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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone

Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford

This'll go well........

Bitter is never a pleasant taste...

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover. "

I'd assume from your avatar that you're obviously black... is your cock too small to carry the BBC tag?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"This'll go well........

Bitter is never a pleasant taste..."

I'm not bitter, I love seeing women enjoying black cock! It's a genuine post . I've seen lots of profile status looking for black guy's. But nice try for your attempt at thinking for me

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?"

I'm not upset... just making my own tongue in cheek post

Cal

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

I'd assume from your avatar that you're obviously black... is your cock too small to carry the BBC tag?

Cal "

Your wrong to. I'm white so on that basis I can't carry the bbc tag.

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?"

Thank you .

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester

I read that wrong te first time as I input my own punctuation, then read it again and understood.

But going by the numerous threads that get started on here in relation to ethnicity and the comments they get, they're more than aware that there's a bbc loving community.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?"

I didn't read anything bitter about the opening post either.

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?

I didn't read anything bitter about the opening post either.

"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is confusing

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"This thread is confusing "

In what way?

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

I'd assume from your avatar that you're obviously black... is your cock too small to carry the BBC tag?

Cal

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Your wrong to. I'm white so on that basis I can't carry the bbc tag. "

I know... I don't usually need to explain jokes... but look at the picture that is next to your name on the forum.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover. "

It's nice to have diversity.

Apart from that I'm not sure what your posts about... Sorry

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester

He's basically saying not all profiles on here are looking for white people, as there are profiles who want black cock.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"He's basically saying not all profiles on here are looking for white people, as there are profiles who want black cock. "

I don't get the white privilege bit

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"

I'd assume from your avatar that you're obviously black... is your cock too small to carry the BBC tag?

Cal

------

Your wrong to. I'm white so on that basis I can't carry the bbc tag.

I know... I don't usually need to explain jokes... but look at the picture that is next to your name on the forum."

Sorry, I get it now. My mistake it's actually quite funny. Nice to have the light hearted comment

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand. "

Why's that then??

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester


"He's basically saying not all profiles on here are looking for white people, as there are profiles who want black cock.

I don't get the white privilege bit "

I'll hazard a guess he's thinking a lot of people want white people so that's white privilege. I just kind of cut that bit out as didn't find it necessary.

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

It's nice to have diversity.

Apart from that I'm not sure what your posts about... Sorry "

I love seeing white women enjoying big cocks! I've seen lots of profile status looking for black guy's. That turned me on and thought I'd write something to express that. The 1st fella to comment tried to put a negative spin on the post, probably because a white guy said something about a black guy. The people that see this anything other than a big up to ladies who enjoy black guy's, is guilty of making shit up that ain't happened.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"

I'll hazard a guess he's thinking a lot of people want white people so that's white privilege. I just kind of cut that bit out as didn't find it necessary. "

No.. (I think) what he is saying is that the quantity of profiles searching for "BBC" is turning white privilege on its head.

I don't agree, but I see get the point.

Cal

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

It's nice to have diversity.

Apart from that I'm not sure what your posts about... Sorry

I love seeing white women enjoying big cocks! I've seen lots of profile status looking for black guy's. That turned me on and thought I'd write something to express that. The 1st fella to comment tried to put a negative spin on the post, probably because a white guy said something about a black guy. The people that see this anything other than a big up to ladies who enjoy black guy's, is guilty of making shit up that ain't happened. "

Surely a woman getting pleased by whom ever is a site to behold. Black,white, Asian, other, male, female, tvs,trans or any other.

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester


"

I'll hazard a guess he's thinking a lot of people want white people so that's white privilege. I just kind of cut that bit out as didn't find it necessary.

No.. (I think) what he is saying is that the quantity of profiles searching for "BBC" is turning white privilege on its head.

I don't agree, but I see get the point.

Cal "

Oh yeah, that would make more sense, I suppose, even if the term isn't correctly understood.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry ..

Unsure of the terminology..

Does BBC mean..

Biased

Bigoted.

You can fill the last word in for yourself.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

BBC.. British broad casting

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"Sorry ..

Unsure of the terminology..

Does BBC mean..

Biased

Bigoted.

You can fill the last word in for yourself.

"

Go to bed mate , it must be hard work to act a complete mug all day. You should get some rest ready to be a mug all day again tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry ..

Unsure of the terminology..

Does BBC mean..

Biased

Bigoted.

You can fill the last word in for yourself.

Go to bed mate , it must be hard work to act a complete mug all day. You should get some rest ready to be a mug all day again tomorrow "

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone

The mistake I made was thinking this was a site for grownups! I forgot about all the stupid clowns who just love make dramas unnecessarily. A post that had absolutely no bad intent has managed to get turned in a childish spat. Il say it again for the people that like to stir trouble and cause people to aruge for no reason..

I like women enjoying black guys.

It's nice to see such a craving for it. Nothing but love for girls who love big black cocks. And nothing but respect for the guys who fuck the girls who want it. In 2017 it seems a privilege to either have a BBC of get fucked by one.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"

I'd assume from your avatar that you're obviously black... is your cock too small to carry the BBC tag?

Cal

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Your wrong to. I'm white so on that basis I can't carry the bbc tag.

I know... I don't usually need to explain jokes... but look at the picture that is next to your name on the forum."

