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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone who can show empathy and compassion.
I married someone who lacked both and it made some situations extremely difficult."
That's a very difficult one. Empathy in my opinion is distance based and therefore person who see's themselves as empathetic can easily be a hypocrite. |
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .  "
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people. |
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship "
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it "
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol"
Damn all of that on a first date  ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together."
A feeling. That he doesn't do or say anything to make me feel compromised. Yes I agree time helps on this. Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise ? I know how it feels when you're in a long term relationship with someone you believe is a compulsive liar 
I feel a calmer person these days  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
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I like how you said, if they love you they show you.
Far too many women are focused on hearing the words themselves and miss out on the act. |
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people."
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
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No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together.
A feeling. That he doesn't do or say anything to make me feel compromised. Yes I agree time helps on this. Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise ? I know how it feels when you're in a long term relationship with someone you believe is a compulsive liar
I feel a calmer person these days "
I don't trust people without anticipating a betrayal.
It's a rule I have and one that can never let me down.
For me to really trust someone, it would take a lot of effort... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people."
On my experience men never listen or ask questions and too me this lacks interest and will never get 2nd date .men turning up on a date with trainers is a no no and I would be put off by footwear .Too many wear trainers and tracksuit bottoms .it's ok for gym or knock around but not for a date . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too "
Next! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!"
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way |
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
On my experience men never listen or ask questions and too me this lacks interest and will never get 2nd date .men turning up on a date with trainers is a no no and I would be put off by footwear .Too many wear trainers and tracksuit bottoms .it's ok for gym or knock around but not for a date . "
On our first date, a social, we met at a very posh hotel for coffee. He wore a suit! It was only Sunday morning  his neighbours must have thought he was off to church
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together.
A feeling. That he doesn't do or say anything to make me feel compromised. Yes I agree time helps on this. Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise ? I know how it feels when you're in a long term relationship with someone you believe is a compulsive liar
I feel a calmer person these days "
I've had some shitty relationship experiences but I still refuse to distrust people right off the bat!... I love what you said "Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise?"... Which is totally how I run my gig... I have friends who think I'm crazy for doing so... and I think they're pessimists for doing the contrary, who more times than not, get proven right through having very little faith in humans in general. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way "
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers |
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Dependable, open, caring, resiliency, intelligent, fit,funny, loving, adventurous, compassionate and strong amongst other characteristics. Good at DIT and organised is a plus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
Next! "
Lol I can see we'll not even be having a conversation.., |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers "
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too "
And your favourite cocktail is.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
And your favourite cocktail is.... "
"A Slow Comfortable Fuck" please lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice "
Yes lol us women wear heels and stockings and heels neally kill us so what's a bit of discomfort to look good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice
Yes lol us women wear heels and stockings and heels neally kill us so what's a bit of discomfort to look good "
I think a woman looks best naked, if she wants to be undressed frenchies, long socks and oversized top or sports jersey will do, no need for discomfort |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's odd OP. I just checked your pics out for grey dogger bottoms and quelle surprise none there. Instead there you are straining in your hugoboss underwear looking positively uncomfortable 
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lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice
Yes lol us women wear heels and stockings and heels neally kill us so what's a bit of discomfort to look good
I think a woman looks best naked, if she wants to be undressed frenchies, long socks and oversized top or sports jersey will do, no need for discomfort "
Ok night in with boyfriend but not a hot date out . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's odd OP. I just checked your pics out for grey dogger bottoms and quelle surprise none there. Instead there you are straining in your hugoboss underwear looking positively uncomfortable
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Believe me, they're surprisingly comfortable even with an extra hand
As for joggers I own 2 pairs, 3 pairs of cargo and no jeans |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice
Yes lol us women wear heels and stockings and heels neally kill us so what's a bit of discomfort to look good
I think a woman looks best naked, if she wants to be undressed frenchies, long socks and oversized top or sports jersey will do, no need for discomfort
Ok night in with boyfriend but not a hot date out . "
You women complicate your lives too much .
