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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've noticed it a lot recently, the status that says 'need it now', 'so horny' etc yet no effort is made?
Is it post holiday blues?
I know it's not just me as other fab friends have mentioned the same thing, but surely if you need it right now and someone who has peaked your interest and you theirs is messaging then you don't just ignore the opportunity?
Is it me, I'm losing the will to make an effort here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more. "
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more. "
So then you wouldn't put 'Need sex right now' on your profile would you?
It's those gagging for it but won't put the effort in that I'm curious about.
Maybe the tables have turned and all the men can pick & choose from us thousands of women constantly messaging them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment! "
I agree here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment! "
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
So then you wouldn't put 'Need sex right now' on your profile would you?
It's those gagging for it but won't put the effort in that I'm curious about.
Maybe the tables have turned and all the men can pick & choose from us thousands of women constantly messaging them "
No true i wouldnt! Maybe they are shocked that their status actually worked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave. "
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that! |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Alas a large majority expect it to be handed to them on a plate. When they find out it is not rather than getting on with it being a bit more proactive they choose to created threads complaint about it. It's a shame as most of them are straight so, being fab, I'd be in with a chance *chuckles* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that! "
You are basically me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not just you OP. I've completely lost the will to fab. Even the forums are struggling to entertain me at the moment. I'm going to be 40 soon... not sure if it's a mid life crisis bit feel g dissatisfied in general  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that!
You are basically me! "
Haha! That should be the next Tea Party. Pyjamas and snacks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely not just you OP. I've completely lost the will to fab. Even the forums are struggling to entertain me at the moment. I'm going to be 40 soon... not sure if it's a mid life crisis bit feel g dissatisfied in general "
Sometimes it's a relief not to bother and gather ya shit together now and again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that!
You are basically me!
Haha! That should be the next Tea Party. Pyjamas and snacks! "
As long as Hagen Daz is acceptable too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that!
You are basically me!
Haha! That should be the next Tea Party. Pyjamas and snacks!
As long as Hagen Daz is acceptable too!"
Good call!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im feeling a bit like that now tbh. I like the forums and social side but really cant summon the energy to make the effort for any more.
Me neither. Shaving my legs seems a lot of hassle at the moment!
Right!!! I only shave them for sex and meh... there is a lot of leg to shave.
Now it's getting colder too, I just want to be hairy and eat Hula Hoops horizontally! No man should ever see that!
You are basically me!
Haha! That should be the next Tea Party. Pyjamas and snacks! "
That would actually be really fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not just you OP. I've completely lost the will to fab. Even the forums are struggling to entertain me at the moment. I'm going to be 40 soon... not sure if it's a mid life crisis bit feel g dissatisfied in general
Sometimes it's a relief not to bother and gather ya shit together now and again "
Very true . I think I'll go back into hiding tomorrow. Only made my profile visible about 2 hours ago! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm note is as seasonal lol!
Though I'd be happy to find a guy who doesn't mind hairy legs & the like.
Never have I asked a guy to shave his legs for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day "
Unfortunately, they are probably replying to someone else who got their attention. |
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"I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day
Unfortunately, they are probably replying to someone else who got their attention. "
Sounds like always the bridesmaid never the bride seems to be what happens to me also though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day
Unfortunately, they are probably replying to someone else who got their attention.
Sounds like always the bridesmaid never the bride seems to be what happens to me also though "
I've never even been a bridesmaid, let alone the bride! .... Been a best man though... or is that best woman? |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head. |
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"I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day
Unfortunately, they are probably replying to someone else who got their attention.
Sounds like always the bridesmaid never the bride seems to be what happens to me also though
I've never even been a bridesmaid, let alone the bride! .... Been a best man though... or is that best woman? "
I haven't been a bridesmaid or a bride looks like we have something in common :p Best woman with the best smile I've got to be a best man next year haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head. "
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply "
i've had shit to deal with that has made me feel unsexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see it all the time, women put on that they are wanting sex now but when ya messages then you get ignored, now I'm mainly on here for the foroum but if a girl wants me then in there straight away, I'm the kind of man who can go 5 or 6 times a day
Unfortunately, they are probably replying to someone else who got their attention.
Sounds like always the bridesmaid never the bride seems to be what happens to me also though
I've never even been a bridesmaid, let alone the bride! .... Been a best man though... or is that best woman? "
Aren't you just simply the best |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply "
I hate to point out the inconsistencies here...
But if no one will reply let alone meet... just how do you know they can't keep up with you?
Wtf did they teach at school these days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply
i've had shit to deal with that has made me feel unsexy."
