. I'd hope to last longer with four play before hand though |
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"Fuck that... or... not.
I like as much cuddling, kissing and foreplay as possible, though I get bored if the penetrative stuff goes on for too long. However fifteen minutes overall just isn't my idea of fun. "
Definitely. I'd be seriously unimpressed if the whole thing was over in 15 minutes
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again?
Yeah sure, I'll take you up on that...it'll give me something to do on my halftime fag break during a 12 hour sexathon
Peach x
Done. Meet at 1:30 next Friday?
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Peach x
Great, I can catch the 1:40 bus home.
*I waited that long for the punchline, "
Baboom chaaa!
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It varies, there is times you think you're a porn star and can go for 45/50 minutes and then there is other times were your so horny and sexually frustrated that you can't even last 2 minutes, just saying |
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The only part of foreplay I'm interested in is the kissing, pass the oral I'm good without... So, 15 mins can be enough....if they're willing to go again asap. However, I have had men who are rather selfish and will cum from a blow job, or cum very quick and then it's over...at least I know I won't be meeting them again. |
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"I'd be fucking mortified if I lasted 15 minutes.
I like long meets, 4 hours+. That isn't solid fucking though. Lots of kissing, foreplay, teasing, spooning, chatting and having a laugh interspersed with lots of little fucks. Food and drink if needed also."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be fucking mortified if I lasted 15 minutes.
I like long meets, 4 hours+. That isn't solid fucking though. Lots of kissing, foreplay, teasing, spooning, chatting and having a laugh interspersed with lots of little fucks. Food and drink if needed also."
Lots of little fucks you say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This was always a joke or punchline when talking amongst blokes and my mates over a pint. But really, is this the average time a guy lasts?
What's your expectations for a good meet when swinging? And what do you normally get?
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If I lasted 15 mins I would be either high fiving myself or worried that it was broken lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I finished after 7 1/2 mins, can we meet the day after to go at it again?
Let me set the egg timer
Oh, you like it hard?
Well boiled yes "
Of course...You were talking about the egg  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"This was always a joke or punchline when talking amongst blokes and my mates over a pint. But really, is this the average time a guy lasts?
What's your expectations for a good meet when swinging? And what do you normally get?
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I have been watching a few cams recently and I'm surprised that a most don't even make 15mins - more around a few minutes. I can't say I watch them intently but I've only seen a few where there's been any kind of stamina. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough."
It's all about the foreplay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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15min.... I'm still undressing her and exploring her body with my hands and lips..... For me a good one on one meet is hours... kissing, exploring foreplay... oral.... penetration with changes of position, pace, depth.... more oral...... more penetration..... orgasm...... more oral..... kiss cuddle...drink... start again. ... |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience.
A good meet for me includes chatting, watching a film maybe, eating and having sex. The sex includes quickies in the kitchen as well as longer sessions in the bedroom "
Sounding like my kinda woman! |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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"Fifteen minutes is more than enough for me if it's actual penetration we're talking about. If it's foreplay fifteen minutes is nowhere near enough.
I'm talking about the whole meet, the whole sexual experience.
A good meet for me includes chatting, watching a film maybe, eating and having sex. The sex includes quickies in the kitchen as well as longer sessions in the bedroom "
Sounding like my kinda woman! |
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