"Would you meet when you are not at your best - have you done so successfully?"
Depends on the context of "Not your best
I don't see the point if I'm full of a cold/aching stiff and in pain or more importantly if I'm not in the right mental place |
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"Would you meet when you are not at your best - have you done so successfully?
Depends on the context of "Not your best
I don't see the point if I'm full of a cold/aching stiff and in pain or more importantly if I'm not in the right mental place "
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Nope
Cancelled a meet with a single lady from here in the summer due to myself resembling a puffer fish, hay fever hit me pretty bad.
Not exactly an attractive sight |
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Depends I suppose on the person and situation.
One lassie I meet regularly met me one night and I had a stye in my eye it wasn't too bad at first but seemed to get worse by the time the meet came round.
She didn't mind, I did though a bit, it went away a day later. So wasn't a big deal.
But I probably would have waited if it wasnt a regular buddy. |
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first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.
repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that  |
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"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.
repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that "
Is that a lamppost next to where your squatting   |
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"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.
repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that "
Like really fucked it out of you  |
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I wouldn't have a first meet if i wasn't feeling on top form but I may do a repeat meet depending who it is and what/why I'm not feeling my best.
I have cancelled a meet with a regular fb because I was feeling ill and he wasn't feeling too great that night either and was considering cancelling.
I've also had a very short notice (10 minutes) meet with the same guy. He was driving past my town so text to see if I was free. I didn't have time to do more than brush my teeth and hair so felt a bit less than perfect but we had a lovely time. |
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"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.
repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that
Like really fucked it out of you "
fuck yeah  |
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No, I will not meet if I don't feel good.. mentally, emotionally and physically.
Otherwise, I would probably regret the meet as I would associate it with negative feelings. I only want good memories.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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First impressions are what count! I wouldn't meet unless I was at my best precisely for this reason. Bad, or less than stellar first impressions rarely, if ever, get a second chance. |
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I have no idea any more what our best is !
We meet three times a week , every week and have done for years now . Pretty much every meet is multiple partners , and if I'm honest we are always way below what might be considered our ' best ' .
However , if what our meets say is true , we are still worth it  |
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I've had sex with my long term partner where I've had half an hour notice. It's either bath and shave my legs, or bath and tidy up the flat. The flat won, so he gets hairy legs and fuzzy hair tied up in a ponytail. He doesn't mind |
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