Don't feel unsexy!
If I see you in the forums, I always have a nosey to see what colour your hair is or if you have any new pics.
You're a down to earth realist, my kindred spirit AND you're sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply
i've had shit to deal with that has made me feel unsexy.
Don't feel unsexy!
If I see you in the forums, I always have a nosey to see what colour your hair is or if you have any new pics.
You're a down to earth realist, my kindred spirit AND you're sexy "
i hadnt realised i felt unsexy until texting my friend and ooo i felt sexy throughout the chat - its just life takes over sometimes and fab drops down the list - never forlong though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply
i've had shit to deal with that has made me feel unsexy.
Don't feel unsexy!
If I see you in the forums, I always have a nosey to see what colour your hair is or if you have any new pics.
You're a down to earth realist, my kindred spirit AND you're sexy
i hadnt realised i felt unsexy until texting my friend and ooo i felt sexy throughout the chat - its just life takes over sometimes and fab drops down the list - never forlong though"
Some nice pics there sweet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just lazy I think and lack a bit of confidence, so meeting someone new is a lot of effort for me and I have to get to know them before I want sex with them which also takes time. It's easier to just keep meeting people I already know and the sex is generally better than a first meet anyway.
I still occasionally might post that I want sex but can I be bothered with meeting someone new, probably not. |
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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago
•+• Silicon valley. •+• |
"been well over a year for me that i've lost interest in meeting guys off here.
i'd love a proper good fucking but tbh my cynicism means i won't bother. coz on the rare occassions i do bother everything turns to shit so might as well not bother.
yeah that makes sense in my head.
Ya say that you want a good fucking but won't give anyone the chance. Iv never found anyone who can keep up with me yet but no one will even reply
i've had shit to deal with that has made me feel unsexy.
Don't feel unsexy!
If I see you in the forums, I always have a nosey to see what colour your hair is or if you have any new pics.
You're a down to earth realist, my kindred spirit AND you're sexy "
lol, thanks. my hair is blonde and blue at the minute. not taken any pics with kids being off school for so long.
i'll get my mojo back, just got stuff to deal with first.  |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"I've noticed it a lot recently, the status that says 'need it now', 'so horny' etc yet no effort is made?
Is it post holiday blues?
I know it's not just me as other fab friends have mentioned the same thing, but surely if you need it right now and someone who has peaked your interest and you theirs is messaging then you don't just ignore the opportunity?
Is it me, I'm losing the will to make an effort here! "
That's the time wasters just wanting to wank over people showing interest
90% on here are fake profiles imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just lazy I think and lack a bit of confidence, so meeting someone new is a lot of effort for me and I have to get to know them before I want sex with them which also takes time. It's easier to just keep meeting people I already know and the sex is generally better than a first meet anyway.
I still occasionally might post that I want sex but can I be bothered with meeting someone new, probably not. "
You have a very cute and sexy smile
Jus' saying ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really try to be available & I often search as I know what I'm looking fir.
Yes I do gave filters on but it saves time....
Still I can't find a local fuck buddy!
Apart from being curvy (or wobbly) I just can't see why I'm not flooded with all these gagging men wanting a faf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really try to be available & I often search as I know what I'm looking fir.
Yes I do gave filters on but it saves time....
Still I can't find a local fuck buddy!
Apart from being curvy (or wobbly) I just can't see why I'm not flooded with all these gagging men wanting a faf "
well op, if i was older and closer i would lol  |
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"I really try to be available & I often search as I know what I'm looking fir.
Yes I do gave filters on but it saves time....
Still I can't find a local fuck buddy!
Apart from being curvy (or wobbly) I just can't see why I'm not flooded with all these gagging men wanting a faf "
Don't give up OP I'm hoping you find exactly what you want and there is nothing wrong with curves or wobbles you are perfect the way you are |
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"Awwww you guys!
I never do look at me threads but that's super nice to read whilst I sit here scoffing chocolate digestives "
You're welcome just keep smiling and I'm jealous I'm going to have to go get some digestives now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Awwww you guys!
I never do look at me threads but that's super nice to read whilst I sit here scoffing chocolate digestives "
i would sit with you scoffing hob nobs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had the lowest of motivations to meet for some time, yet cannot stand getting hairy legs, which is like campaigning for election then not taking your seat, or something. (Give me a few hours and I'll think of a better simile.) Never say never but I'm a bawhair off it, if I actually had any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I lost the will to message. If that's like a similar thing. I find it hard to find the enthusiasm to PM anyine I'm
Not already talking to. That feels like I'm falling out with how fab works. Being ignored is a pet hate of mine. |
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