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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did not know that I thought that was only the case if you had originally being messageing someone
Not that anyone new can?"
It's up to you if you read them though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine isn't hidden
If yours is you must just be a lurker or fantasist
Why? "
What is the point of joining a swinger's or dating site if you hide your profile?
Defeats the object... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did not know that I thought that was only the case if you had originally being messageing someone
Not that anyone new can?
It's up to you if you read them though."
I was un aware I could still me messaged privately I just liie the forums here but meeting someone regularly so have no need too seek another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few regular forum posters that have their profile hidden 24/7!!
Now I'm not certain but I reckon it will slightly hamper your chances of meeting anybody with your profile hidden.... That's of course if there interested in meeting anyone?.
I suspect their not because they have another profile for actually meeting people, they just use this one to abuse other forum users, if you hint at this though you get a 48 forum ban... So best not to say anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you just leave it alone it goes down that list and not noticed as much - if people im chatting to go into hiding i tend to leave them alone - unless they message first - |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine isn't hidden
If yours is you must just be a lurker or fantasist
Why?
What is the point of joining a swinger's or dating site if you hide your profile?
Defeats the object..."
I have hidden mine in the past for various reasons. ..so am I a lurker or fantasist... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hide ours sometimes, you know when you're having a bit of a melt down or just not "feeling it"
I'm better off not receiving messages when I'm like this.....far to much sarcasm escapes me
MrsK x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My reason for hidding it is I dont want private messages as im only here for the forums now
You can still private message a hidden profile."
I messaged a hidden profile once and I was surprised. Well actually it was not the best timing, but I did get a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine isn't hidden
If yours is you must just be a lurker or fantasist
Why?
What is the point of joining a swinger's or dating site if you hide your profile?
Defeats the object..." and some people have differnt reasons
Real life taking priority
Being bothered by someone
Or simply taken a break from the life style so plenty point
Some just like the forums as the topics and convos are great fun |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Mine isn't hidden
If yours is you must just be a lurker or fantasist
Why?
What is the point of joining a swinger's or dating site if you hide your profile?
Defeats the object..."
It wasn't hidden when I joined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't hide ours.
What is our view? If it's hidden we won't see it.
He wasn't asking for profile advice though was he?"
No, we weren't giving any either. Simply stating our view. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hide ours sometimes, you know when you're having a bit of a melt down or just not "feeling it"
I'm better off not receiving messages when I'm like this.....far to much sarcasm escapes me
MrsK x" well yes I.was just intrested too see peoples reasons as I.feel having my profile hidden suggests not looking too.meet atm but im all up for forum chats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine isn't hidden
If yours is you must just be a lurker or fantasist
Why?
What is the point of joining a swinger's or dating site if you hide your profile?
Defeats the object..."
What is the object? People don't have to meet. Some want to read forums or watch cam or wank over pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a new message from a hidden profile! Eek
What do I do?
Too late for answers because I have already replied...
Ooooops not sure that was a wise choice! |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I hide ours sometimes, you know when you're having a bit of a melt down or just not "feeling it"
I'm better off not receiving messages when I'm like this.....far to much sarcasm escapes me
MrsK x"
^this...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently met someone, not off this site. There seems to be something special going on and I don't want to jeapordize it by seeing other people.However,always have a plan B. If it doesn't work out I can unhide my profile and carry on as before.
I guess that makes me a lurker,so what? |
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