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"The mistake I made was thinking this was a site for grownups! I forgot about all the stupid clowns who just love make dramas unnecessarily. A post that had absolutely no bad intent has managed to get turned in a childish spat. Il say it again for the people that like to stir trouble and cause people to aruge for no reason..

I like women enjoying black guys.

It's nice to see such a craving for it. Nothing but love for girls who love big black cocks. And nothing but respect for the guys who fuck the girls who want it. In 2017 it seems a privilege to either have a BBC of get fucked by one. "

Sorry if my confusion made you feel this way op.

Just to get it straight in my head you like women who enjoy big black cocks.

Or you think all women want this.

?

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"The mistake I made was thinking this was a site for grownups! I forgot about all the stupid clowns who just love make dramas unnecessarily. A post that had absolutely no bad intent has managed to get turned in a childish spat. Il say it again for the people that like to stir trouble and cause people to aruge for no reason..

I like women enjoying black guys.

It's nice to see such a craving for it. Nothing but love for girls who love big black cocks. And nothing but respect for the guys who fuck the girls who want it. In 2017 it seems a privilege to either have a BBC of get fucked by one.

Sorry if my confusion made you feel this way op.

Just to get it straight in my head you like women who enjoy big black cocks.

Or you think all women want this.

?"

I like women who enjoy big black cocks. It really turns me on. I also think there is a large number of ladies who given a chance would love to experience the pleasure of a hung black guy. My FB is definitely one of them ladies and I encourage her to do so

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"The mistake I made was thinking this was a site for grownups! I forgot about all the stupid clowns who just love make dramas unnecessarily. A post that had absolutely no bad intent has managed to get turned in a childish spat. Il say it again for the people that like to stir trouble and cause people to aruge for no reason..

I like women enjoying black guys.

It's nice to see such a craving for it. Nothing but love for girls who love big black cocks. And nothing but respect for the guys who fuck the girls who want it. In 2017 it seems a privilege to either have a BBC of get fucked by one.

Sorry if my confusion made you feel this way op.

Just to get it straight in my head you like women who enjoy big black cocks.

Or you think all women want this.

?

I like women who enjoy big black cocks. It really turns me on. I also think there is a large number of ladies who given a chance would love to experience the pleasure of a hung black guy. My FB is definitely one of them ladies and I encourage her to do so"

Personally colour has never come in to the equation.. If I find someone attractive with a good personality it works.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??"

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out? "

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation. "

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out? "

man black kids suck at crime.

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311"

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon "

I blame brexit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311"

I don't think this is very logical.

More men are incarcerated than women, therefore are women more privileged?

I think this argument could be krypton its to the blm/feminist supporting guardian reader

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By *uteness69Woman  over a year ago

Walthamstow

The term BBC is lame.

It's so unnecessary in 2017.

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"The term BBC is lame.

It's so unnecessary in 2017.

"

I think that on this site, the BBC label is still completely relevant. and rather than being a source of offence it is worn as a Badge of Honour by those who benefit.

It is completely unrealistic to think that you can remove all references to skin colour from modern society, the colour of someone's skin is as much a part of their identity as any other factor... I don't hear anyone calling for a ban on labelling fair haired ladies as Blondes.

Cal

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

I don't think this is very logical.

More men are incarcerated than women, therefore are women more privileged?

I think this argument could be krypton its to the blm/feminist supporting guardian reader "

What isn't logical?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" . I've seen lots of profile status looking for black guy's. But nice try for your attempt at thinking for me"

When you say "lots," it's rather anecdotal, which is bad science. Can we see your data?

While you have clarified your intnet, your original post certainly gave the impression there was something mor going on. Citing "white privilege" made it sound like yet another "It's PC gone mad!" rant. And there's already LOTS of those threads.

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By *uteness69Woman  over a year ago

Walthamstow


"The term BBC is lame.

It's so unnecessary in 2017.

I think that on this site, the BBC label is still completely relevant. and rather than being a source of offence it is worn as a Badge of Honour by those who benefit.

It is completely unrealistic to think that you can remove all references to skin colour from modern society, the colour of someone's skin is as much a part of their identity as any other factor... I don't hear anyone calling for a ban on labelling fair haired ladies as Blondes.

Cal"

Blondes are usually white, will we call them fhwl?

BBC is naff.

Am allowed to think differently to you.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?

I didn't read anything bitter about the opening post either.

"

I didn't see anything bitter in the reply....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?

I didn't read anything bitter about the opening post either.

I didn't see anything bitter in the reply...."

well given the reply was calling the op bitter why would you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

I don't think this is very logical.

More men are incarcerated than women, therefore are women more privileged?

I think this argument could be krypton its to the blm/feminist supporting guardian reader

What isn't logical?"

so you agree female privilege when it comes to our justice system needs to be tackled?

perhaps a retrospective review of sentencing increasing the sentence for all current female offenders by 66% perhaps?

or better yet why don't you tell us why women go to prison according to our former justice secretery.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

I don't think this is very logical.

More men are incarcerated than women, therefore are women more privileged?

I think this argument could be krypton its to the blm/feminist supporting guardian reader

What isn't logical?

so you agree female privilege when it comes to our justice system needs to be tackled?

perhaps a retrospective review of sentencing increasing the sentence for all current female offenders by 66% perhaps?

or better yet why don't you tell us why women go to prison according to our former justice secretery."

