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Fab so lonely after a break up
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By *ontan OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
When a marriage dies its traumatic.. you lose your best freind and lover.
But as a swinger you also lose your wing buddy, sexy side kick, and the most intimate and trusting relationship that vanilla couples would never understand. It can take years of trust to grow into a mature swinging couple and when you loose it its like loosing abit of yourself.
And then fab.. a place you loved so dearly as a couple and have so many adventures on becomes like the wild west.. and people treat you like an outcast  I take my hat off to the single males but for me... the excitment came from having adventures with the person I loved and trusted the most. Miss her so bad.
Only hope I will soon inough find love again and another partner in crime.. and this site wont feel lonely anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What feels really good is when the couple's you thought were friends realise that there is a recently single bi female on the scene (and wronglu assuming that the split is acrimonious) start to slag you off in an attempt to win favour with them!
 
Still a lot of fun to be had as a single man though  |
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By *ontan OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
Thankyou  im not looking for a relationship on here tbh not that I would pass the opportunity by if I found somone interesting..
Been single about four months now, not in a rush to meet somone but the lonelyness is a killer.
#Rock n hard place :/ |
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
Paisley |
"When a marriage dies its traumatic.. you lose your best freind and lover.
But as a swinger you also lose your wing buddy, sexy side kick, and the most intimate and trusting relationship that vanilla couples would never understand. It can take years of trust to grow into a mature swinging couple and when you loose it its like loosing abit of yourself.
And then fab.. a place you loved so dearly as a couple and have so many adventures on becomes like the wild west.. and people treat you like an outcast I take my hat off to the single males but for me... the excitment came from having adventures with the person I loved and trusted the most. Miss her so bad.
Only hope I will soon inough find love again and another partner in crime.. and this site wont feel lonely anymore. "
Sorry to hear that. Fab should make you have hope and you will find it :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that mate...had a look at your green arrow and wondered how that came about  "
Indeed. So did I.
One of OP's veris indicates he already has a new play partner too. |
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By *ontan OP Man
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Sorry to hear that mate...had a look at your green arrow and wondered how that came about
Indeed. So did I.
One of OP's veris indicates he already has a new play partner too. "
Dont know what you mean by arrow??
And yea I do have a play freind but the clue is in the name freind.
Fucking is just fuckin without feelings.
Im talking about the loss of somone you love. Playing with your wife.. nothing comes close to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou im not looking for a relationship on here tbh not that I would pass the opportunity by if I found somone interesting..
Been single about four months now, not in a rush to meet somone but the lonelyness is a killer.
#Rock n hard place :/"
Oh weren't you asking for a bf for her a couple weeks ago oh green arrow. |
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"Sorry to hear that mate...had a look at your green arrow and wondered how that came about
Indeed. So did I.
One of OP's veris indicates he already has a new play partner too.
Dont know what you mean by arrow??
And yea I do have a play freind but the clue is in the name freind.
Fucking is just fuckin without feelings.
Im talking about the loss of somone you love. Playing with your wife.. nothing comes close to that."
There's a green arrow next to everyone's name in the forum. If you click on it, it shows the last 35 threads the person commented on. |
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
Hitchin |
"When a marriage dies its traumatic.. you lose your best freind and lover.
But as a swinger you also lose your wing buddy, sexy side kick, and the most intimate and trusting relationship that vanilla couples would never understand. It can take years of trust to grow into a mature swinging couple and when you loose it its like loosing abit of yourself.
And then fab.. a place you loved so dearly as a couple and have so many adventures on becomes like the wild west.. and people treat you like an outcast I take my hat off to the single males but for me... the excitment came from having adventures with the person I loved and trusted the most. Miss her so bad.
Only hope I will soon inough find love again and another partner in crime.. and this site wont feel lonely anymore. "
Take a break... after my ex left me I had about 6 weeks off fab, and came back when It felt right. I suppose it took me a while to settle into fab life as a singleton but I'm all sorted now lol
Hope things get better for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're looking for single women I'd put some new pictures up. I'm sure I'm not alone when I say pictures of guys hanging out of other birds are the least appealing pictures you can have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But as a swinger you also lose your wing buddy, sexy side kick, and the most intimate and trusting relationship that vanilla couples would never understand. It can take years of trust to grow into a mature swinging couple and when you loose it its like loosing abit of yourself.
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but on the plus side you get to keep displaying pictures of her genitals to random strangers.
so...swings and round abouts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thats a heart felt post isn't it? Op, you might find someone and you might not. Just continue on your adventure, as long as you welcome change (because it must be different than with your partner) you'll be good.
Mrbee - lonely in Manchester. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only two weeks ago you were looking for a bf for the wife ? Green arrow
In stories and fantasies section"
The power of words. It's a case of being careful what you wish for. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
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"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
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It's a break up not cancer.
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
It's a break up not cancer.
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Just because it's not a physical thing you can see it doesn't mean the feeling of pain is any less...would you say the same about a mental illness for instance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
It's a break up not cancer.
Just because it's not a physical thing you can see it doesn't mean the feeling of pain is any less...would you say the same about a mental illness for instance?"
yeah sure I would.
it's a break up not mental illnes. |
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"Hope those of you being sarcastic an uncharitable and picking at his profile and previous forum posts don't ever have to feel the hurt he's clearly suffering.
Feeling lonely and missing your former loved one absolutely sucks! They say time is a great healer but I never believe that. Surround yourself with friends who lift you and get out in the real world doing things that make you happy.
Bearing your soul on the forum like this is just reaching out for help and support...show a little compassion eh people
It's a break up not cancer.
Just because it's not a physical thing you can see it doesn't mean the feeling of pain is any less...would you say the same about a mental illness for instance?
yeah sure I would.
it's a break up not mental illnes."
Your all heart dude,ever thought about a career as a councillor?
Don't expect to earn a decent living tho,in fact I think that you would probably go hungry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time is the only thing that will help you and at times it will not be easy .. Find other things in life you like doing and be nice to yourself and take time for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When a marriage dies its traumatic.. you lose your best freind and lover.
But as a swinger you also lose your wing buddy, sexy side kick, and the most intimate and trusting relationship that vanilla couples would never understand. It can take years of trust to grow into a mature swinging couple and when you loose it its like loosing abit of yourself.
And then fab.. a place you loved so dearly as a couple and have so many adventures on becomes like the wild west.. and people treat you like an outcast I take my hat off to the single males but for me... the excitment came from having adventures with the person I loved and trusted the most. Miss her so bad.
Only hope I will soon inough find love again and another partner in crime.. and this site wont feel lonely anymore. "
I am sorry to hear.
When one door closes another opens.
Keep smiling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP if things get really bad Samaritans offer support and advice to people feeling hurt and up-set .. Sometimes its just good to chat about how your feeling and get it off your chest And get some support . xx[[[ BIG HUGS]]]. |
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"I feel the same OP
Fab Jst not the same since I split wiv my ex Jst don't think my heart in it any more to swing "
Big hugs I found that in time the hurt becomes a distant memory and there's fun and happiness in your future. X |
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