Closure

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do you do when you can't get closure on something?

For 5 years I've been promised something yet to materialise and now it seems it never will.

I've confronted the person about it but they are too cowardly to admit to what they have done so all I really have is my suspicions.

Kind of rambling I guess but it's hard when you have no real outlet for this feeling.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too cryptic. Need more details.

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Make your own closure. Come up with a new reality and focus on that.

By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"What do you do when you can't get closure on something?

For 5 years I've been promised something yet to materialise and now it seems it never will.

I've confronted the person about it but they are too cowardly to admit to what they have done so all I really have is my suspicions.

Kind of rambling I guess but it's hard when you have no real outlet for this feeling. "

Never wait for a man - move on.

By *DontExistWoman over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Make your own closure. Come up with a new reality and focus on that. "

don't think he even needs a new reality here, just focus on the actual one he seems to have and not the bullshit being promised.

also remember people can say anything but their actions speak the truth.

if you think this person is just gonna bullshit you all your life then get rid of them out of it. that's what i do anyway.