I thought this thread was about white privilege, if you want to make a thread about male privilege I will happily comment on it, but I think its best to tackle them one at a time as we are limited to 175 posts.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The whole point is you can't use the original reasoning in one direction (white priviledge) if you fail to use the equivalent reasoning for what would have to be called female privilege.

QED

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"The whole point is you can't use the original reasoning in one direction (white priviledge) if you fail to use the equivalent reasoning for what would have to be called female privilege.

QED "

Ok, so how does female privilege come into play with domestic violence, equal pay, sexual harassment etc?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before "

Yeah, pay gap is a myth. I. Can't. Even.

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By *achealTV/TS  over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover. "
they are not all that big tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before "

Oh Lordy

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before "

Misdirection? You are the one who has changed the subject from white privilege to male privilege. Like the OP, you don't seem to understand the topic at hand.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was trying not to post in this thread but I couldn't help myself......Please define 'a myth'?

I think the recent press coverage highlights just how real it is, using the media as an example we can all relate to.

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By *hemonkeyheadMan  over a year ago

Reading

nobody ever asks for a little black cock... just saying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before "

Jesus Lord knows I am no feminist supporter but even I've started to renege on my initial belief that the pay gap is nothing more than a myth. They claim that the reason for the disparity is due to "different choices" or women's inability to "negotiate better salary". But when you really sit and think neither of those reasonings really stand up to scrutiny nor do they do much to placate the argument that women face challenges due to entrenched ideas of their inferiority.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bookmarking. This thread has gone off on such a tangent it is becoming comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

Jesus Lord knows I am no feminist supporter but even I've started to renege on my initial belief that the pay gap is nothing more than a myth. They claim that the reason for the disparity is due to "different choices" or women's inability to "negotiate better salary". But when you really sit and think neither of those reasonings really stand up to scrutiny nor do they do much to placate the argument that women face challenges due to entrenched ideas of their inferiority."

I'm happy to hear a valid opinion from someone who at least knows such basic mathematics as the term AVERAGE.

My view is that there is a tiny proportion of residual sexism but the majority of the "gap" in AVERAGE wages between ALL men and women is chiefly explained by the type and intensity of work that people freely choose.

Why did you change your mind? I'm happy to change mine if given a convincing argument.

I'm laughing very hard at whoever said "but the media told me so" above.

I await the but but but CEOs argument and the but but but society says I should only do this job argument (both are lame ducks) and I'll probably lose my shit if someone says that more entrepreneurs are men (idiocy at its best...)

I'll await some deep insight on why women under 30 are now paid more than men in London and why women now achieve higher education levels but yet the world is patently unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

Jesus Lord knows I am no feminist supporter but even I've started to renege on my initial belief that the pay gap is nothing more than a myth. They claim that the reason for the disparity is due to "different choices" or women's inability to "negotiate better salary". But when you really sit and think neither of those reasonings really stand up to scrutiny nor do they do much to placate the argument that women face challenges due to entrenched ideas of their inferiority.

I'm happy to hear a valid opinion from someone who at least knows such basic mathematics as the term AVERAGE.

My view is that there is a tiny proportion of residual sexism but the majority of the "gap" in AVERAGE wages between ALL men and women is chiefly explained by the type and intensity of work that people freely choose.

Why did you change your mind? I'm happy to change mine if given a convincing argument.

I'm laughing very hard at whoever said "but the media told me so" above.

I await the but but but CEOs argument and the but but but society says I should only do this job argument (both are lame ducks) and I'll probably lose my shit if someone says that more entrepreneurs are men (idiocy at its best...)

I'll await some deep insight on why women under 30 are now paid more than men in London and why women now achieve higher education levels but yet the world is patently unfair. "

In general, women don't tend to take or get offered the higher paying roles - This is what the pay gap is about. In that case, you have to ask yourself why. The simple answer is because these roles offer little or no flexibility. We face a choice, family or career.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OK let's assume your point is 100% correct

Would it account for the difference? Why is the focus on the top jobs anyway?

Most men don't get them either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" We face a choice, family or career."

There's is also a degree of sexism in that... As men have the same choice

Where participants have a free choice it's lazy to try to claim oppression

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

Misdirection? You are the one who has changed the subject from white privilege to male privilege. Like the OP, you don't seem to understand the topic at hand. "

The intent was to show the failure of your reasoning... Not to change the subject

Is priviledge just some makeyup notion that you can just twist anyway you want to suit your argument?

I'll invite you to answer why:

Black people in jail white people in jail = white priviledge

Men in jail women in jail (NOT) = female priviledge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The greater than symbol is missing from the above (fab doesn't display it) but you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The female privilege in the justice system is pretty much the same as the white males privilege from what I can see.

Judges and jurors go easier on both the above for like for like crimes!.

Ie the same crime

Woman gets 1 month

White gets 6 months

Black guy gets 12 months

This primarily I believe is because how society sees these stereotypes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow!! I've never seen a thread go so off tangent from the original post as this one

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

Misdirection? You are the one who has changed the subject from white privilege to male privilege. Like the OP, you don't seem to understand the topic at hand.

The intent was to show the failure of your reasoning... Not to change the subject

Is priviledge just some makeyup notion that you can just twist anyway you want to suit your argument?

