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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bullocks!!
I prefer nice guys. Someone I can have a conversation with, the majority of bad boys on here are the ones that think it's ok to address me a slut, whore and think I'm fair game. |
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
... and you've arrived at this sweeping conclusion after being here for a week?  "
No need for that really. Don't like the thread then don't post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys"
Women love nice men.
What they don't like is insecure, suck-up, weak simps who are too cowardly to be and go for what they really want and everyone calls them "nice" because they're a doormat, and a pushover and don't exhibit any passion for anything. If they won't go get what they want then they won't go get what she wants so it sends the message that she'll be left frustrated.
Women don't like 'bad' guys, they like confident and assertive guys who harness their masculine power and direct it decisively and unwaveringly without being a cocky, overcompensating or abusive dick. Dangerous but not damaging. Adventurous but in control. Most of all the bad boy is in control of his emotions and can protect her. She doesn't really need his physical protection but he makes her feel safe in a primal way in a sexual wilderness, and he is "nice" but not in a needy cringy "I need you to validate me" way.
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
... and you've arrived at this sweeping conclusion after being here for a week?
No need for that really. Don't like the thread then don't post "
What I don't like - as a woman - is the generalisation that I (and every other woman here apparently) only like 'bad' boys. We may not know exactly what the OP means by this by it certainly has negative connotations. In reality, it's likely the OP means he's been rejected - in the short time he's been here - and doesn't like it so is lashing out verbally at the women here .... this is quite a common theme/accusation in my inbox should I dare to say no thanks or delete a (crap) message.
And *I* think there's no need for *that* really!
Funnily enough I can post when and where I like so yourself. |
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By *unisfunMan
over a year ago
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I don't think it so much a question of women wanting bad men more a case of they want someone who they are physically attracted to unfortunately for us mature guys a lot of the time that is either BBC or gym fit young guys or both lol
After all let's be honest if a guy had a middle aged housewife and a 20 year old pornstar standing in front of them I'm guessing just about every guy would go for the pornstar so why should women be any different.
Guys outnumber women by so much on here the lady's can pick and choose who they meet so why shouldn't they meet the people who turn them on the most and yes I know that makes it harder for other guys but at the end of the day this isn't a charity it's not a place to get a sympathy shag lol
If you want to meet women you have to work at it and make the effort and above all treat everyone with respect it works for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like nice guys, that I find attractive. Good looks do not cancel out a crappy personality, but a good personality cannot make me fancy someone I do not find attractive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apologies if I offended. Never ment to "
Okay, just what the hell did you just apologise for? Existing? Cut that shit out! You didn't do anything wrong.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apologies if I offended. Never ment to
Okay, just what the hell did you just apologise for? Existing? Cut that shit out! You didn't do anything wrong. "
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
... and you've arrived at this sweeping conclusion after being here for a week?
No need for that really. Don't like the thread then don't post "
Ooh you bad boy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys"
Brings to mind Rodney Trotted on his first date with I think Nervous Morine in his leather jacket driving the trotted reliant on 2 wheels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I nicked the last maltesers last night, that's a bad boy right? 
That is the baddest of the bad! "
I know right, and I don't even feel guilty. Nicking chocolate from my pregnant wife. It's as bad as it gets I reckon. |
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Women love nice men.
What they don't like is insecure, suck-up, weak simps who are too cowardly to be and go for what they really want and everyone calls them "nice" because they're a doormat, and a pushover and don't exhibit any passion for anything. If they won't go get what they want then they won't go get what she wants so it sends the message that she'll be left frustrated.
Women don't like 'bad' guys, they like confident and assertive guys who harness their masculine power and direct it decisively and unwaveringly without being a cocky, overcompensating or abusive dick. Dangerous but not damaging. Adventurous but in control. Most of all the bad boy is in control of his emotions and can protect her. She doesn't really need his physical protection but he makes her feel safe in a primal way in a sexual wilderness, and he is "nice" but not in a needy cringy "I need you to validate me" way.
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Did someone say primal.....I concur with this description, though I would not call him a bad boy. |
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"I nicked the last maltesers last night, that's a bad boy right?
That is the baddest of the bad!
I know right, and I don't even feel guilty. Nicking chocolate from my pregnant wife. It's as bad as it gets I reckon. "
Oh my god yeah,that would be a blooming good reason to start divorce proceedings in my book. Not only did you nick the last one from your wife,but from your unborn little one as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bullocks!!
I prefer nice guys. Someone I can have a conversation with, the majority of bad boys on here are the ones that think it's ok to address me a slut, whore and think I'm fair game. "
i agree with u Hun |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"i fall for all the bullshit, even if i take my time sussing it out.
tbh nice guys wouldn't be looking for an NSA fuck anyway.
Again, good point. Not for long anyway."
i like falling for the bullshit tbh, just reality brings me down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not that t'ey like bad guys, it's that they don't like guys who delude themselves that they're nice 100% of the time and deserve something for this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i fall for all the bullshit, even if i take my time sussing it out.
tbh nice guys wouldn't be looking for an NSA fuck anyway."
Not entirely true, everyone is different but I choose NSA and FWBs because I don't have room for a relationship at the minute. Doesn't mean I'm not a nice guy but I'm upfront and honest about my circumstances. |
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"Bullocks!!
