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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've always wondered what qualities a man truly likes in a woman, whether physical attractiveness is a bigger factor than personality. Whether you'd rather have a woman with a massively ego and attractive than a woman less attractive but humble? |
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By *ontanMan
over a year ago
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Guess it depends what im looking for as well tbh. If its just abit of casual fun then I dont mind an ego. A short term challenge is fun. But if I was talking about a partner would much prefer somone I dont feel I have to compete with day to day lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me if women are ugly on the inside then I'm not bothered how attractive they are on the outside. If someone stimulates me mentally then they'll win me over physically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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physical at first, your own personal likes... me it's tits - bigger the Better!!!! bum, face then figure, but if not physical attracted then nothing will stir.
Then its personality, lady can have great figure, boobs and the rest but if she's up her own arse, I'd rather move on!
Laugh when I hear "oh it's definitely personality" like your look twice at somone you don't consider to be attractive to even get to know his or her personality! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for just a fuck looks can trump personality
for a regular fwb then personality becomes important, but you need the physical attraction to meet in the first place.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
Haha you go girl!"
You've got a gorgeous little face on you, eyebrows are absolutely on point and where did you get the tennis skirt from, I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
Haha you go girl!
You've got a gorgeous little face on you, eyebrows are absolutely on point and where did you get the tennis skirt from, I love it. "
wait did you just compliment another woman!? 
I'm pretty sure this is a sign of the end if days, anyone seen 4 blokes on horseback wondering around? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
Haha you go girl!
You've got a gorgeous little face on you, eyebrows are absolutely on point and where did you get the tennis skirt from, I love it.
wait did you just compliment another woman!?
I'm pretty sure this is a sign of the end if days, anyone seen 4 blokes on horseback wondering around?"
I can give compliments, it's when they want to ride the same dick as me that's when my prickles come out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
I love a "bird" with a sense of humour, and you certainly make me laugh  "
with a big pair of tits |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
Haha you go girl!
You've got a gorgeous little face on you, eyebrows are absolutely on point and where did you get the tennis skirt from, I love it. "
Aw thanks darling, loving your lingerie!! My tennis skirt is from H&M, they don't sell the opposite colour skirt now!xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm wicked to talk to and alright to look at and have nice tits and fanny.
Haha you go girl!
You've got a gorgeous little face on you, eyebrows are absolutely on point and where did you get the tennis skirt from, I love it.
wait did you just compliment another woman!?
I'm pretty sure this is a sign of the end if days, anyone seen 4 blokes on horseback wondering around?
I can give compliments, it's when they want to ride the same dick as me that's when my prickles come out "
You could share it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here is my attempt to answer this:
Personality is vital and fixed for me. In other words a deal breaker. Sense of humour and a positive attitude.
Most importantly not having the need to belittle people. I have seen this way too many times online, clubs and socials. That always puts me off. Be confident in yourself, but don't put others down.
Only if all of the above is compatible then the physical side comes into it. And this is not fixed.
All I know is...
From all the women I have a friendship with they all have similar personalities, but physically some are slim some are curvy some are tall some are short... you get the picture.
Confused? I know it's bloody complicated, but not easy to explain this so like I said that is my attempt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Research often seems to show that what men say and what they do can diverge. For example:
One study found a majority of men say they like intelligent women but more often date women they consider less intelligent.
Linked to this, they also say they prefer brunettes, whom they see as more intelligent, yet tests revealed they more often try to chat up blondes.
My own research has found that they'd shag mud if it wore a bit of lippy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Research often seems to show that what men say and what they do can diverge. For example:
One study found a majority of men say they like intelligent women but more often date women they consider less intelligent.
Linked to this, they also say they prefer brunettes, whom they see as more intelligent, yet tests revealed they more often try to chat up blondes.
My own research has found that they'd shag mud if it wore a bit of lippy."
Who did the research? A woman or a man?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I'm more comfortable around someone with a nice personality and similar interests, no normies. Idk whether physical attractiveness is more important, maybe they should have both lol |
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Looks are definately important..... but being attracted to someone they have to have a nice feel to them... I mean good chemistry otherwise it's a no go.
Nice teeth... eyes... you get my drift lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men like food."
I have been known to empty fridges... but that is over a weekend or a few days. Not that greedy.
Besides that is a whole different topic.
God I luuuuuurve food! Midnight snacks are the best.
Oh yessss, licking lips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman who is confident with her body and likes showing it off is a turn on but you can take it too far. Loving yourself too much and arrogance are a big turn off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no shortage of physically attractive/hot women so I'm going to choose the hot woman with a warm and kind personality. I would not choose a woman just because she looks physically appealing if her attitude and spirit is deplorable. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's so obvious that a lot of males who answered in this thread are very conscious that women will read their well crafted answers..."
And some of them may be telling the truth. Like Adam69XXX said:
"Personality is vital and fixed for me... From all the women I have a friendship with they all have similar personalities, but physically some are slim some are curvy some are tall some are short... you get the picture."
That's similar to my view, only I like men as well as women. I state so on my profile; I really don't have a physical type. I do have a mental one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think I have a particular type as I'm attracted to different types of ladies but there are physical characteristics I definitely don't find attractive.
I'm not keen on ladies taller than myself or ladies that would be considered BBW's. I also really don't like tattoos, one or two small ones are just about ok.
I do really like peachy bums and toned legs.
All of the above is irrelevant however if I can't talk to and have a laugh with them. I find personality is more of a turn on or turn off than physical characteristics although I need both to want someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's so obvious that a lot of males who answered in this thread are very conscious that women will read their well crafted answers...
And some of them may be telling the truth. Like Adam69XXX said:Personality is vital and fixed for me... From all the women I have a friendship with they all have similar personalities, but physically some are slim some are curvy some are tall some are short... you get the picture.
That's similar to my view, only I like men as well as women. I state so on my profile; I really don't have a physical type. I do have a mental one."
Yes I was telling the truth Ligeia. I am exactly the same online as I am in person. I will continue to be exactly like this otherwise it will be pointless posting.
I mainly use the forums for friendly banter with plenty of giggles, but I do contribute in all different types of threads such as this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Research often seems to show that what men say and what they do can diverge. For example:
One study found a majority of men say they like intelligent women but more often date women they consider less intelligent.
Linked to this, they also say they prefer brunettes, whom they see as more intelligent, yet tests revealed they more often try to chat up blondes.
My own research has found that they'd shag mud if it wore a bit of lippy."
never a truer word said (shag mud) made me spill my cuppa lmao) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think we be lying if we said looks aren't that important. *in the voice of Lloyd grossman**
Id rather have a girl with a beautiful personality ya. Bulshit im shallow as fuck. Always looks for me in the first instance. If we have a brain cell between us and can string a few sentences together then we that's a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered what qualities a man truly likes in a woman, whether physical attractiveness is a bigger factor than personality. Whether you'd rather have a woman with a massively ego and attractive than a woman less attractive but humble?"
Someone kind, positive, smiley, but isnt a walk over, has common sense, is open minded, and hopefully looks nice too, but thats a bonus. |
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