I'll invite you to answer why:

Black people in jail white people in jail = white priviledge

Men in jail women in jail (NOT) = female priviledge

"

Because privilege is bigger than a single issue. That's why it's pretty daft that the OP thinks some women asking for BBC cancels out everything else.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Wow!! I've never seen a thread go so off tangent from the original post as this one "

How so? The OP is about privilege and we are still talking about privilege.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Misdirection your honour... Snooze

Pay gap is a myth but I'm not even going thee with you... I've seen your capacity for nonsense before

Misdirection? You are the one who has changed the subject from white privilege to male privilege. Like the OP, you don't seem to understand the topic at hand.

The intent was to show the failure of your reasoning... Not to change the subject

Is priviledge just some makeyup notion that you can just twist anyway you want to suit your argument?

I'll invite you to answer why:

Black people in jail white people in jail = white priviledge

Men in jail women in jail (NOT) = female priviledge

Because privilege is bigger than a single issue. That's why it's pretty daft that the OP thinks some women asking for BBC cancels out everything else. "

I don't think the OP meant this at all personally. The use of the term white privilege was probably not the best term to use though.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"It's pretty daft that the OP thinks some women asking for BBC cancels out everything else. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

a term is needed though...

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon "

Was thinking the same ting. How the hell did this thread turn into stats about crimes and the youths that commit then. Seriously take a chill pill ffs. I can see what the OP was saying even if it could've been worded a likkle better. But the negative spin some have tried out on it is pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon

Was thinking the same ting. How the hell did this thread turn into stats about crimes and the youths that commit then. Seriously take a chill pill ffs. I can see what the OP was saying even if it could've been worded a likkle better. But the negative spin some have tried out on it is pathetic "

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By *eady and Willing 9Man  over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Close down this thread already!!!

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon

Was thinking the same ting. How the hell did this thread turn into stats about crimes and the youths that commit then. Seriously take a chill pill ffs. I can see what the OP was saying even if it could've been worded a likkle better. But the negative spin some have tried out on it is pathetic "

Language is important. If the OP doesn't understand terms, then he shouldn't use them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Language is important. If the OP doesn't understand terms, then he shouldn't use them."

That's a bit rich from you.

It is VERY important.

You're going to need a scoring system. When does one advantage outweigh the other? How do you decide? Are some factors weighted more than others? What do you do with the results? Who should I care about? Who should I hate?

I'm deliberately pointing out the silliness of trying to show by bastardising "statistics" that huge groups of people are advantaged or disadvantaged on the basis of skin colour or sex (especially when the same logic can be twisted to make an opposite argument using a different parameter).

The reality is that everything in life comes down to individual differences like personality, intelligence, character and drive give or take some luck and making good decisions.

All this "priviledge" rhetoric does is pit people again each other to the detriment of all.

So please burn your copy of the guardian and stick all this priviledge shite back up your arse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I will point out that my argument is flawed when you expand out to different countries etc.

Socioeconomic background is the only thing worth thinking about when you talk about priviledge.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will point out that my argument is flawed when you expand out to different countries etc.

Socioeconomic background is the only thing worth thinking about when you talk about priviledge. "

It grates on me that you can't spell privilege

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess it's a new concept to me.

I've always dealt in common sense

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By *esparate danMan  over a year ago

glasgow


"Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover. "

Who knows what OP was thinking but seems to me its white privilege which makes people call out stereotypes of others to satisfy their whims

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone

Just reading some of your boring unnecessary wet blanket comments. Flipping hell some of you would send a glass eye to sleep ! On the up side... at least if you are typing on here you ain't getting on someone's nerves face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can we have a popcorn emoji in fab for when it kicks off

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone

Feel free to have a go at me on behalf of all those who have a glass eye.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"I will point out that my argument is flawed when you expand out to different countries etc.

Socioeconomic background is the only thing worth thinking about when you talk about priviledge.

It grates on me that you can't spell privilege "

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"I will point out that my argument is flawed when you expand out to different countries etc.

Socioeconomic background is the only thing worth thinking about when you talk about priviledge.

It grates on me that you can't spell privilege

"

Just goes to show how easy it is for some people to get annoyed with others! A word with incorrect spelling and it grates on her! Imagine you accidentally stepped on her toe, probably gonna try and take your head off. Just about sums it up really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

More so it shows how piss weak their arguments are.

I'm 100% convinced that all this privilege stuff is the height of stupidy so I'm challenging anyone to debate it

I'll bring it back to my main 3 points

1. It only serves to incite anger and divide people - where is the good in that?

2. Even if it were real - what the hell do you propose to do about it?

3. It's far too BASIC to try to aportion ALL OF HUMANITY by skin colour or gender + IS THAT NOT SELF DEFEATING?? (aimed at people who say they want equality... But are actually making the world worse)

If someone comes back with an unintelligent argument of "you would say that because you are white and male" I'll ignore it on the grounds of "never argue with a fool".

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"Can we have a popcorn emoji in fab for when it kicks off "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wow guys in impressed you both managed to find something to be upset by in a fairly light hearted tongue in cheek post.

did you even read the whole thing before trying to shoot him down?

I didn't read anything bitter about the opening post either.

"

I just read it as a conversation starter without bias any way?...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"More so it shows how piss weak their arguments are.

