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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
1 hour at a club...then played about 15 mins later    |
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
Perfect. Seriously. As long as it's a social go for it ! You both get out. See each other animated. No more than two drinks tho or you will wake up being sorry that you shagged the hunchback of notre fab through beer goggles ! |
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
you can jump straight on me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it?
Perfect. Seriously. As long as it's a social go for it ! You both get out. See each other animated. No more than two drinks tho or you will wake up being sorry that you shagged the hunchback of notre fab through beer goggles !"
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
No harm at all .
Too much messaging often goes nowhere .
We always meet up after initial pic and message take our fancy on the same night  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.
Ok you maybe just put me off
Put you off what?  "
Jumping straight in, in case its awkward  |
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"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.
Ok you maybe just put me off
Put you off what?
Jumping straight in, in case its awkward "
Only one post which says this was the case ..... |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Less than 24 hours, started messaging about midnight one Thursday night and met him early Friday evening. I usually chat much longer but honestly it was one of my best ever meets so I say go for it! |
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"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.
Ok you maybe just put me off
Put you off what?
Jumping straight in, in case its awkward
Only one post which says this was the case ....."
Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into. |
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"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?
I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
No need to talk for ages before a social, just arrange that ASAP. I don't wally around with messages.
Those that want to meet will make the effort, it s out those that just want wank fodder and you get to meet new folks for a coffee and then decide if you want to get naked.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.
Ok you maybe just put me off
Put you off what?
Jumping straight in, in case its awkward
Only one post which says this was the case .....
Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into."
Sorry I was just being silly. I did put a laughing face to show I wasn't being serious |
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"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.
Ok you maybe just put me off
Put you off what?
Jumping straight in, in case its awkward
Only one post which says this was the case .....
Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into.
Sorry I was just being silly. I did put a laughing face to show I wasn't being serious "
no need to apologise, I was just saying just because I didn't have a good experience it doesn't mean nobody else will |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to meet for a social within about a week of first starting chatting. We don't know if we will like each other before we've met in person. I don't want to waste our time chatting for ages if we don't get on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably a couple of hours with a smashing, if slightly bonkers lady on here who messaged my couple profile when we were trotting to a club. I assumed she was after Number One Chap which caused a touch of initial confusion as it was more of a girl thing. She's since left the funny old world of Planet Fab, which is a shame as she was a riot. |
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By *a72Man
over a year ago
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Few hours not on here though a site called face party many years ago. Went perfectly well that time but I guess generally it makes sense to chat a bit first a few times to see if you both want the same things etc |
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