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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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..... which seems to happen a lot on this site!!
I guess this only applies to singles....Say you have been swinging for a while, and you finally meet someone you like, and want to have a relationship with ( outside of the swinging world). How tough would it be for you to live a monogamous lifestyle, now that you've got a taste of sharing and being shared?
Would you be able to lose touch with all the fiends you've made?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt be in a relationship unless it felt right. If monogamy felt right id go with it. If it didnt I wouldnt be in that relationship.
Ideally id like to meet someone who is sexually adventurous and shares my interests so hopefully it wouldnt be an issue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could make the switch quite easy I think. I'd still stay in touch with a couple of people on here I've become friends with.
But I could happily live without the endless stream of rejections  |
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Well first of all I would be upfront about my time on here. Would tell them that I've had a lot of fun but now I'm ready for a regular, monogamous relationship. I would tell them about my friends that I've made and introduce them to each other, just the same as I would introduce a new partner to my friends outside of swinging |
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I think I'd get itchy feet if I wasn't able to experience a few of the things I known like. Other women for example, and certain styles/scenarios.
I could happily be in a relationship, but to get the best out of me I think I'd need those experiences and I'd want nothing more than the person in my life to share them with me. |
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I'd be off here like a shot IF I found the right person and it felt right. Monogamy is my default setting, although I wouldn't entirely rule out being on here with a partner in the future.
I would however be very open about my time on here, and if I couldn't be open like that then he's not the right one for me |
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"..... which seems to happen a lot on this site!!
I guess this only applies to singles....Say you have been swinging for a while, and you finally meet someone you like, and want to have a relationship with ( outside of the swinging world). How tough would it be for you to live a monogamous lifestyle, now that you've got a taste of sharing and being shared?
Would you be able to lose touch with all the fiends you've made?
Just curious!"
I'd choose monogamy like a shot. Yes, there are fiends I would miss, but bottom line seeing someone every two or three weeks is not enough, I want to be with someone I love every day, nothing compares.  |
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"..... which seems to happen a lot on this site!!
I guess this only applies to singles....Say you have been swinging for a while, and you finally meet someone you like, and want to have a relationship with ( outside of the swinging world). How tough would it be for you to live a monogamous lifestyle, now that you've got a taste of sharing and being shared?
Would you be able to lose touch with all the fiends you've made?
Just curious!
I'd choose monogamy like a shot. Yes, there are fiends I would miss, but bottom line seeing someone every two or three weeks is not enough, I want to be with someone I love every day, nothing compares. "
Perfect
When my dream guy comes along I won't need to be looking for anything else
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