I'm 100% convinced that all this privilege stuff is the height of stupidy so I'm challenging anyone to debate it

I'll bring it back to my main 3 points

1. It only serves to incite anger and divide people - where is the good in that?

2. Even if it were real - what the hell do you propose to do about it?

3. It's far too BASIC to try to aportion ALL OF HUMANITY by skin colour or gender + IS THAT NOT SELF DEFEATING?? (aimed at people who say they want equality... But are actually making the world worse)

If someone comes back with an unintelligent argument of "you would say that because you are white and male" I'll ignore it on the grounds of "never argue with a fool". "

Your argument is that there is no problem, so stop complaining?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A bit more nuanced, obviously there are degrees and pockets of discrimination in all sorts of directions.

My argument is that firstly that it isn't universal across general and immutable categories like race or gender and secondly that the recent media push to highlight these things does more harm than good.

Everyone will face some sort of discrimination in life and its best to work around it than to obsess over it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway."

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will point out that my argument is flawed when you expand out to different countries etc.

Socioeconomic background is the only thing worth thinking about when you talk about priviledge.

It grates on me that you can't spell privilege

Just goes to show how easy it is for some people to get annoyed with others! A word with incorrect spelling and it grates on her! Imagine you accidentally stepped on her toe, probably gonna try and take your head off. Just about sums it up really "

You make some sweeping generalisations and assumptions there. Extrapolating from one thing I've said that tongue in cheek grates on me, to deciding what you think my reaction in another situation would be...is daft. Ooooh you naughtyboy! What was the point that you really wanted to make? Did you have one?

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that "

So you would prefer to go back to a time before people spoke about privilege and its effects?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that

So you would prefer to go back to a time before people spoke about privilege and its effects? "

Ignorance is bliss, dontcha know?!

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that

So you would prefer to go back to a time before people spoke about privilege and its effects?

Ignorance is bliss, dontcha know?! "

Damn that guy must be blissful!

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By *entaur_UKMan  over a year ago

Cannock


"Well this is a prime example of someone talking about a subject they don't understand.

Why's that then??

Well let's take a current affairs story from this week. BAME youths are twice as likely to be incarcerated as white youths. How does the phenomena of some people wanting BBC on fab cancel that out?

The silliest comment so far. Without stats and information about the crimes committed it's a pointless convosation.

Silliest comment? Do you know much about privilege?

Bias against ethnic minorities 'needs to be tackled' in justice system - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41191311

Wow, you guys lost? Or has this post drawn you out of the politics room.....fuck me we'll have uk centaurs 2 pence worth soon "

Na can't be arsed to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A bit more nuanced, obviously there are degrees and pockets of discrimination in all sorts of directions.

My argument is that firstly that it isn't universal across general and immutable categories like race or gender and secondly that the recent media push to highlight these things does more harm than good.

Everyone will face some sort of discrimination in life and its best to work around it than to obsess over it. "

I don't get what you're saying. Do you think everyone should just stop fighting for equal human rights?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that

So you would prefer to go back to a time before people spoke about privilege and its effects?

Ignorance is bliss, dontcha know?!

Damn that guy must be blissful! "

Bless

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that "

Well this is a different topic but one I'd have some agreement with. Whether the modern web is the cause of this angst, or more concerningly only revealing the truth that was previously hidden - the level of hatred displayed just about everywhere is shocking.

That doesn't mean inequality isn't an issue that needs to be challenged though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Somewhere around 2012 would be ideal.

In the interest of being open minded, maybe you can point out what net improvements have happened since it has become a thing?

Personally, I just see a shit load more hateful people on all sides.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A bit more nuanced, obviously there are degrees and pockets of discrimination in all sorts of directions.

My argument is that firstly that it isn't universal across general and immutable categories like race or gender and secondly that the recent media push to highlight these things does more harm than good.

Everyone will face some sort of discrimination in life and its best to work around it than to obsess over it.

I don't get what you're saying. Do you think everyone should just stop fighting for equal human rights? "

It's the equivalent of the "you've a severe mental health diagnosis? Come on, just pull yourself together" stance!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah. So there is a problem. But stop complaining anyway.

What do you propose?

I want everyone to calm down and start getting along again.

Have you read the mental comments people have on YouTube or Twitter? Some people are full on wound up like coiled springs.

There is real HATRED festering over these ideas, I can't see any net positive effect from that

Well this is a different topic but one I'd have some agreement with. Whether the modern web is the cause of this angst, or more concerningly only revealing the truth that was previously hidden - the level of hatred displayed just about everywhere is shocking.

That doesn't mean inequality isn't an issue that needs to be challenged though."

Now this makes more sense!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No? "

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No? "

No one is talking about fighting.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

And back to the original post which was...

Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

OP clearly loves seeing requests for BBC, nothing bitter here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

It's the equivalent of the "you've a severe mental health diagnosis? Come on, just pull yourself together" stance! "

I'll use your analogy to say that like mental health in america.... The masses are doped up on click bait and weak churnalism

Often times the "cure" causes more harm than good

I know you are chess wizard so why not address my points seriously rather than flippantly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"And back to the original post which was...

Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

OP clearly loves seeing requests for BBC, nothing bitter here "

I like cock. And foof.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

It's the equivalent of the "you've a severe mental health diagnosis? Come on, just pull yourself together" stance!

I'll use your analogy to say that like mental health in america.... The masses are doped up on click bait and weak churnalism

Often times the "cure" causes more harm than good

I know you are chess wizard so why not address my points seriously rather than flippantly "

I am.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?"