I'm a simple man, I see ass in yoga pants, I want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's odd OP. I just checked your pics out for grey dogger bottoms and quelle surprise none there. Instead there you are straining in your hugoboss underwear looking positively uncomfortable
Believe me, they're surprisingly comfortable even with an extra hand
As for joggers I own 2 pairs, 3 pairs of cargo and no jeans "
No jeans who never has jeans your very odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together.
A feeling. That he doesn't do or say anything to make me feel compromised. Yes I agree time helps on this. Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise ? I know how it feels when you're in a long term relationship with someone you believe is a compulsive liar
I feel a calmer person these days
I don't trust people without anticipating a betrayal.
It's a rule I have and one that can never let me down.
For me to really trust someone, it would take a lot of effort..."
This rule will always let you down, it's a glass half empty view... You let in the negative before the positive and negativity of the mind generates more negativity, just like positivity generates more positivity... It's a vicious cycle that can lead to physical illness... spiritually speaking x |
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"Honesty&trust
It's hard to show honesty and trust, even more so at early stages of relationship
Why do you think that? After some pretty shite experiences, this was/is always going to be key to a happy relationship. Sir has always stepped up to the mark, maybe not instantly, but once he realised something was important to me, he's dealt with it
Yes but how can you know the other person really is honest with you or trusts you? In my opinion that only comes out after a period of time being together.
A feeling. That he doesn't do or say anything to make me feel compromised. Yes I agree time helps on this. Don't you just trust a person until they prove otherwise ? I know how it feels when you're in a long term relationship with someone you believe is a compulsive liar
I feel a calmer person these days
I don't trust people without anticipating a betrayal.
It's a rule I have and one that can never let me down.
For me to really trust someone, it would take a lot of effort...
This rule will always let you down, it's a glass half empty view... You let in the negative before the positive and negativity of the mind generates more negativity, just like positivity generates more positivity... It's a vicious cycle that can lead to physical illness... spiritually speaking x"
I wholeheartedly agree. Eternal optimist
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must like hand holding and cuddling too.
And snogging for no other reason than tou just want too. Be open to random gropes of appendage too. Like if we are alone in the car, stuck at traffic lights, i used to like to fondle my fella's manhood. Sometimes, he'd flop it out to tease me and then put it back. Or he'd come up behind me when i was cooking and cup my boobs under my top.
That sort of stuff...
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
I like how you said, if they love you they show you.
Far too many women are focused on hearing the words themselves and miss out on the act."
Actions speak much louder than words in my book |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's odd OP. I just checked your pics out for grey dogger bottoms and quelle surprise none there. Instead there you are straining in your hugoboss underwear looking positively uncomfortable
Believe me, they're surprisingly comfortable even with an extra hand
As for joggers I own 2 pairs, 3 pairs of cargo and no jeans
No jeans who never has jeans your very odd "
Odd is not a nice word, I prefer the term unique |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
And your favourite cocktail is....
"A Slow Comfortable Fuck" please lol xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aside from a big wallet and a huge cock , what is it that you ladies look for in a long term relationship partner?
Asking for a friend "
Think this just about covers it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Acceptance for my insecurities and faults.
Caring, loving, honesty.
Good sense of humour. "
Good sense of humour is subjective though, it's the same as someone who is looking for a fun person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
I like how you said, if they love you they show you.
Far too many women are focused on hearing the words themselves and miss out on the act.
Actions speak much louder than words in my book"
Is it a pop up book then
But yeah, same here. Words carry very little meaning to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Must have brain
Sense of humour
Self effacing is good. Arrogance is not
A little worldliness and soffisticayshun is also good
As is an interest in Pre Raphaelite art
Virgins need not apply |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Acceptance for my insecurities and faults.
Caring, loving, honesty.
Good sense of humour.
Good sense of humour is subjective though, it's the same as someone who is looking for a fun person."