I prefer nice guys. Someone I can have a conversation with, the majority of bad boys on here are the ones that think it's ok to address me a slut, whore and think I'm fair game. "
You can have a bad boy look but nothing gives anybody the right to be disrespectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
It's true OP. I'm a horrible bastard and I have to fight them off with a shitty stick! "
You have the perfect heart-shaped bum though. |
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Some of us are looking for nice guys who we can actually have a conversation with."
In a lot of cases it has everything to do with looks. Apparently looks can determine the way a person speaks, or constructs a sentence. I have met some very nice looking people but due to their lack of grammar. They were not very cunning linguist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Some Do, Some don't. (Has anyone else said this yet?)
I think she left. Or is on a break."
 . I like the line, it fits most scenarios. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
It's true OP. I'm a horrible bastard and I have to fight them off with a shitty stick! "
That's because ya have a great arse tho!  |
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
It's true OP. I'm a horrible bastard and I have to fight them off with a shitty stick!
You have the perfect heart-shaped bum though."
Yes a fine botty I have found can sweeten the most narcissistic egotistic monster flavoured pill |
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
It's true OP. I'm a horrible bastard and I have to fight them off with a shitty stick!
That's because ya have a great arse tho! "
Thank you. I admit it does open many doors. (if I clench my cheeks just right) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots of ladies like bad boys, until they get one......seen it so many times."
You are so right ... You live a learn .... I married a good one .. and played with one or two bad ones .
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like."
Can see you've been hurt a few times  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I think women in general are attracted to alpha males. Now, when I say "alpha", I'm referring to a man with a confident, strong personality and convictions and is confortable in disagreeing to the detriment of just "going along". Someone who exudes health and vitality but is courteous and respectful. Good looks obviously a plus. Just my take |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like.
Can see you've been hurt a few times "
i'm too gullible and caring, but if anyone asks i am not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like.
Can see you've been hurt a few times
i'm too gullible and caring, but if anyone asks i am not. "
Ok your secret is safe with me....and everyone reading this thread |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like.
Can see you've been hurt a few times
i'm too gullible and caring, but if anyone asks i am not.
Ok your secret is safe with me....and everyone reading this thread "
i don't meet off here so feel safe to divulge this info. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Women love nice men.
What they don't like is insecure, suck-up, weak simps who are too cowardly to be and go for what they really want and everyone calls them "nice" because they're a doormat, and a pushover and don't exhibit any passion for anything. If they won't go get what they want then they won't go get what she wants so it sends the message that she'll be left frustrated.
Women don't like 'bad' guys, they like confident and assertive guys who harness their masculine power and direct it decisively and unwaveringly without being a cocky, overcompensating or abusive dick. Dangerous but not damaging. Adventurous but in control. Most of all the bad boy is in control of his emotions and can protect her. She doesn't really need his physical protection but he makes her feel safe in a primal way in a sexual wilderness, and he is "nice" but not in a needy cringy "I need you to validate me" way.
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I literally just fell in love with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like.
Can see you've been hurt a few times
i'm too gullible and caring, but if anyone asks i am not.
Ok your secret is safe with me....and everyone reading this thread
i don't meet off here so feel safe to divulge this info. "
Nah, United are on and I can't be doing with gossiping |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"bad boys con us half the time, and when they get caught out they pretend they want to change, and we believe them coz we aren't as devious and don't realise they are bullshitting us.
after a few of them, or maybe even one is enough, you get wise to what they're really like.
Can see you've been hurt a few times
i'm too gullible and caring, but if anyone asks i am not.
Ok your secret is safe with me....and everyone reading this thread
i don't meet off here so feel safe to divulge this info.
Nah, United are on and I can't be doing with gossiping "
ok, thanks. 
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Women love nice men.
What they don't like is insecure, suck-up, weak simps who are too cowardly to be and go for what they really want and everyone calls them "nice" because they're a doormat, and a pushover and don't exhibit any passion for anything. If they won't go get what they want then they won't go get what she wants so it sends the message that she'll be left frustrated.
Women don't like 'bad' guys, they like confident and assertive guys who harness their masculine power and direct it decisively and unwaveringly without being a cocky, overcompensating or abusive dick. Dangerous but not damaging. Adventurous but in control. Most of all the bad boy is in control of his emotions and can protect her. She doesn't really need his physical protection but he makes her feel safe in a primal way in a sexual wilderness, and he is "nice" but not in a needy cringy "I need you to validate me" way.
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"Seems all the women on here like bad boys not nice guys
Women love nice men.
What they don't like is insecure, suck-up, weak simps who are too cowardly to be and go for what they really want and everyone calls them "nice" because they're a doormat, and a pushover and don't exhibit any passion for anything. If they won't go get what they want then they won't go get what she wants so it sends the message that she'll be left frustrated.
Women don't like 'bad' guys, they like confident and assertive guys who harness their masculine power and direct it decisively and unwaveringly without being a cocky, overcompensating or abusive dick. Dangerous but not damaging. Adventurous but in control. Most of all the bad boy is in control of his emotions and can protect her. She doesn't really need his physical protection but he makes her feel safe in a primal way in a sexual wilderness, and he is "nice" but not in a needy cringy "I need you to validate me" way.
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Yup, this pretty much covers it for me.
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