"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ...  "
Just because you match what they are looking for, doesn't mean they want to meet *you*.
A deleted message means no thanks. |
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over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ... "
Shit happens. You could fit perfectly, but if they don't like the look of you..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It may be that they don't see you as their type OP. I'm not sure if you are talking about women or couples. Your profile seems very geared towards couples  . There will be some who will find you desire able to, you just have to keep plugging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's surprising how many messages I get from men who THINK they fit what my profile is looking for.
I have to point out why they don't fit it even though all the information is already on my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for replies guys. I'm not expecting a meat off a message just answering invitations to chat and can they tell what I look like without visiting my profile, you'll have to forgive me I'm new to this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replies guys. I'm not expecting a meat off a message just answering invitations to chat and can they tell what I look like without visiting my profile, you'll have to forgive me I'm new to this "
Oh don't open that no replies can of worms....I'm off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replies guys. I'm not expecting a meat off a message just answering invitations to chat and can they tell what I look like without visiting my profile, you'll have to forgive me I'm new to this "
We all were new once lovely, don't worry about it . They do visit your profile, more than likely. They are just in hidden mode, so you can't see theyve checked you out |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replies guys. I'm not expecting a meat off a message just answering invitations to chat and can they tell what I look like without visiting my profile, you'll have to forgive me I'm new to this "
They would have visited your profile in stealth mode like I have, but you would never know.....can you see that I have had a look? I remain invisible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for replies guys. I'm not expecting a meat off a message just answering invitations to chat and can they tell what I look like without visiting my profile, you'll have to forgive me I'm new to this "
I forgive you  |
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ... "
This is a genuine and in no way aggressive question.
When you joined fab, what were your expectations? |
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ... "
I love Pizza and know how to order one. I'm just what Dominoes are looking for.
However, when I ignore their leaflets that come through the door they leave it at that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ... "
Just because you think you mat Christmas what they are looking for doesn't mean they think you do.
Move on amd don't take it to heart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had it happen a few times but I'm not bothered about it, if my message gets deleted unread I just move on, there's nothing to be gained by worrying about little things like that pal, just get on with your life and perhaps change your message style etc so that it Will, hopefully, get you noticed by the recipient! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ... "
Maybe they have a backlog of users that fit their looking for description and are operating a one in, one out policy like a nightclub? |
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over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ...
Maybe they have a backlog of users that fit their looking for description and are operating a one in, one out policy like a nightclub?"
Once you've been in you get your hand stamped so you can gain access again  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ...
Maybe they have a backlog of users that fit their looking for description and are operating a one in, one out policy like a nightclub?
Once you've been in you get your hand stamped so you can gain access again "
No, but the special ones get to use the VIP entrance - and skip any future queues.
;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ...
Maybe they have a backlog of users that fit their looking for description and are operating a one in, one out policy like a nightclub?
Once you've been in you get your hand stamped so you can gain access again
No, but the special ones get to use the VIP entrance - and skip any future queues.
;-)"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you fit a user's looking for description but a genuine message gets deleted without being read ...
I love Pizza and know how to order one. I'm just what Dominoes are looking for.
However, when I ignore their leaflets that come through the door they leave it at that."
Perfect answer really. |
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