This is very true, someone who isn't too serious and you can have a laugh with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Must have brain
Sense of humour
Self effacing is good. Arrogance is not
A little worldliness and soffisticayshun is also good
As is an interest in Pre Raphaelite art
Virgins need not apply"
Well that's the trogladytes out then....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
And your favourite cocktail is....
"A Slow Comfortable Fuck" please lol xx
Off to start the car "
You'd seriously take a trip out of your man cave to visit me would you Hine?!... I bet that drive from Ireland to Brighton would take a gazillion hours!!!... I would definitely make it worth your while if you do!... (Give me a month to rearrange my flat as it's being turned into a comfortable home based business atm).
The suggestion of effort involved alone is currently turning me on!!! Lol... There'll be a beautiful organic meal awaiting your arrival should you actually be thinking about it... I always make an effort for myself (as I appreciate being self spoilt lol) and I hugely enjoy making an effort for those who do too!... |
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"He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
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I'll have one of these please
But in all honesty I think I'll probably be single forever now.
Not because I want to be - but because I don't think I'll find what I'm looking for.
My biggest issue is trust.
Especially after being on sites like this one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
And your favourite cocktail is....
"A Slow Comfortable Fuck" please lol xx
Off to start the car
You'd seriously take a trip out of your man cave to visit me would you Hine?!... I bet that drive from Ireland to Brighton would take a gazillion hours!!!... I would definitely make it worth your while if you do!... (Give me a month to rearrange my flat as it's being turned into a comfortable home based business atm).
The suggestion of effort involved alone is currently turning me on!!! Lol... There'll be a beautiful organic meal awaiting your arrival should you actually be thinking about it... I always make an effort for myself (as I appreciate being self spoilt lol) and I hugely enjoy making an effort for those who do too!... "
Cancel the car....
Fire up the private jet |
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Personal experience, someone who understands my sexual needs, and vice versa. A good love life helps you deal with each other's Crap. Of course a good love life requires openness with each other.... I do miss having it on tap but being single has helped me explore myself more ?? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Someone who is going to get my daughter pregnant....
That took a weird turn "
Sorry, just a contextual reframe (linguistically the base of jokes). However ''twas true a little while ago...
Perspective is an odd thing... hope you find the answers you are looking for, suggest you don't try a generic approach though. Have fun and copulate, Jim.... |
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
Damn all of that on a first date ?
No on a first date I would prefer for him to be such an magnetic sexual god that he melts my knickers off my ass just by staring into the deepest parts of my soul and stating... "Fuck me Vixen like I'm the first man you've ever truly lusted after!"... Lol ... And I'd like him to buy me a cocktail to show he's not a tight ass too
And your favourite cocktail is....
"A Slow Comfortable Fuck" please lol xx
Off to start the car
You'd seriously take a trip out of your man cave to visit me would you Hine?!... I bet that drive from Ireland to Brighton would take a gazillion hours!!!... I would definitely make it worth your while if you do!... (Give me a month to rearrange my flat as it's being turned into a comfortable home based business atm).
The suggestion of effort involved alone is currently turning me on!!! Lol... There'll be a beautiful organic meal awaiting your arrival should you actually be thinking about it... I always make an effort for myself (as I appreciate being self spoilt lol) and I hugely enjoy making an effort for those who do too!...
Cancel the car....
Fire up the private jet "
Lol!, why Hine (aka Bruce Wayne/Batman?!)... I just knew your man cave must be the one and only BAT CAVE! (am I right??? Lol), I knew you'd visit me one day if I were patient enough! Lol xx |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"He has eyes only for me.
He's kind, funny, honesty, highly sexed, a bit pervy in bed, is romantic, is upbeat, can handle moody women, isn't an alcoholic/drug user/gambler/womaniser. Is a good man, but with hidden depths. Is straight forward. If they love you, they show you.
Isn't moving to the far side of the world during our courtship.
And i do like to be courted, so maybe a bit of old fashioned gentleman about him.