Trust in the good nature of humanity for one and let things work themselves out over time.

When not threatened, hungry, impoverished or incited (by propaganda of all forms) humans can be remarkably kind to each other.

Why be an interventionist?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?

Trust in the good nature of humanity for one and let things work themselves out over time.

When not threatened, hungry, impoverished or incited (by propaganda of all forms) humans can be remarkably kind to each other.

Why be an interventionist?

"

Inequality is a result of propaganda?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?

Trust in the good nature of humanity for one and let things work themselves out over time.

When not threatened, hungry, impoverished or incited (by propaganda of all forms) humans can be remarkably kind to each other.

Why be an interventionist?

Inequality is a result of propaganda? "

Solely, I mean?

That's what you're saying?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?"

Trust in the good nature of humanity for one and let things work themselves out over time.

When not threatened, hungry, impoverished or incited (by propaganda of all forms) humans can be remarkably kind to each other.

Why be an interventionist?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*interlude of face doing this... *

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To all above talking about fighting... Give me practical proposals and expected results.

A vague sense of "fight" is more harm than good in my view.

I'm absolutely in favour of improving equality in all shapes and forms but I think it needs to be much more strategic (plus the elephant in the room of everyone's pocket being pinched by the corporate/political power regimes).

First create unity.. No?

I have no sense of what you mean.

How do you create unity?

How do you create equality?

What is *your* solution?

Trust in the good nature of humanity for one and let things work themselves out over time.

When not threatened, hungry, impoverished or incited (by propaganda of all forms) humans can be remarkably kind to each other.

Why be an interventionist?

"

'Trust in the good nature of humanity'!!! your words!! Don't you think standing up for what you believe in, defending the human rights of yourself and others, is a good thing then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

'Trust in the good nature of humanity'!!! your words!! Don't you think standing up for what you believe in, defending the human rights of yourself and others, is a good thing then?"

Yeah of course with a few qualifiers

1. Pick your battles

2. A whacktivist on twitter is not Martin Luther King

3. BLM and some slants of feminism are separatist movements that don't act universally for human rights - at least at their core where there are supremacist leaning thinkers... They use a vague sense of good intention of the average passer as a hook

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

'Trust in the good nature of humanity'!!! your words!! Don't you think standing up for what you believe in, defending the human rights of yourself and others, is a good thing then?

Yeah of course with a few qualifiers

1. Pick your battles

2. A whacktivist on twitter is not Martin Luther King

3. BLM and some slants of feminism are separatist movements that don't act universally for human rights - at least at their core where there are supremacist leaning thinkers... They use a vague sense of good intention of the average passer as a hook

"

1. Tell us which are the "correct" battles?

2. Agreed, but what's the point and who gets to decide who is a whacktivist or not? You?

3. Bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

All I understood from the op is tat men should be judged by the size of their dicks and not their skin colour. Then thr last sentence praising eo.en fr wanting big black cocks although there are some bwcs around as well.

But tbh way drew me to the post was the title and I brought my pop corn.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Inequality is a result of propaganda?

Solely, I mean?

That's what you're saying?"

No

Inequality is tricky...the main driver is probably the prevailing political regime.

I'm talking about propaganda as anything that twists people's minds and takes them away from their basic good nature of shyness and intrepeditation towards strangers but also warmth and goodwill eventually (north korea, nazi germany, all these modern pick which side you are on internet cults).

Frame the problem... Then sell the antidote. Marketing 101 right?

What is your solution?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Inequality is a result of propaganda?

Solely, I mean?

That's what you're saying?

No

Inequality is tricky...the main driver is probably the prevailing political regime.

I'm talking about propaganda as anything that twists people's minds and takes them away from their basic good nature of shyness and intrepeditation towards strangers but also warmth and goodwill eventually (north korea, nazi germany, all these modern pick which side you are on internet cults).

Frame the problem... Then sell the antidote. Marketing 101 right?

What is your solution? "

My solution?

Start by fully understanding the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The correct battles are the ones that are effectual when won...

Im poking fun at those fighting the good fight from their bedrooms. Go into politics if you want to make a difference.

Again what is your solution to "fighting inequality?

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"

'Trust in the good nature of humanity'!!! your words!! Don't you think standing up for what you believe in, defending the human rights of yourself and others, is a good thing then?

Yeah of course with a few qualifiers

1. Pick your battles

2. A whacktivist on twitter is not Martin Luther King

3. BLM and some slants of feminism are separatist movements that don't act universally for human rights - at least at their core where there are supremacist leaning thinkers... They use a vague sense of good intention of the average passer as a hook

"

So it's just white men who have it right then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

So it's just white men who have it right then? "

Far from it... There are all those wankers who are the equal and opposite losers in life to rad feministas in the "manosphere".

There's also white supremacist groups... Each group bounces off each other harder and faster like molecules as the temperature rises

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it? "

We you try your route any deny there is a problem!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The correct battles are the ones that are effectual when won...

Im poking fun at those fighting the good fight from their bedrooms. Go into politics if you want to make a difference.

Again what is your solution to "fighting inequality? "

Again, you make assumptions. You've no idea what my job is. Or where I am this minute.

But it's good you feel good about your points. I'm all for bliss!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it? "

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen."

It's not about me. I asked what you would do remember and you said you would seek to understand the problem.

