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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have seen this on many a ladies profile and it has got me wondering...
Some women find different things / people hot, and what will drive some women wild may put others off.
Also, who is the judge of hotness?
I have always used the rule of thumb that if you are wondering if women think you are hot, you probably aren't.
So, my questions would be...
Ladies who seek hot guys only, do you actively hunt or just hope the hotties filter themselves your way?
Guys, do you filter yourself out assuming you aren't hot?
More of a Monday musing than anything else  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I would never presume to call myself 'hot' nor have I ever thought I am and in fact if anyone ever told me I was I'd probably laugh and ask who they were referring to.
That said if someone had a requirement for 'hot' on their profile I wouldn't necessarily let myself be ruled out by it either..."hotness" is in the eye of the beholder after all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is hot to someone. I find some very different guys equally as hot as eachother. I tend not to message people that say they are looking for hot women tho  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Ive been told im handsome. Ive had messages with face pics deleted and no reply. I assume those ones dont think im handsome lol. Ive never been told to my face im a munter. That might change now after people read this lmao.
Seriously though if someone says on their profile hot guys only I'm out of there. Of course everyone wants someone they meet to be attractive to them that's human nature. Putting it on a profile just seems pointless to me. |
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To be honest if anyone was conceited enough to put that they see themselves as "HOT" then they wont be on our radar.
Its like the so called "Celebrities" who are on reality TV, they obviously have special mirrors in their homes as if they are good looking then I will need to book another appointment at my opticians.
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"Everyone is hot to someone."
When she stated that she was only interested in slim, fit guys, but posted a veri from a guy who was quite clearly on the heavier side, I looked in the mirror and saw Shrek  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Everyone is hot to someone.
When she stated that she was only interested in slim, fit guys, but posted a veri from a guy who was quite clearly on the heavier side, I looked in the mirror and saw Shrek "
We are all shrek to someone bud. Just take notice of the ones who think you are adonis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is hot to someone.
When she stated that she was only interested in slim, fit guys, but posted a veri from a guy who was quite clearly on the heavier side, I looked in the mirror and saw Shrek "
I've read profiles where the person has stipulated they won't meet smokers, or men under a certain height for example yet their verifications are from smokers and men who are under the height they say they want.
I take everything on here with a pinch of salt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Thankfully we all have our own tastes and someone's hotty could be someone else's notty.Compatabilty is the key to it as you both find each other hot and you get on then surely that's when you know it's right x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Thankfully we all have our own tastes and someone's hotty could be someone else's notty.Compatabilty is the key to it as you both find each other hot and you get on then surely that's when you know it's right x "
My thoughts exactly |
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One person's hot is another person's ugly. Plus, a hot person can have an ugly personality which, for me, makes them ugly overall.
So many different things make people attractive. Just make sure you have the balance right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone is hot to someone. I find some very different guys equally as hot as eachother. I tend not to message people that say they are looking for hot women tho
Well you are a hottie  "
As are you!  |
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"Everyone is hot to someone. I find some very different guys equally as hot as eachother. I tend not to message people that say they are looking for hot women tho
Well you are a hottie
As are you! "
Thank you miss Ariel  I see you haven't been to spec savers yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My favourite that I've seen recently was someone saying that they only meet people who are a 9/10  "
Seriously?!? How conceited is that...
Although i guess it's their interpretation of what a 9 or 10 is x
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I like to hunt.
I like hot men
I like tepid men
I like cold men
I like men who are cold that want to be made hot.
I like men who have hot cake
I like men who have cold wine
But I'm not looking I'm just buying. |
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"Everyone is hot to someone.
When she stated that she was only interested in slim, fit guys, but posted a veri from a guy who was quite clearly on the heavier side, I looked in the mirror and saw Shrek
We are all shrek to someone bud. Just take notice of the ones who think you are adonis."
Cheers fella |
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"I think ladies that put that are losing out, I would presume some men would pass them by, which is a shame for both."
I pass them by. Some are them are 'punching' even by suggesting it in the first place. |
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If someone I don't know describes themselves as 'hot' (or similar) e.g. in a message, it puts me right off. Even if I'd have thought they were hot in the first place had they not said anything - if that makes sense? The arrogance kills it for me. You're welcome to *think* of yourself in glowing terms of course but it's very presumptuous to assume everyone else will agree.
And I've never thought I'm hot, maybe just about lukewarm on a really good day but I probably wouldn't say so, it's not my call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't really actively hunt, I just tend to hope the hotties filter themselves my way?
And, even if I spotted a hotty, which I do every now and then, I wouldn't message them anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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There are a lot of reassuring comments here. I work on the basis of compatibility, so I would naturally seek out those with a similar outlook to me. I assume that those who message me have a similar outlook on life or I amuse/puzzle them in some way.
I tend to look at (in order of priority)
1. Forum Posts.
2. Username (as it can reveal a lot in itself)
3. Profile Text.
Any mention of hotties only will tend to put me off and whilst I won't block, I won't pursue either. |
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"There are a lot of reassuring comments here. I work on the basis of compatibility, so I would naturally seek out those with a similar outlook to me. I assume that those who message me have a similar outlook on life or I amuse/puzzle them in some way.
I tend to look at (in order of priority)
1. Forum Posts.
2. Username (as it can reveal a lot in itself)
3. Profile Text.
Any mention of hotties only will tend to put me off and whilst I won't block, I won't pursue either."
Your list of priorities is interesting, so different to mine:
1. Photos
2. Profile text
3. Likes and age compatibility
4. Verifications and what they say
5. Location/how far away
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"I've just been messaged by the lady of a couple, and she said I didn't 'float her boat', so I guess I'm not hot "
George Clooney is hot according to many people but does not float my boat at all.
Everyone has different tastes!
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I like the look of someone and I like their profile I message with pics, if I'm not their type so be it. I've always maintained that Fab isn't the place for people that can't handle rejection. You'll never know the answer unless you ask the question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen this on many a ladies profile and it has got me wondering...
Some women find different things / people hot, and what will drive some women wild may put others off.
Also, who is the judge of hotness?
I have always used the rule of thumb that if you are wondering if women think you are hot, you probably aren't.
So, my questions would be...
Ladies who seek hot guys only, do you actively hunt or just hope the hotties filter themselves your way?
Guys, do you filter yourself out assuming you aren't hot?
More of a Monday musing than anything else "
Why I consider as a hot guy may be totally different to what some other woman may find hot.
I guess someone has already said this but it's definitely my feeling on the matter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just been messaged by the lady of a couple, and she said I didn't 'float her boat', so I guess I'm not hot
George Clooney is hot according to many people but does not float my boat at all.
Everyone has different tastes!
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I think George Clooney is minging |
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"I think ladies that put that are losing out, I would presume some men would pass them by, which is a shame for both."
Guess it depends how confident the guy is. Looks aren't always an indication on hotness. Just my opinion mind you |
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"I've just been messaged by the lady of a couple, and she said I didn't 'float her boat', so I guess I'm not hot
George Clooney is hot according to many people but does not float my boat at all.
Everyone has different tastes!
I think George Clooney is minging "
I genuinely don't see the big deal with him. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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If someone (male, female, couple or other) feels visual hotness is such a key part of attraction for them that they write it on their profile as a contact prerequisite then I don't contact them because 1) I have no clear indication of what their own personal definition of hot may be and 2) if their definition is the media/societal average of hot then I am not that.
I am hot though - just only to people that find my own peculiar brand of hotness hot. I am more than OK with that. |
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