I like how you said, if they love you they show you.
Far too many women are focused on hearing the words themselves and miss out on the act.
Actions speak much louder than words in my book
Is it a pop up book then
But yeah, same here. Words carry very little meaning to me."
Things may pop up when you read it |
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Someone tall with a fit body and a face I like to look at. Someone I feel can protect me from the world when I lie in their arm's,with a calm easy going nature. Someone that my children and family approve off...
...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock  |
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"Someone tall with a fit body and a face I like to look at. Someone I feel can protect me from the world when I lie in their arm's,with a calm easy going nature. Someone that my children and family approve off...
...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock "
And prey tell what do you look for in a girlfriend lovely lady 
Oh bollox I fell asleep again
Something about this thread |
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"Unfortunately I don't match all of these qualities, but there are a lot that I look for in a relationship.
What about a big cock and a fat wallet
I'm not a wealthy man  "
Staying with the positives, it looks like you do a good YMCA act though
Another Fab straight peeps |
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"Someone tall with a fit body and a face I like to look at. Someone I feel can protect me from the world when I lie in their arm's,with a calm easy going nature. Someone that my children and family approve off...
...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock "
And it was going oh so well, till you said bank balance  |
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"Someone tall with a fit body and a face I like to look at. Someone I feel can protect me from the world when I lie in their arm's,with a calm easy going nature. Someone that my children and family approve off...
...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock
And prey tell what do you look for in a girlfriend lovely lady
Oh bollox I fell asleep again
Something about this thread "
Possibly not enough rampant swinging sexploites going on?!!! Lol |
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol"
A woman after my own heart! I would definitely put good character first, but I want all that other fun shit! |
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"Unfortunately I don't match all of these qualities, but there are a lot that I look for in a relationship.
What about a big cock and a fat wallet
I'm not a wealthy man
Staying with the positives, it looks like you do a good YMCA act though
Another Fab straight peeps "
YMCA? |
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"Someone tall with a fit body and a face I like to look at. Someone I feel can protect me from the world when I lie in their arm's,with a calm easy going nature. Someone that my children and family approve off...
...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock "
Shouldn't thst be a bank balence and a huge cock....
Just asking...for a friend |
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"Unfortunately I don't match all of these qualities, but there are a lot that I look for in a relationship.
What about a big cock and a fat wallet
I'm not a wealthy man
Staying with the positives, it looks like you do a good YMCA act though
Another Fab straight peeps
YMCA?"
Village People - you'd be the construction worker judging by your pic |
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"Unfortunately I don't match all of these qualities, but there are a lot that I look for in a relationship.
What about a big cock and a fat wallet
I'm not a wealthy man
Staying with the positives, it looks like you do a good YMCA act though
Another Fab straight peeps
YMCA?
Village People - you'd be the construction worker judging by your pic "
Ok... I'll laugh and pretend I got the joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
A woman after my own heart! I would definitely put good character first, but I want all that other fun shit! "
Loving your profile!, you sound like a whole lot of fun!!! XO |
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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago
Stokeish... |
Mine is pretty lengthy, however if I don't have all of this I'd rather be single;
Open, honest and accepting of others
Trusting and trustworthy (I don't do jealously or possessiveness)
Non judgemental
Funny
To treat me as an equal and be able to stand up to me, but equally accept when they're (often) wrong
Ambition and the ability to be self sufficient on a basic level (not rich but able to pay their bills and their own mortgage/rent and work hard)
To be fairly amazing in bed, because I like sex- a lot
To be a deep thinker
Not to crowd/suffocate me
To be able to blow up and have a row but have forgotten it after an hour (I hate sulkers)
Basically to be everything I would want in a best mate, but also to make me want to jump them at every opportunity
I'm really easy to please basically |
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...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock
And prey tell what do you look for in a girlfriend lovely lady
Oh bollox I fell asleep again
Something about this thread "
I do actually wonder what type of woman I'd be attracted to if I was bisexual,my training is going to slow |
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...and more importantly someone with a huge bank balance and cock
Shouldn't thst be a bank balence and a huge cock....