I've been around the world and know more than I care to know about serious inequality.

Come on... What is the solution?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen."

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love watching these very lively and passionate debates between participants with clits, tits and cocks and asses out with cumshots and snapshots of sex acts as profile pics. Kinda makes you wish all debates in real life went down the same way. We will have come far as a species when we can take seriously one who has his cock out and another flashing her creampied meat curtains.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

It's not about me. I asked what you would do remember and you said you would seek to understand the problem.

I've been around the world and know more than I care to know about serious inequality.

Come on... What is the solution?

"

I haven't said I had a solution. Stop over simplifying and talking nonsense.

And stop flip flopping your points, and pretending you know what everyone else thinks, says, means. I only popped on to say..you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

We you try your route any deny there is a problem! "

The difference my naive friend is that I'm denying the effectiveness of the privilege concept in reducing inequality.

Why do you try to over simplify..? No one is saying there is no inequality anywhere.

I asked you to show me a net positive benefit since it became a thing. To me it is net negative because as I explained already it serves to divide people and has already caused unnecessary violence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss. "

It's the ranty arrival and then lets all just be peaceful twaddle, that irks me. Not too much though. It's rather boring and filling a brief interlude I had.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love watching these very lively and passionate debates between participants with clits, tits and cocks and asses out with cumshots and snapshots of sex acts as profile pics. Kinda makes you wish all debates in real life went down the same way. We will have come far as a species when we can take seriously one who has his cock out and another flashing her creampied meat curtains. "

Although I've got none of the above pics on display.

(But that'd spoil your funny joke, yeah?)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

It's not about me. I asked what you would do remember and you said you would seek to understand the problem.

I've been around the world and know more than I care to know about serious inequality.

Come on... What is the solution?

I haven't said I had a solution. Stop over simplifying and talking nonsense.

And stop flip flopping your points, and pretending you know what everyone else thinks, says, means. I only popped on to say..you don't. "

That's exactly my point... Why go battle without a game plan.

Aimless fighting is having a net negative effect on global sanity and is only rising tensions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

We you try your route any deny there is a problem!

The difference my naive friend is that I'm denying the effectiveness of the privilege concept in reducing inequality.

Why do you try to over simplify..? No one is saying there is no inequality anywhere.

I asked you to show me a net positive benefit since it became a thing. To me it is net negative because as I explained already it serves to divide people and has already caused unnecessary violence. "

Shouting in a vacuum! It's a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

It's not about me. I asked what you would do remember and you said you would seek to understand the problem.

I've been around the world and know more than I care to know about serious inequality.

Come on... What is the solution?

I haven't said I had a solution. Stop over simplifying and talking nonsense.

And stop flip flopping your points, and pretending you know what everyone else thinks, says, means. I only popped on to say..you don't.

That's exactly my point... Why go battle without a game plan.

Aimless fighting is having a net negative effect on global sanity and is only rising tensions. "

Still bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I gotta head. Enjoy your bliss

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man  over a year ago

maidstone


"And back to the original post which was...

Nice to see the diversity in the swinging community! Anyone thinking white privilege is to be taken seriously obviously hasn't seen the countless requests for big black cocks!! Always good to see a black cock lover.

OP clearly loves seeing requests for BBC, nothing bitter here "

If in doubt read the above comment. It's been read and understood exactly how it was ment to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss. "

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

"

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love watching these very lively and passionate debates between participants with clits, tits and cocks and asses out with cumshots and snapshots of sex acts as profile pics. Kinda makes you wish all debates in real life went down the same way. We will have come far as a species when we can take seriously one who has his cock out and another flashing her creampied meat curtains.

Although I've got none of the above pics on display.

(But that'd spoil your funny joke, yeah?)"

Not at all, you can always make yourself relevant to it by whipping out some peachy macaroon

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level."

Oh don't burst his wee bubble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love watching these very lively and passionate debates between participants with clits, tits and cocks and asses out with cumshots and snapshots of sex acts as profile pics. Kinda makes you wish all debates in real life went down the same way. We will have come far as a species when we can take seriously one who has his cock out and another flashing her creampied meat curtains.

Although I've got none of the above pics on display.

(But that'd spoil your funny joke, yeah?)

Not at all, you can always make yourself relevant to it by whipping out some peachy macaroon "

Bwahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/news-and-views/opinion/when-people-claim-equality-has-gone-too-far-it-might-just-be-starting-to-make-a-difference-20170926-gyoy0e.html

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level."

OK but what society? And where?

And in that case why was my white maleness rolled out as a limp argument by exhibit A above.

Exhibit A = Divisive comments. Some opinions don't qualify. Us and them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Superflash, keep it in the forum sweetie. PM your "debate" here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level."

.

So we can talk about Islam at a "societal level" without some liberal Wally saying.... What every Muslim?.

I'm not bothered either way, I just wanna know what the rules are before I say anything, coz you know, you like to change the rules mid argument

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Superflash, keep it in the forum sweetie. PM your "debate" here.

"

I thought you were busy saving the world

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Superflash, keep it in the forum sweetie. PM your "debate" here.