Just asking...for a friend "
No a huge bank balance and a slightly more than average/big cock |
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"Honest ,trust ,respect and can hold a conversation and knows how too treat a lady .Hate men who talk rough and dress too casual .
I find that women put too much expectation in holding a good conversation considering how little they contribute to them. (Personal experience)
And I'm not going to lie, I love dressing causal, I only wear what's comfortable not to appeal to other people.
There's casual and comfy and then there is "wtf!"
I want someone who can dress according to the occasion not someone who lives in sports clothes and doesn't own a shirt!
Hey, if we're going movies and it's hot outside I'm wearing shorts!
I also don't wear jeans, cargo pants all the way
Dressing appropriate for occasion yes if hot shorts and nice shirt.Cargo pants I don't like as next step from joggers
Well would you prefer a man to feel uncomfortable just because you don't like a certain type dress code? That's not nice
Yes lol us women wear heels and stockings and heels neally kill us so what's a bit of discomfort to look good
I think a woman looks best naked, if she wants to be undressed frenchies, long socks and oversized top or sports jersey will do, no need for discomfort "
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
A woman after my own heart! I would definitely put good character first, but I want all that other fun shit!
Loving your profile!, you sound like a whole lot of fun!!! XO"
You too - anyone who wears pink and laughs a lot is cool by me! |
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"Mine is pretty lengthy, however if I don't have all of this I'd rather be single;
Open, honest and accepting of others
Trusting and trustworthy (I don't do jealously or possessiveness)
Non judgemental
Funny
To treat me as an equal and be able to stand up to me, but equally accept when they're (often) wrong
Ambition and the ability to be self sufficient on a basic level (not rich but able to pay their bills and their own mortgage/rent and work hard)
To be fairly amazing in bed, because I like sex- a lot
To be a deep thinker
Not to crowd/suffocate me
To be able to blow up and have a row but have forgotten it after an hour (I hate sulkers)
Basically to be everything I would want in a best mate, but also to make me want to jump them at every opportunity
I'm really easy to please basically "
What about cv and references? |
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By *XHNHWoman
over a year ago
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"Mine is pretty lengthy, however if I don't have all of this I'd rather be single;
Open, honest and accepting of others
Trusting and trustworthy (I don't do jealously or possessiveness)
Non judgemental
Funny
To treat me as an equal and be able to stand up to me, but equally accept when they're (often) wrong
Ambition and the ability to be self sufficient on a basic level (not rich but able to pay their bills and their own mortgage/rent and work hard)
To be fairly amazing in bed, because I like sex- a lot
To be a deep thinker
Not to crowd/suffocate me
To be able to blow up and have a row but have forgotten it after an hour (I hate sulkers)
Basically to be everything I would want in a best mate, but also to make me want to jump them at every opportunity
I'm really easy to please basically
What about cv and references? "
Too easy to fake, I'm more of the 3 hour interrogation tactic to try and catch out liars |
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I don't look for a boyfriend.
I'm not interested in having a bf for the sake of it.
If, and it's a big if, anyone were to tempt me from singledom they would have to be pretty damn awesome.
And not many men are actually even honest, caring, supportive, tactile, respectful or faithful  |
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"Depth of character, the ability to think about life in general, a kind heart, sexually skilled, passion, creativity, ability to have spontaneous fun and someone who laughs instead of moaning about shit lol
A woman after my own heart! I would definitely put good character first, but I want all that other fun shit!
Loving your profile!, you sound like a whole lot of fun!!! XO
You too - anyone who wears pink and laughs a lot is cool by me! "
Aww well thanks! XxxxO |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Ok, it's been a week since I proposed to her and I'm out of topics to talk about.
I knew that scheduling a date for 10 days in advance is a bad idea but she was busy the first weekend |
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