I thought you were busy saving the world "

You making up stories again?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/news-and-views/opinion/when-people-claim-equality-has-gone-too-far-it-might-just-be-starting-to-make-a-difference-20170926-gyoy0e.html

"

An article about silicon Valley from australia... Both niche and nerdy (and curiously hyper privileged global locals). Fits the pop whacktivist raised on the Internet and never learned to think profile nicely

#Notauniversalconcept

QED

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/news-and-views/opinion/when-people-claim-equality-has-gone-too-far-it-might-just-be-starting-to-make-a-difference-20170926-gyoy0e.html

An article about silicon Valley from australia... Both niche and nerdy (and curiously hyper privileged global locals). Fits the pop whacktivist raised on the Internet and never learned to think profile nicely

#Notauniversalconcept

QED"

I only posted it to get you to say QED.

I'm almost at "full house" on Superflash bingo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love you too baby

How you spam the thread because you have all blind faith and no argument

Screaming injustice while in the 1% of humanity

Will you marry me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Love you too baby

How you spam the thread because you have all blind faith and no argument

Screaming injustice while in the 1% of humanity

Will you marry me? "

Full house!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss. "

Interviewer: How do you stop racism?

Morgan Freeman: Stop talking about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

cant we all just get along and fuck and have some saucy fun, ethnicity shouldnt matter. i know for some it is a preference, i myself have been with black women,caucasian women and mixed race women. we are all the same race. the human race. the sooner people stop judging others the better. skin colour,age,sexual preference,height,weight. it should not matter in the 21st century. we are all in this life together and you only get one life. live it without prejudice and live it fully. otherwise what is the point. people are not born racist or sexist or ageist. it is something that is learned or passed down. stop teaching it and passing it down people for fuck sake.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i forgot to include religion in my post. probably for the best anyway

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level..

So we can talk about Islam at a "societal level" without some liberal Wally saying.... What every Muslim?.

I'm not bothered either way, I just wanna know what the rules are before I say anything, coz you know, you like to change the rules mid argument "

Yes, you can. However most people want to do the opposite when talking about Muslims on this site. Most of the topics are a about terrorism or sex gangs. In those circumstances people take the behaviour of a few individuals, and apply it to the majority.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

Only because you misunderstand it and think that it applies to every single individual, instead of understanding that everyone else is talking about it at a societal level.

OK but what society? And where?

And in that case why was my white maleness rolled out as a limp argument by exhibit A above.

Exhibit A = Divisive comments. Some opinions don't qualify. Us and them. "

The OP was talking about on fab, which is predominately UK based site, so I presume he was talking about British society.

You being a white male has been brought up multiple times by yourself!

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London


"OK how do we begin to understand the problem? What do we do once we have defined it?

Please go and educate yourself. Speak to people who are feeling lack of privilege. Listen.

Unfortunately, there are far too many white dudes who are too convinced of their own cleverness to try this 'listening' lark.

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Which brings me to the core argument.

Being white and having a penis doesn't de facto make you privileged.

It's over simplistic to point of ridiculousness to categorise humanity that way.

What about a white guy who grows up in poverty? Or grows up in an impoverished nation vs the many relatively very privileged black women in the world?

The model fails under the slightest stress.

It's a piss poor categorisation or model of human equality that only applies across small sectors of the global population..mostly America where left leaning (I'm devoutly liberal myself) media nerds adopted an Internet cult from and brought it mainstream.

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Dude, you don't even understand what the term 'privilege' is and how it is applied. 'white privilege' does not mean 'every single white person has it easier than every single non-white person'. It means white people have certain advantages in western society solely because they are white.

There is economic privilege, straight privilege, all kinds. It's a way to get people to think about societal biases and understand that other people have different experiences to you.

Can you get your head round the idea that women and black people experience life differently to you, and that no matter how clever you are you can't automatically understand their points of view? And thus can't dismiss them?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London


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Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Interviewer: How do you stop racism?

Morgan Freeman: Stop talking about it "

Oh, so you're willing to listen to a black person's opinion when they agree with you? Funny, that. I could quote you many examples of completely the opposite opinion, and you'd ignore them.

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By *ames1763Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen

I like this thread , yes things like this are taught and passed down but the part that was left out was they are taught when you are a dependant of the person teaching you.

It is very difficult to see clearly until you become totally independent of something, this is why it is good to look at everything from the outside and then you will see clearly.

Everytime anyone points one finger at anything , remember they have three fingers pointing back at themselves.

In my opinion it is very important for every lady to have financial freedom and be empowered and then they will freely make their choices.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Welcome, the last two intelligent posters.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Welcome, the last two intelligent posters. "

Make that 3

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


".

Amazing how many white male experts on feminism and racism there are, and how often those experts tend to feel that women and black people should just make less of a fuss.

Interviewer: How do you stop racism?

Morgan Freeman: Stop talking about it

Oh, so you're willing to listen to a black person's opinion when they agree with you? Funny, that. I could quote you many examples of completely the opposite opinion, and you'd ignore them. "

Because unlike you I don't judge opinions based on who said them.....Just on if what they said is smart.

I like all people equally no matter who they are or where they come from and judge them based on how they act.

I accept your point above but only on an individual level (as any group designation is destined to wrong in some cases) and to be honest I don't really care about anyone's struggles in the western world because everyone has problems and everyone experiences discrimination in some form but ultimately they are all first world problems and we have it very good in the western world.

When you view things from this level... I pose this question:

Is trivial whinging from all sides worth breaking up society for with all these "the grass is greener on your side mate" style fights?

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